Na Wa o, my simple advice is to call it quit, you not sure if he's going to marry at the long run. There are still modest men out there who will still appreciate you, despite all your been through. Find something to engage yourself with no matter how little it is. God is still merciful if you recognize that. You should have call it quit after the first abortion that nearly claim your life. He is a wolf and beast, he's making use of the guise of helping you to ruin your life. FLEE while you still have legs

Hmmmmmmmm

rightthing276:
Your mates are doing business in school to keep up.
Your mates sell recharge cards, cloths, shoes, make hair etc to keep up and here u are blabbing and seeking for some cheap emotional attention. Are we suppose to cry for you?, you can abort ur life for all we care.
May you think you are the last survivor of the "I am from a poor family" specie.

Lastly, ur mates are living in school hostel
but u want to feel among off campus babes so die there. E-diot

lol. ur trying to pass a message but in a harsh manner concerning her psychie.

let us know the NLers involved, hear from both horses mouth before we can draw a conclusion.

simple!

Call unto the lord in the time of trouble and he will save you.Jesus loves you.

Give me one good reason why you can't leave his house? He doesn't pay your school fees, only feeds and accommodates you. To me you don't have good enough reason because you can get a job and support the little you get from your parents. Many students are out there supporting themselves through their hustle. Don't be held down by a man who treats you like a LovePeddler (even whores get better treatment than you). You are a queen let no person tell you otherwise. Best leave him. You can survive without him. The world is hard true but your parents poor state is not an excuse. Many have survived under worse conditions. You are even lucky your folks pay your school fees. Leave him, there is always a way. You may end up childless in life if care is not taken.

Hmmm... This story sounds very familiar or do we have many girls in the same situation.

And some guys will come online to complain "I sponsored her throughout her university education". There are sometimes deeper reasons for the way some ladies treat the men who sponsored them through school. This is one of them. When she leaves the man in future, the man will come online to denounce the lady for 'jilting' him 'after all he has done for her'.

Which school...

Are you married to the man?
What's stopping you from leaving him.
You should have saved some money to start a small business.
I believe he gives you money.

First thing first, my sister you need Jesus in your heart. You need to move from remorse to repentance, all i have seen from your writing is a remorse but what you need is repentance from your past and accept Jesus so He can give you a new beginning and a new reason to live.
Don't consider marriage with this guy, if you do you will for your life time regret that, the guy is not husband material. quit staying with him for until you leave him you won't imagine other doors that will open up for you. Quit now, you may not be lucky at next abortion.

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you know why i know this story is fake? your prefect writing skills. people from your kind of background tend to have a rough start to life and subsequently incomplete education. secondly, the sense behind the story does not match your intellectual skills as illustrated in this write-up.


Fake story

Ishilove:
This nairalander mailed us this rather pathetic story. She requested her identity be hidden because not only is she well known, the man in question is also a nairalander.

Please read and give her your very candid advice.



No insults, please. She is in a quagmire and needs sound and solid advice.

To the op, hit me up on icevillebeatz@gmail.com.

My dear, wait till he kills you and buries you in his toilet. You can never benefit anything good from that man, he don see you finish.

Ishilove:
This nairalander mailed us this rather pathetic story. She requested her identity be hidden because not only is she well known, the man in question is also a nairalander.

Please read and give her your very candid advice.



No insults, please. She is in a quagmire and needs sound and solid advice.

YOU CALLED THE STORY PATHETIC, AND YOU WANT MAKE WE GIVE HER ADVICE

LET ME GIVE YOU ADVICE SINCE YOU DON BECOME MESSAGER.

MAKE SHE CALL OFF THE RELATIONSHIP AND DEDICATE ALL HER LIFE BY BECOMING SISTER IN CHURCH, WITH TIME SHE GO SEE ONE MUGU MARRY.



( BUT WE ALL KNOW SAY NA YOU NEED THIS ADVICE)

Go to a Hospital and get an IUD fixed or start buying diaphragms. best advise would be to leave him but i see you are in a desperate situations. pele

Ishilove:
This nairalander mailed us this rather pathetic story. She requested her identity be hidden because not only is she well known, the man in question is also a nairalander.

Please read and give her your very candid advice.



No insults, please. She is in a quagmire and needs sound and solid advice.

good one sister but for you to succeed in thus world there must be challenges but I don't know why some many girls are dependent instead of hustling by themselves it's not good assuming your doing well on your own your okay on your own no man can ever toast you with harsh voice not talking of treating you bad. .....Please Quit from the deadly act of abortion before it takes your life

MsBliss:
First things first .

Your grammar is bad. I can't believe you are in year two . That aside.


You should never forget that your future is in your hands. never
If after looking at you present situation,you decide that this kind of life is what you desire in your future then you can sit down all day crying to us about how terrible your life is else ,you take a bold step by going out to look for a job. working won't kill you .

Who says you can't go to school and work at the same time ? what happened to being independent and buying stuffs you want with your own money?
what happened to kicking toxic people out of your life?
You are even lucky that your parents pays your school fees. Av seen people who work to pay all their fees themselves and whoever told you that if you leave your self imposed husband,you will die is a big lier.

you are a real bìtch! For sayin her grammar is bad. As if yours is any better.


