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HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by adeowo84(m): 8:59am On Jun 11, 2015
I am engage to a lady who have two immediate elder sisters for more than two years now.these ladies are beautiful but despite their humble background, these elder sisters of my fiancee are too proud and always looking out for faults in other people. i am a free guy and i don't like dull moment at all but anytime we are all playing or gisting before you know it they've picked offense and report me to my fiancee.She had warn me to avoid them severally 'cos that is how they behave but why should i avoid my propose sisters in law?. same thing repeated itself yesterday and i flared up and told my fiancee that i cant keep saying sorry for what i did not commit, that those girls don't want me around her('cos they have no steady relationship but here we are preparing to get married). those girls are not friendly at all but my fiancee is the best among them(she is cool, hardworking, focus and peaceful).
please, my peep advice me how to go about this...what should i do?
mature comment pleasesss! cheesy
Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by ammyluv2002(f): 9:02am On Jun 11, 2015
Stay away from them
Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by Burningstar(f): 9:04am On Jun 11, 2015
What business do you have with them?
Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by stephenqueen: 9:06am On Jun 11, 2015
Use this for them and thank me later grin cheesy

Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by Nobody: 9:07am On Jun 11, 2015
Who are you about to get married to? Your girlfriend or her sisters?
Since you are in a relationship with the lady and not her sisters, I don't see why you should always be around them especially when it's obvious they don't like you.

It's good your fiancee already knows and understands the behaviors her sisters exhibits. She has already told you to stay away from them.
They are mischievous and only want to paint you in a bad light in front of their sister so I don't see any reason for you to have anything to do with them

You can start by not always frequenting your girlfriends place. You can tell her to come to your place instead of you going to her place. At least this will keep a distance between you and her sisters.

Don't be worried about their behavior. In the near future they will come around. They will change.

One more thing. From everything you have said about your fiancee and how she handled the issue about her sisters. I think she is a really nice lady.
She has a job and she is hard-working. She also sounds intelligent, reasonable and mature.
Please do your best to keep this woman. Don't let anything get between the both of you.
It's not everyday a man gets to meet such a lady.

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Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by Nobody: 9:09am On Jun 11, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Stay away from them

abi o
Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by Nobody: 9:10am On Jun 11, 2015
dafuq is wrong with you Mofoka?!?! do you think you must be in good sweet relationship with your wife to be sisters?!? don't you know the might be jealous of her? keep the fk away and respect yourself, play or joke with your baby if you feel dull or have a homie over or out or something.
Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by Patented: 9:10am On Jun 11, 2015
u may be a "LEARNER"
1) Of your own volition you have realised that the sisters have issues and wisdom dictates u avoid them.
2) Your fiance who has lived with them for not less than 2 decades has warned you of their character and asked that you avoid them.
3) In your infinite wisdom you have decided to try and be playing with them and be forming close in-law.
4) When they now treated ur f-up, you flared up at you fiance(she no warn u) complaining about having to apologise.

Is it not clear that you have an attraction to disaster. Who stands in the middle of the road when trailer dey come?

In future you will, be master of your own home adn this is an indication of your reasoning and how you handle issues.
Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by Brugo(m): 9:15am On Jun 11, 2015
They are your future sisters-in-law. You'd better learn to tolerate or ignore them cos they are family.
Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by Nobody: 9:19am On Jun 11, 2015
dafuq is wrong with you Mofoka?!?! do you think you must be in good sweet relationship with your wife to be sisters?!? don't you know the might be jealous of her? keep the fk away and respect yourself, play or joke with your baby if you feel dull or have a homie over or out or something. a
Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by adeowo84(m): 11:11am On Jun 11, 2015
misssclassy:
Who are you about to get married to? Your girlfriend or her sisters?
Since you are in a relationship with the lady and not her sisters, I don't see why you should always be around them especially when it's obvious they don't like you.

It's good your fiancee already knows and understands the behaviors her sisters exhibits. She has already told you to stay away from them.
They are mischievous and only want to paint you in a bad light in front of their sister so I don't see any reason for you to have anything to do with them

You can start by not always frequenting your girlfriends place. You can tell her to come to your place instead of you going to her place. At least this will keep a distance between you and her sisters.

Don't be worried about their behavior. In the near future they will come around. They will change.

One more thing. From everything you have said about your fiancee and how she handled the issue about her sisters. I think she is a really nice lady.
She has a job and she is hard-working. She also sounds intelligent, reasonable and mature.
Please do your best to keep this woman. Don't let anything get between the both of you.
It's not everyday a man gets to meet such a lady.


thank you so much dear...she is really a good girl, which is obvious to everybody around.
Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by adeowo84(m): 11:12am On Jun 11, 2015
icedbeatz:
dafuq is wrong with you Mofoka?!?! do you think you must be in good sweet relationship with your wife to be sisters?!? don't you know the might be jealous of her? keep the fk away and respect yourself, play or joke with your baby if you feel dull or have a homie over or out or something.

grin ok sir...noted!
Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by adeowo84(m): 11:14am On Jun 11, 2015
Patented:
u may be a "LEARNER"
1) Of your own volition you have realised that the sisters have issues and wisdom dictates u avoid them.
2) Your fiance who has lived with them for not less than 2 decades has warned you of their character and asked that you avoid them.
3) In your infinite wisdom you have decided to try and be playing with them and be forming close in-law.
4) When they now treated ur f-up, you flared up at you fiance(she no warn u) complaining about having to apologise.

Is it not clear that you have an attraction to disaster. Who stands in the middle of the road when trailer dey come?

In future you will, be master of your own home adn this is an indication of your reasoning and how you handle issues.

hard knock...but thanks anyways cheesy



Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by Nobody: 11:20am On Jun 11, 2015
Are you good looking?
Are you rich?
Do you have a car?
Do you have a lucrative paying business/job?
Are you from a highly placed home?



If your answer to the above is NO, then they have every right to be rude to you.

Babes way dn plan how to enjoy their sister husband wealth,you just wn come kill their hope and dreams.


#YIMU
Re: HELP! My Potential Sisters-inlaw Are Not Nice At All by pretydiva(f): 11:35am On Jun 11, 2015
Linqsz:
Are you good looking?
Are you rich?
Do you have a car?
Do you have a lucrative paying business/job?
Are you from a highly placed home?



If your answer to the above is NO, then they have every right to be rude to you.

Babes way dn plan how to enjoy their sister husband wealth,you just wn come kill their hope and dreams.


#YIMU
receive sense in jesus name

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