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| Relationship/friendship! by Nobody: 8:39am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Hey peeps Ok, this is a big issue in realtionship . Ladies/ guys would you allow ur bae to be friendly with your friends or bestfriend? Have you ever liked your baes friend and wish you could swap ? Can you forgive a guy/chic that cheated on you with your bestfriend? Can you forgive the friend? Do you think confiding with friends can be the downfall of a relationship? .. Discuss!  Share your experience. Advice. Cc Lalasticlala Ishilove 2 Shares
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| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Nobody: 8:41am On Apr 19, 2015 |
 Once had something with 2 bestfriends and I didn't like the outcome  . Man will always be greedy and that's why self-control is important.Confiding in friends might not always be the downfall of relationships. |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Nobody: 8:43am On Apr 19, 2015 |
I will comment after church  |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Nobody: 8:44am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Since na just girlfriend I go just move on! Dem matter dey baba God hands God will punish dem and devil wey go push dem na? 3 Likes |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by 2dice(m): 8:46am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Comment later.. Lala no church today? |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Nobody: 8:49am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Let me touch your questions one after the other. I believe there should be a limit to the closeness between my female friend and my boyfriend. They can be casual friends but I would definitely not be okay with seeing then together all the time. As you know, something could lead to something, so I'd prefer a bit of distance between their closeness. To your second question, yes I once had a crush on my boyfriends friend because he was really good looking and he had this way of talking that I liked but I was young and naïve then. To your third question, my answer is no. I would break up with my boyfriend if I catch him cheating on me with my friend. For him to cheat on me with my best friend shows that he lacks respect and value for me. It is also a reflection of his low level of commitment towards our relationship. To your final question. I believe your relationship is between you and your boyfriend only, so I don't think the details of it should be shared with an external party. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Cutehector(m): 8:50am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Tinky minky pft |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by SleekyP(m): 8:51am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Lala247: In church.... BRB |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Enegod(m): 8:52am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Have you ever liked your baes friend and wish you could swap? NO Can you forgive a guy/chic that cheated on you with your bestfriend? N0 Do you think confiding with friends can be the downfall of a relationship? N0 Discuss! we dey exam hall?  Share your experience. No experience Lala247 you should become teacher 3 Likes |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Young03(m): 8:58am On Apr 19, 2015 |
This topic is makin me go angry cus its remindin me of how my best frnd bleeped my gal in my absence. Still thinking of wat to do to them. 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by sinizia: 9:09am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Lala247: 1. Why not? I've never stopped my babe from being friends with any of my friends. All I did was intimate her on the characters of my bad friends, telling her what they can do or cannot do. Telling her the shady characters of some of them. Telling her who to trust and not to trust. In the same vein, I will stop my babe from being friends with any of my friends I know their association would hurt her or lead her to path of ignominy. 2. Yes I have. But I've never gone after any of my babe's friends while or after dating (I could only wish which I think is normal. Even many married folks do it sometimes), It's a principle I uphold at all times. I don't date my ex's friends. Never for now. 3. I can and will forgive both. Both our closeness or level of trust between each other will never remain the same again. 4. Yes I think so. So I'm very mindful of what I share with anyone about my relationship. Walls they say have ears, no-one can be trusted. And too many cooks spoil the broth. Do your shít between both of you before poisonous advices or menacing intrusions send the foundation of your relationship crashing down faster than a pack of cards. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Twaci(f): 9:11am On Apr 19, 2015 |
*sipping holy water* Lala247, all these questions.... 1) I don't let ma girls get too close to ma guy...  we know ourselves2) Na, once I go into a relationship, ma eyes are on ma guy only. No time to start thinking of his friends  3) If ma guy cheats on me with ma bestie, I'll forgive both but will surely not forget. I'll let both of them go. 4) No. I confide in ma bestie about everything...even ma relationship. But I don't let her judgments cloud mine What's ma score Aunty Lala247? 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by vizkiz: 9:15am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Young03: I think you better move on or else you will just die thinking 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by agarawu23(m): 9:16am On Apr 19, 2015 |
