Good morning Nlanders. please i have an issue that is bothering me for some time now. There is a lady i mate recently, she is currently serving around my place. l have being observing her and she seems to be a good lady and i'm thinking of taking a step further; like knowing her more and eventually propose to her God's will, but the issue now is she is older than me. In fact she is 32 and i'm 30. Please is it right and advisable for me to marry her?

Not advisable.

U wi neva knw d repercussion nw, wait until 5 to 10yrs nw, dats wen u will knw u don marry ur boss

Just 2 yrs? Have you heard the story about Peter and lola?
2 yrs small nna.Wife her if she is the type that respects. Simples!

buzquet:
U wi neva knw d repercussion nw, wait until 5 to 10yrs nw, dats wen u will knw u don marry ur boss

How you take know that one?
My mama senior my papa and my dad is still the BOSS

Tallesty1:
Not advisable.

And why is that?

Sorry, but that doesn't work in Nigeria

EggovinMma:



How you take know that one?
My mama senior my papa and my dad is still the BOSS

sister, what of if it is your mama that pay her pride price by herself..agreement must be in place before such happens lol

There's no big deal...go for her if you truly love her..BTW 2 years difference isn't much...

Hazardd:

sister, what of if it is your mama that pay her pride price by herself..agreement must be in place before such happens lol

And if it happens is it bad? Look around you, some ladies help their men out during weddings, it doesn't matter who is older or younger.
you can still marry a younger wife and she still may not respect you.
Since he said the girl seemed wifely, so na 2 yrs gap kon be the main obstacle ?
What a flimsy excuse!

Is INTROVERT here

ibkgab001:
Is INTROVERT here

That's your own comment abi.







If you love her and she agree and you are fully aware of the disadvantages and still wish to proceed.


Then I say carry on.

Wow wwwwww

Laughing out louder

Not a good idea.

Of course I can,there is nothing wrong in having a boy toy

It doesnt matter

INTROVERT, what are the " disadvantages"?

Op, it doesn't matter dear. A younger but more disrespectful lady is no better, is it?

Youngr and disrespectful is worst

Why don't you get to know her more before thinking of marrying her...
Where are you running to?

EggovinMma:


And if it happens is it bad? Look around you, some ladies help their men out during weddings, it doesn't matter who is older or younger.
you can still marry a younger wife and she still may not respect you.
Since he said the girl seemed wifely, so na 2 yrs gap kon be the main obstacle ?
What a flimsy excuse!

some girls normally degrees their age, who know iof she is using like 10years to senior the young guy...
the awkward moment is when you are with your girl and your friends will come and ask '' bros is this your mother or abi your anty''

Forget about the girl,go for the ones younger than you.There is nothing good about marrying a lady that is older than you.

Age is just a number. It's about what you want

Respect is the key word..

Older,younger... I think what matters is how much she's willing to respect you. And you willing to love her...


If she's respectful then it's okay.

Just take it one step at a time.

Hazardd:

some girls normally degrees their age, who know iof she is using like 10years to senior the young guy...
the awkward moment is when you are with your girl and your friends will come and ask '' bros is this your mother or abi your anty''

But no be for two yrs gap.

She's even two yrs older.

I thought it's a matter of 7-10yrs.

I don't see any reason why you should be concerned as long as you see great qualities in her.

It's not like you're a baby yourself.

EggovinMma:

But no be for two yrs gap.

is not right.. Well sha they said, love is blind...but not to my side

Hazardd:

is not right..
Well sha they said, love is blind...but not to my side

Well, I think the age gap is too little to be ggiven a thought sef.

cococandy:
She's even two yrs older.

I thought it's a matter of 7-10yrs.

I don't see any reason why you should be concerned as long as you see great qualities in her.

It's not like you're a baby yourself.

Gbam!!!!! I wonder y in our society today... Marrying a lady older dan u(2yrs at most) is kinda rare... To me I feel dating a girl older dan my age is quite cool(lol tho m 74 sha.. as per nairaland).... Interesting let me brandish it dat way.... I feel nd love d maturity... a lady who knows how to carry herself,take care of herself..

Isaacmacdon:
Gbam!!!!! I wonder y in our society today... Marrying a lady older dan u(2yrs at most) is kinda rare... To me I feel dating a girl older dan my age is quite cool(lol tho m 74 sha.. as per nairaland).... Interesting let me brandish it dat way.... I feel nd love d maturity... a lady who knows how to carry herself,take care of herself..

good

If she respects u
If you aren't after beauty
If you will take ur time to know eachother before even thinking mariage, by all means.

But as som1 who's experienced both side of the coin, .....(U just read my mind )

she is my kind of woman. The major concearn both of us is age. She is even willing and ready to go with me. Very humble person i must say