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Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by deathwing(m): 1:26pm On May 11, 2015
I'm kinda new to the dating game, but one thing has always piqued my curiosity.

I know men generally have some level of responsibility, especially when they start working.

For some, it involves sending money home to their mum or sister in school every month or so. Now, some guys can send 10k to their struggling mothers in a month after complaining about economy blah blah...but are able to take a girl they just met out/ go shopping/give her money...and generally spend in the realm of 50k in a blink!

How do you guys rationalize this? Don't you feel guilty? Is that the way things should be done? Should your mom take second place to your passions? I am genuinely curious
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by falconey(m): 1:28pm On May 11, 2015
this why they say guys are 'stupid'.........

Girls will hate you for this, this is a market spoiler to them, they don't even care about you (just your money) not to talk of your mum.
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by dechandel(f): 1:28pm On May 11, 2015
undecided undecided undecided
Someone should please define the word "girlfriend" for me angry
And also explain what "family first" means??
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by IamOdin: 1:29pm On May 11, 2015
Are you not a f00l?
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by Nobody: 1:33pm On May 11, 2015
Depends on how much you make.

If you make a million naira a month, you can afford to spend 50k. If you make 100k a month and spend 50k on a girl you aren't married to, you're a big fool.

Your brain should be pulled out of your head, and flogged.

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Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by marvelous000: 1:34pm On May 11, 2015

some guys can send 10k to their struggling mothers
in a month after complaining about economy blah
blah...but are able to take a girl they just met out/
go shopping/give her money...and generally spend
in the realm of 50k in a blink!



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Any guy who does this.
Deserv to face "FIRING SQUAD"angryangry.
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Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by tupem: 1:37pm On May 11, 2015
what a question!
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by Nobody: 1:38pm On May 11, 2015
For a wife or fiancee,yep cos she is now ur 1st family,
but 4 a babe?ion think so.infact in any situation,no matter how much a man spends on a girl,he should make sure his mom lives like a queen she is,a mom isn't meant to lack anything from any sensible son .

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Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by demmy0325(m): 1:38pm On May 11, 2015
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Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by FLAWLES(f): 1:44pm On May 11, 2015
Ehya,is it daht nairaland s full of Craze pple?
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by Emperoradrian(m): 1:44pm On May 11, 2015
Guy shey u knw say u d madt......d thunder wey go fire u d do press up 4 my HOD office nw.....hw u go d compare ur lovely mom to an ordinary gal frend,nt even ur wife....chai! Some moms don suffer o.......ITS MY MOM OVER ANY AND EVERY GAL..be it babe or wife....guy d only woman on earth dat can die 4 u is ur mom nt ur wife or babe.....GUY I LOV MY MOM TO BITS, IF MY MOM NA OKPA,I GO CHOP HER,ALSO CHOP D NYLON...

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Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by deathwing(m): 1:47pm On May 11, 2015
Just so you guys know..it's not just about declaring love for your mum. This really happens!! You think your friends don't spend ten of thousands on babes they met at a club while they send their sisters in school 5k per month?
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by Helkayklassic(m): 1:55pm On May 11, 2015
You still have ur other siblings to spend for ur mum and besides ur dad should spend for his wife too..Spend for ur girlfriend more cos if u eventually get married, she will be d one to give birth to your children and start a family with. Some guys will disagree with me on this and they r d ones that do buy ankara 6 yards for their mum during yuletide period only and buy iPhone 6 for their girlfriend with subscription every month.
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by Tallesty1(m): 1:57pm On May 11, 2015
Spend on your mom and sisters let your bae's brother spend on her or be foolish and spend on your bae let another fool spend on your sister. LWKMD4H.

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Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by ronald4lif(m): 2:05pm On May 11, 2015
deathwing:
Just so you guys know..it's not just about declaring love for your mum. This really happens!! You think your friends don't spend ten of thousands on babes they met at a club while they send their sisters in school 5k per month?

Yes sure it happens everyday. There are guys who spend lavishly on their babes more than their mothers. Even married men aren't left out as they spend extravagantly on their side chicks more than their wives at home. There are a lot of guys who have a fixed amount of what they give to their mum monthly and siblings at uni but when it comes to their babes there's no limit to how much they can spend.

Even if we may not do it, we have friends who does it everyday. I have such friends and for those who attempting to make it seem as if these set of guys love their mum any less they are wrong. It's just a misplaced sense of responsibility of them. And men insatiable desire for women generally.

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Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by DuchessLily(f): 2:50pm On May 11, 2015
Ur mum ofcos! Babe wey u never marry , u want to spend on her more dan d mum who brought u to d world and nurtured u undecided
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by deathwing(m): 2:53pm On May 11, 2015
DuchessLily:
Ur mum ofcos! Babe wey u never marry , u want to spend on her more dan d mum who brought u to d world and nurtured u undecided

Lol. You don't know guys sha. You think the person who bought you that phone sent his mom money that month?
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by TEAMTWACI: 3:07pm On May 11, 2015
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Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by BabaNath(m): 4:53pm On May 11, 2015
Your wife can divorce you but your mother can never. Treat both women fairly all the same. Your father married your mum not you. Do anyone whey u like, I wan go shiit
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by Strongfaze(m): 5:19pm On May 11, 2015
Spending more for your babe than your mum is hypocrisy. The word there is 'babe' which is not the same thing as 'wife'.
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by Rapsodee(m): 5:28pm On May 11, 2015
Just like the guy wey dey give his long-distance girlfriend salary...mtcheeew!
Re: Should You Spend More On A Babe Or On Your Mother? by Slimmos(m): 5:28pm On May 11, 2015
My mum number 1
My sisters and brothers number 2
Then my girfriend (fiancee) .
But wen i finally marry her, reverse would be d case cuz she would b my number 1 family but b4 that hell no she cant take more than my mum and sisters, cuz i believe she should also hav parent and family members that would b responsible for her upkeep.

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