1. I am the jealous type so therefore I can't accept much closeness between my chick and friends 2. know eyes will see better thing and won't wish to have it but I can't swap chick. that's craxy3. If God can forgive, who am I ? but I Will never forget. happy Sunday |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by sinizia: 9:18am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Young03: Quit thinking of what to do, let it go. The more you are planning your revenge, the more the sadness eats away your happiness. Take it this way - the Lord just showed you the real colour of your so-called "good" friend and ex. Imagine if that girl had mask her evil traits so well and you end up marrying her, bro, you are fùcked for life!! The best revenge you can plot for them is to forget the pains, face your future and prosper in life, so when they hear of you, their conscience will claw at them about the guy their stùpid actions cost them. 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Mcbussy(m): 9:29am On Apr 19, 2015 |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by agarawu23(m): 9:31am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Enegod: |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Nobody: 9:33am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Young03:if i were u d best revenge 4 both of them are: i will sleep with my bestfriend's girl, and let him know and number two is i will Bleep my girlfriend's best friend and let her know. "that is what i call SWEET REVENGE. HAPI SUNDAY 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Mcbussy(m): 9:36am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Honestly, I love it when my gf is close to my friends, but I don't like it when her closest friends are guys.Especially those that pop out of d blue. Yes, I mean those ones u never knew existed...and all of a sudden they wanna have some kinda male to female "platonic" bonding time wif ur bae...nah wa o  1 Like |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by MrNL(m): 9:41am On Apr 19, 2015 |
I have said it before, I will still say it again, its all about the trust,wat da hell r u doing with him/her if u don't trust em |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Nobody: 9:49am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Lala the answa to all ur questions is NO, i cant discuss my relationship with my friends(bcaus i dnt have a best friend) becaus they hardly know her becaus they often c her like ones in every 4 months, so they cant even b close. there is a way i run my relationship with my girl dat even if we c each oda everyday, my friends dont c her with their eyes, dats me 4 u, and i dnt believe in my life dat a girl will cheat on me bcaus i make her c me as her world and precious egg n she cant risk in letting a precious egg break. 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by demmy0325(m): 9:54am On Apr 19, 2015 |
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| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Nobody: 9:57am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Calling CTU for immediate answer.... |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Young03(m): 10:15am On Apr 19, 2015 |
sweetorgasm: thank u , only u understand my pains |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Young03(m): 10:17am On Apr 19, 2015 |
sinizia: dats wat i am doing nw, bt future can tell... |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by naijaboiy: 11:10am On Apr 19, 2015 |
[size=19pt]NO! [/size] |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Nobody: 11:50am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Nawaa ooo see Jamb QUESTIONS..... anyway the poster below me can help me out 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by kinglekan: 12:24pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
Lalacious how many marks for these questions naa? ***Modified*** Lala247: Of course, I sure don't want her being enemies with my bestfriend/friends. But the "friendliness" should be defined and within reasonable context of the word "friendly" Lala247: Na "Phone Swap?" Lala247: Forgive? Well probably sha, Forget?? NEVER!!!! Lala247: Emphatically! YESSSSS!!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by kinglekan: 12:25pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by danbrowndmf(m): 12:26pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
My Friend Is Dating One of My Ex,they started while we were still dating,am nt hvn any bad blood with ma guy, My Ex was after ma Friend,it was boldly written on her face. My Cousine's girlfriend is now dating my cousine's Bestfriend,while he was away,now he has left both of them. In My own opinion,i let my Gf get close to my guys but not all of them, inshort i dnt follow kids anymore,only a kid will wnt to date ur friend,while both of you are still dating. A matured Lady who knows what she want wunt leav u to date ur BestFriend only kids do that. so i advice guys to know the level of mentality of the lady they want to date. When ever My guy start Dating a Girl,If i have any crush on the girl,it drys off immidiately she accept My friend cc Lala247 1 Like |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Oahray: 12:38pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
Lala247:yes Have you ever liked your baes friend and wish you could swap ?no. Can you forgive a guy/chic that cheated on you with your bestfriend?hell no! Can you forgive the friend?no! Do you think confiding with friends can be the downfall of a relationship? ..yes it can, though it doesn't necessarily have to be so. When you confide in someone, it is an open invitation to them to try to influence you. Now if they truly do not have your interest at heart, you might get a very nice stab in the back or a healthy push in a sick direction. The key is discretion. Know what not to say. |
| Re: Relationship/friendship! by Nobody: 1:25pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
danbrowndmf: Nice write up hun . Yh its true about the kids part .. But even mature ppl can fall victim to this |
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