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Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by cococandy(f): 5:19pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
freecocoa:it would even make me happy to see my man devote himself like that our kid. That way even if I'm not there, I'm sure they are his priority. Put it down to immaturity. The lady doesn't know that's how she should be loving the kid too now. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by thorpido(m): 5:37pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
cococandy:I don't think the lady means it the way you and freecocoa are seeing it. I don't think it's envy or bitterness.I think she's just in a subtle way saying her hubby seems to be diverting too much attention to the daughter and not giving her enough. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by sevule(m): 5:38pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
cococandy: It is actually a valid concern and I don't think the lady is being immature. You can be the best mother in the world but a lousy wife and vice versa. Basically she wants validation that she is the number One priority in her husband's life. Children should never come first before your spouse even though we as Africans tend to think that children should come first. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Stillfire: 5:41pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
thorpido: You don't have to use your child to appear subtle or pass a message across, haba. It's just petty. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by thorpido(m): 5:54pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Stillfire:Well maybe petty is the word but I don't think it's envy or any form of bitterness. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by bjtinz: 5:59pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Those who see nothing wrong with OP's wife question should check themselves. What nonsense!!! > > EXACTLY what answer was she expecting? Yes? no? If it were the stepmom then i would pardon her to an article xtent. But think she is d biological mum and asking such asinine question is d height of it!! Nansense!! > OP tried to have diplomatically addressed d issue. If Na me? Ha gobe. . .! |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Feranchek:This one Na WhatsApp love o |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by cococandy(f): 6:10pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
sevule:mmm ok |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by freecocoa(f): 6:17pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
thorpido:Just like stillfire said, you don't use your child as a bargaining chip, believe me, that's not a question a parent should ask. It's just like the other thread, where a lady was said to have asked who her fiance loves more, between her and his family, I mean, how does this sound? That question is bred from jealousy/insecurity. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by liyahwillie(f): 8:14pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
lonelydora: Question!!!! Rhetorical question!! Ask ur friend if she has a daughter called tolu!! |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by bukatyne(f): 8:42pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
tolu4you: There is nothing wrong with the question. You chose and married your wife and not your daughter. As your daughter is young, you would definitely give her more attention but your wife should never never doubt your love for her/her position in your heart. In another 9yrrs, your daughter is going to start flying and you both will be left alone. As you make your bed now, you lie on it in future. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by khukhi(f): 9:05pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
yorke1: Very strange question for a mum to ask. |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by joyce01(f): 9:19pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
LewsTherin: That's just it |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by doublewisdom: 1:39pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
favoured234:So you get many sense like this? |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by ayanfemy(f): 2:19pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
wait until you have a son, then you will understand her feelings! it's called Oedipus complex in psychology! tell her often how much you love her and don't stop dotting on your girl child! 1 Like |
Re: Is Anything Wrong With My Wife's Question? (pic) by AliyNumbers: 4:47pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
southernbelle: smh. you've obviously never been married to say you see no reason. it's more common than a bird poop on a windshield. |
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