1.You pick the wrong person because you expect him/her to change after you're married.

2. You pick the wrong person because you focus more on chemistry than on character.

3. You pick the wrong person because the man doesn't understand what a woman needs most.

4. You choose the wrong person because you do not share a common life goals and priorities.

5. You choose the wrong person because you get intimately involved too quickly.

6. You pick the wrong person because you do not have a deeper emotional connection with this person.

7. You pick the wrong person because you choose someone with whom you don't feel emotionally safe.

8. You pick the wrong person because you don't put everything on the table.

9. You pick the wrong person because you use the relationship to escape from personal problems and unhappiness.

10. You pick the wrong person because he/she is involved in a triangle.[/li]


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