can you share your best friends secrets with your spouse?

I personally believe that secrets are meant to be kept. And spouses are supposed to be truthful with each other. Under 'normal' circumstances, people should never share their best friends' secrets with their spouses except it is necessary, e.g. if you need his advice or help on a certain issue.

tough one this is. i run most things through the mrs. i may not give her details but if it is on a need to know, i would tell. i must add she is one person you can tell anything to without worries. she has your back 24/7.

errrr. . .don't see the correlation here at all. . .like ma spouse is ma spouse and ma best friend is ma best friend. . . .

Two different people. . . , loyalty is key for me anywayz. . . .

and i personally think maself and ma spouse would have far more pressing and important things to talk about besides "Gossiping"

TOYOSI20:

errrr. . .don't see the correlation here at all. . .like ma spouse is ma spouse and ma best friend is ma best friend. . . .

Two different people. . . , loyalty is key for me anywayz. . . .

and i personally think maself and ma spouse would have far more pressing and important things to talk about besides "Gossiping"

For some people, it is not always the case. There are sistas who share things (secrets) with their best friends, they don't trust their husbands enough to tell

glorina:

For some people, it is not always the case. There are sistas who share things (secrets) with their best friends, they don't trust their husbands enough to tell

I'm most def. wid u on this one tho. . .like what are friends for, ofcourse u can share private issues wid ur friends. . .

don't see anything wrong wid that. . . . .but to discuss issues about ma matrimonial home wid friends nahhhh. . .thats a big no-no for moi. . .

Well, my husband is my best friend so ,

Got no comment cos i'm Yet to get married! But if asked, i think my wife will be my best companion.

i think ur husband or wife should know. cos they should be ur best friend and cos u can never tell, about tomorrow.

ridiculous question, why not add loyalty to company or faithfulness to your spouse? being open woth your spouse does not mean telling the peron EVERYTHING i mean if my spouse told me her best friend's most intimate secrets i would wonder what kind of friend she was