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Please I Need An Urgent Advise by merbenko: 9:33pm On Jul 11, 2015
My mother is bending me to marry a girl that I don't love to marry best on the fact she love her and even treating to disown me as her child if I refuse to get marry to the girl she love. Will I accept to marry a woman that I don't love just to please my mother or will I go ahead to marry the woman I love and face her to disown me as a child?
Please I need your candid opinion.
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by khel(m): 9:35pm On Jul 11, 2015
are you the only child?
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by donbenedict(m): 9:36pm On Jul 11, 2015
Marry who u love...
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Houseofglam7(f): 9:37pm On Jul 11, 2015
Relocate your momma to the U.S. so they can get married if she loves her that much.

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Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by lovemko(m): 9:38pm On Jul 11, 2015
khel:
are you the only child?

good question...

@op, maybe u need to rename ur thread with a better headline maybe d mods can take it to FP nd get u more advice cos dis matter looks like d "gidi gan" type
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by merbenko: 9:55pm On Jul 11, 2015
khel:
are you the only child?
yes the only male child and 4 female
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Nobody: 10:11pm On Jul 11, 2015
are u younger dan 25?
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by merbenko: 10:23pm On Jul 11, 2015
justified19:
are u younger dan 25?
At my early 30s
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Ofema(m): 10:38pm On Jul 11, 2015
YOU CASE NEED TO BE PASS INTO BILL. LOLX
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jul 11, 2015
merbenko:
My mother is bending me to marry a girl that I don't love to marry based on the fact that she loves her and even treating to disown me as her child. if I refuse to get marry to the girl she loves. Will I accept to marry a woman that I don't love just to please my mother or will I go ahead to marry the woman I love and face her to disown me as a child?
Please I need your candid opinion.
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Simple!!!!! Marry who you love, and let your mom marry who she loves..
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by xtervaganza(m): 10:44pm On Jul 11, 2015
Hmmm your mom eh.....I don't kniw what to tell u
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Gurgle(f): 10:56pm On Jul 11, 2015
I think you need to add more detail to your post:

Do you have anyone that you do love?

Are you sure you don't like this girl your mother brought at all

What does your father say about it

what does your extended family say

what do your 4 sisters say

and why is she forcing this girl on you so much
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jul 11, 2015
merbenko:
At my early 30s
dats y ur mum is insisting, she probably wants u to get married soon nd maybe u av nt taken any girl home to her.
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jul 11, 2015
My candid opinion is that you need English classes with immediate effect and alacrity.

And never ever marry a woman simply because your mother loves her. Don't ever marry a woman you do not love. In as much as your mom brought you into this world, she also has her limits. It's like you don't even know your rights as a man.

One day, you mother will die(we all will die, my mother too) and leave you with a woman you don't love. She'll die a happy woman, while you'll be sad for the rest of your life, and die a sad man.

Use your fvcking head.

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Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Gurgle(f): 11:32pm On Jul 11, 2015
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Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by merbenko: 11:47pm On Jul 11, 2015
Gurgle:
I think you need to add more detail to your post:

Do you have anyone that you do love?

Are you sure you don't like this girl your mother brought at all

What does your father say about it

what does your extended family say

what do your 4 sisters say

and why is she forcing this girl on you so much
yes I have someone that I love and family members and sibling didn't buy her decision
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Gurgle(f): 11:49pm On Jul 11, 2015
merbenko:
yes I have someone that I love and family members and sibling didn't buy her decision

ok so why is your mother the only person fighting you about it. whats her reason
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by redsconsult(m): 1:32am On Jul 12, 2015
ee be like say ur mama and dat gal get something in common....you need to go spiritual to unravel the secrete.....



also

op how does ur mama sabi dis gal.. eebe like say ur mama dey aware say dis gal do d&c for u then and now cos u don see another fyn babe u wan dump her say u no luv am again.....

i adjurned this case till ur mama come nairaland come tell us her part of the mata....

no one shld judge until u here from both side..

the op might be a bad fellow..
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Gurgle(f): 1:33am On Jul 12, 2015
redsconsult:


the op might be a bad fellow..

grin is the time or place
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by redsconsult(m): 1:44am On Jul 12, 2015
Gurgle:


grin is the time or place
dnt get u
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Gurgle(f): 1:45am On Jul 12, 2015
redsconsult:
dnt get u

i thought it was misplaced to draw attention to the fact that the OP might be bad lol

and quite funny
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by redsconsult(m): 1:46am On Jul 12, 2015
Gurgle:


grin is the time or place
u no dey slip ...abi u be o....ho
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Gurgle(f): 1:47am On Jul 12, 2015
redsconsult:
u no dey slip ...abi u be o....ho

if i were, would i be on the computer

these are the best hours for me to be awake
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by redsconsult(m): 1:50am On Jul 12, 2015
Gurgle:


if i were, would i be on the computer

these are the best hours for me to be awake
sowie for that hope u will forgive me
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by redsconsult(m): 1:52am On Jul 12, 2015
Gurgle:


if i were, would i be on the computer

these are the best hours for me to be awake
which to know u better
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Gurgle(f): 1:54am On Jul 12, 2015
redsconsult:
which to know u better

yeah that's ok

pm me
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by redsconsult(m): 1:57am On Jul 12, 2015
Gurgle:


yeah that's ok

pm me
dnt know how that wrks but can add me on watsapp 08143132255.. flash me on 07082985176
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Gurgle(f): 1:59am On Jul 12, 2015
redsconsult:
dnt know how that wrks but can add me on watsapp 08143132255.. flash me on 07082985176

on my profile it says "send Gurgle an email"
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by Nobody: 2:03am On Jul 12, 2015
Marry who you love, after she disown you when she is tired she will re own you grin
Re: Please I Need An Urgent Advise by redsconsult(m): 2:03am On Jul 12, 2015
Gurgle:


on my profile it says "send Gurgle an email"
i don do am

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