We av been dating for 6yrs and my dad says we re not compatible for marriage,80% of my dad's talks is reality and i luv her so much,wht do i do?

stop loving her and leave for good, G luck

how didn't u realize that for d past 6 yrs well think about it this way it might be one out of the 20% of what ur daddy says dat is not true

listen to ur dad

You are not ripe for marriage since you are still a daddy's boy. Release her so she can find a better man.

follow ur heart.

BTW why doesn't ur dad like ur girl?

Glamourgal:

follow your heart.

BTW why doesn't your dad like your girl?

Good question!!!

do not ignore your father just as him why he thinks both of u are not compatible

is it your dad who is going to be living with her? i dont believe you!  

Ok, I agree with others that you should ask him why. Also, ask yourself whether the two of you are compatible.

"You're not compatible" is not a reason. Did he read that in the stars or guessed it in cards? Come on, he should really come up with strong relevant arguments!

Helloooooooooo!

am sorry to say this oh but fu ck the parents decision on marriage.

They enjoyed their own lives, now is the time for  kids to do the same.

Parents also think they know the best but trust me they don't.

Some says the pastor said they weren't meant to be together,? oh really how did he know that.

Some says they saw it in their dreams? yea right

I think people needs to make their own decisions, they are the ones that knows what's best for themselves.

Omo, you forgot to mention "God said" and " I saw a vision"

Radiant:

Omo, you forgot to mention "God said" and " I saw a vision"

lol yes oh ,

@Necorios
You've not said much. surely, your dad must have said more than that. what did he mean by not compatible? what are his reasons? what is the opinion of other family members (mum, sis, bro etc)? What is the 80% reality?

Why not wake your dad in the middle of the night and talk things with him. Ask him why? And if i may ask, where is your dad all these while. For the past 6 yrs. O boy, do consider we ladies too, even if he say so, where do you want the lady to start now. Put her in your position. Anyway ask God for his intervention.

Omo Eko:

am sorry to say this oh but fu ck the parents decision on marriage. They enjoyed their own lives, now is the time for  kids to do the same.

Parents also think they know the best but trust me they don't.

Some says the pastor said they weren't meant to be together,? oh really how did he know that.

Some says they saw it in their dreams? yea right

I think people needs to make their own decisions, they are the ones that knows what's best for themselves.

If the words in bold is what you think and say about your parents then your children will think and say the same to you.

Try and build manners, even if you disagree with your parents(asuming you have any left) and you can even educate them if you think they are wrong and indeed if they are wrong. majority of times parents are right because they have passed through the exact route you are about to take.

A word is enough for the wise.

tinuade001:

Why not wake your dad in the middle of the night and talk things with him. Ask him why? And if i may ask, where is your dad all these while. For the past 6 years. O boy, do consider we ladies too, even if he say so, where do you want the lady to start now. Put her in your position. Anyway ask God for his intervention.

Very well said, this is the most thoughtful advice and opinion on this issue so far.

1. Your father need to give you a very good reason for his view of  non compatibility.

2. What was he thinking/looking for the last 6 years and you for that matter ?

3. If you have a sister or a daughter would you be happy for them to find out after 6 years that they are not compatible, how would you feel.

@poster! please propose to ur dady say, dady, will you marry me??

ROFLABO

How old is the poster sef
Your dad said u guys are not compatible and u are saying that ur dad is 80% right,methinks u are a kid.

Dont be a daddy's boy. Control yur life. If yu love her and she loves yu marry her.Parents can be parasites at times.

Ask your dad what he based his judgement or analysis on.
You never can tell, maybe their path has crossed somehow.

Is it ur dad that want spend the rest of his life with ur wife or u?

man wake up i stop day dreaming,

For 6yrs ur dad did not know that you guys are not compatible he just suddenly realise that.

Well is too bad.

but follow ur heart.

no b man u b at dat old age wen ur friends don b grandpa hehn

white`Nkem:

"You're not compatible" is not a reason. Did he read that in the stars or guessed it in cards? Come on, he should really come up with strong relevant arguments!

This is one of the kind of women who come back to cry and complain about their husbands.

ifyalways:

How old is the poster sef
Your dad said u guys are not compatible and u are saying that ur dad is 80% right,methinks u are a kid.

So if a guy knows that his dad is right about some things, he has become a kid?

wonder wonder wonder

tinuade001:

Why not wake your dad in the middle of the night and talk things with him. Ask him why? And if i may ask, where is your dad all these while. For the past 6 yrs. O boy, do consider we ladies too, even if he say so, where do you want the lady to start now. Put her in your position. Anyway ask God for his intervention.

Sensible

KEEP PUTTING IT TO GOD IN PRAYER AND ALSO TALK TO UR DAD AS A MAN,MAKING HIM SEE REASONS WITH YOU.good luck

only rich parents tend to dictate who their children will marry.

If you're truely ready for marriage, talk to your dad and tell him how much you love the girl and ask him to give you reasons why he's against it.

You're a man, and about the make the Biggest Commitment you'll ever make in your life. Respectfully Demand an explanation from your dad.

You need to know why.

JustGood:

So if a guy knows that his dad is right about some things, he has become a kid?

wonder wonder wonder

Hes a kid cos he :
does not know if hes compatible with his lover.
said his dad is 80% right,indirectly meaning hes not compatible with his lover.
If hes yet to know if him and his partner are not compatible,then hes a kid and have no biz attempting marriage yet.

If you say your dad is 80% right, then it means that you have already made up your mind to listen to him.

However, I believe if you truly love your girl, you should find a way to convince your dad that you love her, she is what you want and you both can make a good couple.

Overall, you need to weigh all your dad's point first. Pray also and involve your mum, siblings etc if you feel otherwise.

Thats it!