Its 'liar' not 'lier'. Olodo.

young woman, no matter what has happened and is still happening just know you were not created for such pain. your mistakes can be overlooked and life can be better if you take the right decision now.
know this, you will not be the first to be born into a poor home nor will you be last. My beloved, leave that man, he'll finally damage everything that makes you human and the little of womanhood you have remaining. leave him, God gave you hands use them!!! strategize and leave, work hard!!! God will rebuild you again.

fanex:
you know why i know this story is fake? your prefect writing skills. people from your kind of background tend to have a rough start to life and subsequently incomplete education. secondly, the sense behind the story does not match your intellectual skills as illustrated in this write-up.


Fake story

I edited the story to make it more readable. Besides, the focus should not be on her writing skills but on her dilemma.

I am afraid for these generation of youths, can you imagine the meaningless posts and comments on page one!
The Op should leave the guy, the problem is she has seen him as her last resort, hence her not leaving, is there no family member she could stay with? She can quit school and learn a trade, then later go back to school, there are part time courses every where.
The guy will still leave her after using her, he can not and will not marry her!
Or she can locate a good church and seek for help! There are better things she can do than be someone's else's sex slave!

rightthing276:
Your mates are doing business in school to keep up.
Your mates sell recharge cards, cloths, shoes, make hair etc to keep up and here u are blabbing and seeking for some cheap emotional attention. Are we suppose to cry for you?, you can abort ur life for all we care.
May you think you are the last survivor of the "I am from a poor family" specie.

Lastly, ur mates are living in school hostel
but u want to feel among off campus babes so die there. E-diot

Though u ve a point, you are not only just harsh with words but you talk anyhow

How I wish you suggest how she can raise capital and do any of the above business to survive instead of judging her

My 10 cent

She didn't tell us much about the sex machine scene , which kind story carry a different headline and a different scenes ? Ur headline na about him using u as sex machine and the story Is about him beating u up,
If na to commit abortion he put u for house for, u better run for ur life, person wey fit kill unborn baby fit kill any human being

who is this heartless nairalander eh?

op, the deed has been done. pick up the pieces of your life and move on. it won't be easy but time they say is the healer of wounds.

look for someone to squat with in the hostel because the more you put up with him, the more your sense of worth and esteem will continue to fade.

all the best.

fanex:
you know why i know this story is fake? your prefect writing skills. people from your kind of background tend to have a rough start to life and subsequently incomplete education. secondly, the sense behind the story does not match your intellectual skills as illustrated in this write-up.


Fake story

Is it a most u go to school? There are people making it without going thru d four walls of a school...the life the lady is living with that man is not nice at all and she thinks she owes the man everything....my own advice is learn a trade, leave that guy, if u don't av money to sponsor yourself in school drop out(being a graduate doesn't guarantee u ready made job) go back to ur family let them no bawt what u av passed thru I know they will understand get that man arrested and go for counselling and probably a good rehabilitation center and try look forward to a brighter future and leave what has happened behind...may God see u thru your ordeal

rightthing276:
Your mates are doing business in school to keep up.
Your mates sell recharge cards, cloths, shoes, make hair etc to keep up and here u are blabbing and seeking for some cheap emotional attention. Are we suppose to cry for you?, you can abort ur life for all we care.
May you think you are the last survivor of the "I am from a poor family" specie.

Lastly, ur mates are living in school hostel
but u want to feel among off campus babes so die there. E-diot

Na only you get sense for this thread. Thanks for being blunt and point blank.

chimerase2:
Ishilove pack out of his huz nah haba

Did you read the story before rushing to comment?

rightthing276:
Your mates are doing business in school to keep up.
Your mates sell recharge cards, cloths, shoes, make hair etc to keep up and here u are blabbing and seeking for some cheap emotional attention. Are we suppose to cry for you?, you can abort ur life for all we care.
May you think you are the last survivor of the "I am from a poor family" specie.

Lastly, ur mates are living in school hostel
but u want to feel among off campus babes so die there. E-diot

i have to drop of sympathy for the b*tch... after my ssce in 2008, i have to work in a water firm and also work in a filling station to save money for higher institution

This is serious...
if you don't have someone close to you that have experienced this before..you can't understand.
Please this may seem somehow to some readers, but I will suggest you meet your pastor in charge of your school chapel or imam in charge of the school mosque....even guidance and counseling unit of your school ...they can be of help by ensuring you get hostel accommodation and even offer stipends for your feeding. Your family will still be taking care of your school fee. Have friends too..good friends...not all friends are bad.
I wish you best of luck

rightthing276:
Your mates are doing business in school to keep up.
Your mates sell recharge cards, cloths, shoes, make hair etc to keep up and here u are blabbing and seeking for some cheap emotional attention. Are we suppose to cry for you?, you can abort ur life for all we care.
May you think you are the last survivor of the "I am from a poor family" specie.

Lastly, ur mates are living in school hostel
but u want to feel among off campus babes so die there. E-diot

This guy has no love