Most ladies in this part of the world must have heard their mothers tell them once that the ‘only way to a man’s heart is through his stomach’. Well, the truth is that Mummy got this wrong. She definitely overstretched the fact, this time. Many a wife has come to realize that, even when she feeds her husband well and with the best delicacies that money can buy, what will really rein him in for good and ensure that he stays indoor most of time depends on how well she takes care of him in bed.

Ladies, no matter what you think, it is what you do in bed and in other matters, apart from food, that will guarantee a sealed deal between you and your man.

I am not saying that giving him good sex is the ‘only’ way to set your marriage on the path of bliss. What I mean is that everything else could amount to nothing without great sex. As a matter of fact, sex is so important to your man, just as it is to other men, that it will be unwise not to live up to his expectation in bed.

Although most women were not born with the ability to make their men look good in bed and to make them scream their heads off in the heat of the action, it won’t hurt to appreciate the fact that sex is an art that could be learned and perfected by those who are sincere about making their marriages successful.

For this reason, I want to talk about what every woman who wants to keep her man should know. They are little things that we always take for granted, which, frankly speaking, make a world of difference between satisfying our men sexually and therefore, making them to ask for more, like a baby, or alienating them and thereby, giving room to unnecessary quarrels in the home.

To begin with, if there is one place in your home that you need to pay a lot of attention to, it is the bedroom. Wise women understand the need to turn the bedroom into one unpretentious sex theatre. Everything in your bedroom must look, smell and taste sexy from the beddings to the décor and right down to the lighting. It is important to eliminate distractions by restricting, for example, the television set to the sitting room [where it really ought to be] and ensuring that books remained in the study.

The bedroom should only be for making romantic, erotic and sexual conversation, curdling and sleeping in a peaceful manner, and for making hot and unforgettable sex. Anything else is not acceptable.

In addition to this, ladies, you should keep your ‘sexual empire’ neat at all times. Nothing kills the passion faster than faded, unappealing and ugly grandma-type underwear, or cheap, low quality brassieres and cotton pajamas that are fit for only nursing mothers. Investing in a good and sexy lingerie will not only elicit an appreciative response from your husband, but will ensure that you get his undivided attention.

Flaunt your God-given body lustfully before your man because it’s your unique gift to him. A confident display of your body in a seductive manner is a sure-fire-turn-on for any man, and quite honestly, chances are he won’t really care that your figure is not drop-dead, come-hither type that is guaranteed to keep many heads turning in its direction.

It won’t cost you a dime to be adventurous in your own bedroom. It is the perfect place to whet your sexual fantasy. While you are at it, remember that going through the same sexual routine all the time will lead both of you nowhere. So it is important to break the monotony by trying out something new.

For example, if you always have sex before turning out the lights, you can try it in the morning as soon as you wake up from sleep. If your man is always positioned on top during lovemaking, surprise him with a bit of bedroom acrobatics. If he is always the one who makes the first move, now is the time to turn the tables round and take the initiative for a change. Go all out to spice up your sex life. Dream up new ideas. Doing this won’t make you look like a slut; rather it will transform you into every man’s dream. Believe me, with most men, there is nothing that is as thrilling as a wife with a healthy sexual appetite and a heart that is willing to try out new ideas in bed. Come to think of it, anybody can cook better than you do and anybody can feed your man well, but nobody else should be able to give him great sex.

Men love women who are well behaved because good behaviour is like an appetizer to a beautiful sexual life.

Unfortunately this is one area most ladies are found wanting. Most women hardly understand that heartfelt verbal compliments or words of appreciation have their unique effect on any relationship. Words of admiration and compliments are greater motivators than negative speech. When men receive comforting words from their wives, they are far more likely to be motivated to reciprocate beautifully on their sexuality.

Many ladies do not know that the words of encouragement they speak to their husbands do go long way into enhancing the latter’s sexual prowess. To encourage means to inspire courage. Most of men have sexual problems that often rub off badly on their self-confidence and which they lack the courage to confront. Sometimes they complain of premature ejaculation, which is usually caused by stress or challenges they can’t handle. But,when a wife encourages her husband, her action supplies a catalyst. Most of the complaints I have received from men about the sizes of their sex organs is primarily initiated by their wives sarcastic criticism and comments.

Another way to a man’s heart is through kind words. Words are not just letters alone, but a combination of letters, body language, body movement and eye contact. The same sentence can have two different meanings and interpretations, depending on how it is uttered. Sometimes a lady may be saying something sexually, but her voice, tone of speech, body language and eye contact is sending another message. Of course, the man could be turned off as a result.

Our men will always interpret our sexual messages to them from the tone of our voices and body movement, not the words we speak. Most of the time, we send our husbands away from our beds on indefinite leave and make them sexually impotent when we talk to them rudely or harshly. It is because what we say to them denote condemnation and judgment.

The manner in which ladies speak to their husbands is exceedingly important. One area most ladies need to go for finishing school work is in the area of the cultivation of good manners and speech. It goes a long way to improving a man’s libido and creating a pathway to his heart. Do this and you’d have your man’s heart in your hand in no time.

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all of those in order to keep a man/husband? ummm, how abt the best way to a woman's heart
interesting

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hey tRoOe, yeye men you said?, well if you think its all about doin those stuffs to keep a yeye man, then try being a woman girl, no husband at that age you will perfectly do more to have and keep one yeye man as you said, believe it or not, its a sin for a girl not to be married, ask the married girls with thier engagement rings and wedding rings on their fingers and you go understand.

@ smile4kenn ;

Maaan, u got it perfectly right, no man worth his onions should compromise sex with his wife, sex is natural & to your legitimate wife, its moral & anything less than maximum satisfaction in bed is unacceptable. Infact sex is refreshing & the end product is extreme joy.

@ tRoOe:

Well if u dont accept the poster's thread i am afraid u might b rejecting ur marriage, the best punishment a woman should giv to the husband is not to deny him sex, no matter how badly he errs,, that is my opinion.

Well researched piece anyday anytime.
100% agreement with d poster.

@ Chaircover,u recommended tv in d bedroom,at
those "precious" times when songs of solomon are the
only books of the bible one remembers,what movies do u intend to
watch on the tv,soccer,nolly/hollywood abi u mean blue films?Kindly educate us.

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@Topic,

all you listed is just all about sex, if sex is the most important thing in marriage then i believe the prostitutes and sex therapist would have the best marriages. It is more than just sex (bedmathicz) and food but much more like

I love you

I am sorry

Thank you

to mention but a few

You can captivate your man and make him fall in love with you and give you the world through many things. Just understand him and do it in his own way and you find him hopelessly doing everything for you.

I am not perfect but i am doing my best to achieve that perfect marriage.

http://www.relationshipheadquarters.com

wbb

JJYOU:

wbb

Pls what does it mean

will be back to read thread

JJYOU:

will be back to read thread

thanks

I would say feed him very well and keep that coochie tight.

C2H5OH:

I would say feed him very well and keep that coochie tight.

wat is dat?

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chaircover:

The poster said a lot more than those two things you mentioned above.
Such as;

Men love women who are well behaved because good behaviour is like an appetizer to a beautiful sexual life.
Another way to a man’s heart is[b] through kind words[/b]

thanks may you live long. the clue is the word men. most boys are looking for the opposite. it is good to know there are people out there with common sence

chaircover:

The poster said a lot more than those two things you mentioned above.
Such as;

Men love women who are well behaved because good behaviour is like an appetizer to a beautiful sexual life.
Another way to a man’s heart is through kind words

What has this person said that is different from yours?

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