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Poll: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer?Love Marriage: 64% (60 votes)Arranged Marriage: 13% (13 votes) any: 17% (16 votes) don't want to get married: 4% (4 votes) This poll has ended |
Early Marriage Versus Late Marriage Which Do You Prefer? / White Wedding Or Traditional Marriage Which One Do Yo Prefere? / An Arranged Marriage: Is It Right? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by dani1luv: 3:24pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Moy!!! nor go marry o |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by lysaa(f): 3:25pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Tgirl4real: where ur treasure is, there ur heart will be also babes. . |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by Tgirl4real(f): 3:28pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Yes, another thing . . . he must be a able to write good rhymes (rap I mean ). He must be a lover of footy and he shouldn't be the type that is crazy about LEPA SHANDYs. Hope I'm not asking for too much Sisi jinx lysaa: Wetin be ya own I was thinking everyone will be a Christian na |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by dani1luv: 3:30pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
continue |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by Moyola(f): 3:33pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
dani1luv: hehe!! 1luv, whai naa? |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by Tgirl4real(f): 3:34pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
dani1luv: U be Sisi Jinx |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by spikedcylinder: 3:36pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Forward your yeye CV to Seun and leave my sisi in peace jor. |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by SisiJinx: 3:38pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Hmmmm, Me thinks Tgirl and Dani want someone to play intermediary for 'em. I'm open!! |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by dani1luv: 3:42pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
@ Tgirl im not[/color] Moyola:Coz you are too old to be single @ Sisi Jinx How you take know abi u take style spy on us |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by Tgirl4real(f): 3:46pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx: What are u saying Sisi . . . no vex me o. I said arrange. Wetin be my own na, just find d right guy that fits the bill |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by JJYOU: 3:48pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx:i always suspected this is one of your hidden talents where was you when i needed your services? where is your part 2? |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by KarmaMod(f): 3:52pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
sisi, who excatly would you want to arranged this for you? as in you'd accpet anyone or must they be aware of your "requirements" |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by JJYOU: 3:59pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
KarmaMod:karmaMod, she could just try sorting you and our david out. that would be nice if you dont mind. |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by lysaa(f): 4:14pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Tgirl4real: na lie o, I believe the post that said. ."I forgot"! |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by SisiJinx: 4:16pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Tgirl4real: Rotflmao!! What if I have find the right guy and it just happens to be Dani?? Wachu gonna do??!! JJYOU: I don't know if I like the fact that you know me so well?? Part two is coming. . . my hubby is out of town right now, so I'm sorta in a limbo. You know my life revolves around him. |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by dani1luv: 4:19pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx:Please dont make a scene here |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by SisiJinx: 4:22pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
KarmaMod: Lol, usually it is the 'rents who will do this and they will be aware of your requirements. Most people confuse arranged marriage to being forced into marriage and they couldn't be more wrong. It's could be something as simple as organizing an event, have both parties meet (they know why they are there. . . so no pretense or coyness) and you talk. |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by KarmaMod(f): 4:23pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx: I consider that as "giving a push", not really arranged and most parents consider what THEY think are suitable requirements, not yours. |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by Tgirl4real(f): 4:24pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx: I hope he doesn't give boring jokes If he does, be ready to marry husband 2. Wait a min, did he submit an application, ehn? Which kain match maker u be sef . . . I am replacing u with busy_body ASAP |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by SisiJinx: 4:26pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
dani1luv: Oh oh! I stepped in doodoo with that one huh? See ya Seriously though. . . getting with Tgirl? You should be so lucky. |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by Tgirl4real(f): 4:35pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx: awwwww . . . so sweet I changed ma mind. U is d one |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by SisiJinx: 4:36pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
KarmaMod: Yeah, those are the overbearing parents looking out for their own self interest. About Betrothal, it is not as archaic or horribly, horribly bad as some think it is. I know a few girls who were betrothed to guys (not old men ooh) when they were ye high and right now, they are together and very happy. I guess in the end it just depends what the marriage means to the parents. . . Protecting your self interest or having your child's happiness at heart. Tgirl4real: Ya know I got your back!!!!! |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by spikedcylinder: 4:57pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx: No o, people don't confuse nada. With the situation you described above, its more like a blind date than an arranged marriage. Here, both parties meet, test the waters and see if they are compatible. They don't have to get married if they don't really want to. With arrangee, you have to marry the person. Prior meeting or not. |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by dani1luv: 7:07pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Oh oh! I stepped in doodoo with that one huh?Come bak here dear Do you say lucky . . . . hmmmm |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by SisiJinx: 7:28pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
Yes. . . Yes. . . I said lucky |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by ifyalways(f): 8:26pm On Feb 02, 2009 |
@Topic,Both work,both fail |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by OBVIOUS(m): 11:51pm On Feb 08, 2009 |
Arranged marriage. Both families have a mutual understanding what should take place. Love is not a valid reason to get married to someone. Love fades. |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by sexyLeamon(f): 3:16am On May 05, 2009 |
OBVIOUS:I disagree with that. real love dosn't |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by Leilah(f): 2:06pm On May 05, 2009 |
When I was younger I had an arranged marriage through the mosque. It didnt work out and I have a child from that marriage. Thankfully, five years ago I married again to someone who I loved and knew well and still do. |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by sexyLeamon(f): 6:16am On May 08, 2009 |
Leilah:perfect example of the downfall of arranged marriage |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by MrCrackles(m): 11:56am On May 08, 2009 |
Bring on love marriage Thunder fire arrangee stuvs!! |
Re: Love Marriage Or Arranged Marriage Which Do You Prefer? by uzwu: 11:59am On May 08, 2009 |
Arranged marriage is not it at all. So intending arranged couple beware. Even marriage between two best friends that have known each other is not that easy not to talk more of two strangers. |
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