hi guys
i've known this girl for a long time now
we're family friends
i am convinced i love her but don't feel its right
i feel she's still young though in the varsity
im scared of making a mistake
my xtian friend tells me to tell her since 'no pain no gain'
i've decided over and over again i don't love this girl but im just decieving myself
im scared of hearing no

Question is do i tell her i love her

IF YES! HOW!

NB: WHATS THE MEANING OF HALTA LAVISTA

NB it means good bye


and you simply TELL HER THAT YOU LOVE HER.

just tell her ur feelings and get her out of your system. 'never waste an opportunity to tell someone u love them' u never can tell. if she tells u no, u will be really hurt but my dear it is better cos the hurt will pass and ur heart will be free. try it , it works!

hi, thanks for the reply, but saying i love you to someone you truly love and sees you as a brother could be quite hard.
So, how do i go about it?
at least a lady should know.
case you didn't know, im quite shy with ladies

Hasta la vista is Spanish for: until we see again, like an informal goodbye.

Ok. Try to be romantic about it. Work on her emotion. it is all about dt.

Halta laposta

On the other hand, if u still can get around it, hire a consultant. There are experienced dudes around, who will guide u thru d process

just tell her your feelings. either way it goes u will get it off your chest. get it over with and move on.

hey friend,

I agree with wumine,dont waste time in expressing what you feel.
i have an experience in something similar to this,i was still in school when i had this guy as a friend,though i had my boyfriend,but sincerely this guy was just great,we were not related but i call him my brother.

Till now we are still very close,the problem now is that we are begining to feel different about each other(more intimate) but am sure he is scared because he feels i will turn him down,but within me am really waiting for him to tell me what i want to hear.

Please stop taking time,she might have been waiting for this time to come,so please hurry,

after more than a year of no replies on this thread. . .finally comes one . . .ok, two