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Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by EwejeOyewole(m): 11:11am On Sep 29, 2015 |
OP, You are the best... You get sense pass Federal government |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by erumena(m): 11:16am On Sep 29, 2015 |
A very nice write up. Gender equality is good but we should apply God's principle to it. When you change God's original plan and you expect to get a better result, then you delude yourself. The man is the head of the home, the woman is a help meet for him, but some men also turned that statement into making women a second class citizen thereby changing God's original plan for couples. Let us all study God's word and apply it correctly, then naturally everything will fall into place 2 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by shumuel(m): 11:31am On Sep 29, 2015 |
Wow! The best Article have read so far on Nairaland, its a pity it had to take 3 months to get to FP, sad ![]() Op, god bless your hussle, and may he grant you the best of maidens. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Eneze1(f): 11:32am On Sep 29, 2015 |
tadedayo1: They should pay their own bride price, take care of the home and still answer to a man. Shame on you for spewing this thrash. I hope you won't complain if the man is asked to start cooking and washing the plates.... no wonder some girls decided to remain single 3 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by jephito(m): 11:53am On Sep 29, 2015 |
I do not want to say this is completely on point, but it's 99% on point. Problems identified and solutions proffered. The female folks knowing much about the obnoxious economy still won't support their male spouse who wants to be prudent with wedding plans. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Nobody: 11:58am On Sep 29, 2015 |
Don't mind the OP. OP, make sure you don't train nor send your DAUGHTERS to school. In fact If you observe them doing well, please STOP them. Ensure you make them RETARDED. Give them LEAD to eat everyday. It will help. UNEMPLOYMENT in NIGERIA is as a result of POOR/LACK of planning by previous and succeeding governments over the years. We need to RISE UP and place surveillance on succeeding governments. 1 Like |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by emerich(m): 12:06pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
sexylogan:True talk bro, also noticed same, could recall during my internship days at a Federal Teaching Hospital, the ratio of Male to Female Interns/House Officers was 20:80, hope something be done about this anomalies soonest. 1 Like |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by emerich(m): 12:07pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
sexylogan:True talk bro, also noticed same, could recall during my internship days at a Federal Teaching Hospital, the ratio of Male to Female Interns/House Officers was 20:80, hope something be done about these anomalies soonest. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by demolinka(m): 12:10pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Nice write up OP, lots of truisms and stuff. But like it or not some of these young highly placed ladies r not keen on getting married, some don't even fancy the idea of marriage. Infact saying that marriage is a necessity, is debatable - with respect to biblical doctrines. U failed to take into consideration other important factors hindering them like inter tribal polarities, religious sentiments, and even the men themselves (some guys nor dey try sha). Even when the Nigerian economy was booming in d early years, and young men had relatively good and stable jobs, did it stop cheating, or polygamy and the likes? Talk less of now when sense of value and morality is in tatters. Marriage is a very good thing but I believe it must never be forced or insisted upon as is the seeming practice these days. And no OP not all these ladies sleep with their bosses. Come on mehn! Where u hear dt one? Young lady take ur time b4 tying that knot. If u rush in, u may rush out. Egungun be kiavul! 4 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by niyidenrele: 12:25pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
NoIgwegbe:.............Hmmmmm,Ogbeni v u read d ,book ,psychology of women.......m sure u will recant all u v sed |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by celebobo(m): 12:34pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
My broda na true u talk. God bless Nigeria,Amen. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by maajin007(m): 1:16pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
May God bless the guy that wrote this thread;me and anyone that like the topic |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by maajin007(m): 1:17pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
May God bless the guy that wrote this thread;me and anyone that like this trend |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by dtermined(m): 1:47pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
400billionman: Na true talk u talk bro, anyway winner na still winner... |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Softing(m): 2:13pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Is simply the trust....... |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Nobody: 2:50pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
The OP is correct 2 an extent..but the situation is as a result of general changing trends...How many men these days wantu marry women who are not self-sufficient?...That's d major reason why women are struggling these days 2 bcum gainfully employed..and even get so desperate about it to d point ov sleeping around... How many men 'll appreciate settling down with a primary or sec schl teacher, for instance?...Everything's changing. There's no point wailing, I doubt pretty much that anything can be done about d situation. Randy old men 'll always be there looking 4 d services of desperate female graduates...Same way loose girls 'll continue 2 b there..Guys just need 2 find a way 2 step up their game...Entrepreneurship is also there if working under sb isn't paying well enough. #Philosopher Quëën# |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Nobody: 2:57pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Did I 4get to mention that most scholars these days are women ![]() #Philosopher Quëën# 2 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by collinsville501: 3:31pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
said it all clap to you for speaking the truth to the world |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by tadedayo1: 3:50pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Eneze1: Eneze, I know and quite understand your point but the truth of the whole matter is, gender equality is obviously doing us (humans) more harm than good. Gender equality is not in God's design for humans. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by jamih: 3:50pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
this is a nice post.. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by ugsams(m): 4:29pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
rudebouy: Moral values are becoming very low Wrong priority Failed relationships in the past Ethnicity and tribalism Religious differences Environment Family background Lifestyle Genotype Health challenges and deformity And the list continues 1 Like |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Iwonttell(m): 4:56pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Gbam!May God bless the guy that wrote this thread |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by eojepa: 5:07pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
God bless you poster. U said my mind. I pray every Lady read this and get to understand appropriately. We will continue to bleep them against all odds. After so many yrs of relationship,they begin to nickname us devil even knowing that the economy does not favour us so much and we as sharp guys will not see a pit and dive into it, otherwise have issues out of wedlock . These days i love with my head and not my heart . |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Nobody: 6:49pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Etophikisi:eto pretimpitisi, etophisiki. I don spot you for nairaland o |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by flowjoe: 11:44pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Realest sh.t I ever saw in romance section! |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Adaeze003(f): 12:21am On Sep 30, 2015 |
tadedayo1: Try not to bring God to your pettiness. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by kechywillz(m): 12:42am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Op,like u know whats in our mind |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by bigazu(m): 9:20am On Sep 30, 2015 |
HaroldFinch: God bless u my brother, as long as we refuse to practise polygamy in naija, dis problem will continue. Its even going to be 7 women begging one man to marry them, just to cover their reproach. There is no where in d bible where it says polygamy is a sin. The church should rise above western ideologies and save marriages from being broken, cos there is no way d desperation of our single sisters to marry or even bcom single mothers will not break so many monogamous homes. 2 Likes |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by tadedayo1: 9:34am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Adaeze003: Try also not to be like man. You can't even be regardless of how much you earn hourly and if you force yourself to be like man, you're saying that God made mistake in all His wonderful and beautiful creations. |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Adaeze003(f): 9:39am On Sep 30, 2015 |
tadedayo1: Me, try to be like a man? Lol! I don't need to, I'll never have a peniss but I'll tell you what, I can be whatever I want. God didn't make anyone inferior to anyone and didn't prohibit anyone from having a career. So please, again, do not drag God into your pettiness! |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by Koolking(m): 9:48am On Sep 30, 2015 |
humilitypays: Grear article Op. These are intellectually overwhelming points you have raised. However, Marriage is not all there is in life. It's just a mean to an end. It's becomes a problem because Nigerian girls yearn to marry already made Mr. Right, which at the end they won't stay satisfied in that marriage |
Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by donem: 11:11am On Sep 30, 2015 |
@Humilitypays man this your article is wonderful devoid of any form of sentiment, no female bashing etc just plain truth. its so dope had to bookmark it for reference purpose. I sincerely think everyone have something to learn from this writeup. 1 Like 1 Share |
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