touchmeder:

everyone is complete on their own. both male and female at least you decide to be complete on your own
in my opinion you dont have to be married to be complete
what is d defination of this completness sef?
is it wealth, happiness, fufillment, or a husband or wife (whether it is a cheating swine of a man or a lazy nagging woman)

me i see my self as complete in my single state, but part of being fufilled in this life is for me to be married to a good man and have wonderful children i can call family. that is my personal decision
i dont think some people want that, should i now say they are incomplete for that decision they made
what of the priest and revrend sisters who dedicate their lives to God? Are they incomplete?
what of the widows or widowers who decide not to remarry are they suddenly incomplete again.
some of us just keep quoting the bible again and again
was our lord and saviour jesus married? can u dare say he was incomplete by that reason alone?

Dvampire:

like i said before, ALMOST all the ladies that have contributed here are suffering from 'menophobia'

Is A Woman Incomplete Without A Man?

@ DVampire, yeah guys need to stop coz the know the truth, woman can be compelet or incomplete without a man but men can not just stay without a woman, yeah. ask Referen fathers they will tell u

Theblessed:

Oh my God, where have I heard this crap before?  There's a lot of brainwashing going on here!!   Hey Amamat, you don't need a man to be a woman, Ok! This has been proven time and time again.  We all came into this world alone and must leave it alone (I said MUST).  I don't know who is emotionally blackmailing and brainwashing you with that idea.  Look, God made them man and woman, ok!  lf a woman is incomplete without a man so is a man incomplete without a woman.  God had since shown these ignorant chauvinists that men and women are equal but… different yet, they chose to be blind and deaf.  Now tell me, if they are not equal - how can a man have a baby without a woman and vice versa, eh?  You need the two - you need the X and Y chromosomes to form a human being which is the greatest creation and the greatest achievement any human being can attain besides, God has told us that he created us all in his own image (man and woman) yet these people are making some women feel inadequate for their own selfish needs.  No Gods children, are second best as all things are bright and beautiful.
No, you don't need them. In fact, men desperately need us more than we need them - that's why men are always the first to seek a partner in situations involving singleton e.g. deaths, divorces etc they are usually the first in the queue quickly searching for partner to replace their previous one - check it out!!!! For women, it would take a long haul to consider going through that again i.e. to consider taking on another man.  So be proud of yourself and what you have achieved as a young woman because you only need them to pro-create your babies, period.  From now on please, don't let any man make you feel inadequate or bad about yourself for not being married.  Marriage is not compulsory, it’s choice – if you like, you marry else, live your life and have your babies with any man you fancy and can be a good father to your children, that’s all.  You see, you can achieve anything you want in life if you set your heart on it - you can have education, investments, cars, houses or even your own children without being married to anybody.  God gave you the freed to do what you want therefore you don't need a man to achieve these things in life.   Problem is, you are in a culture that intimidates women.  A culture that never supports or celebrates a woman's achievement for their own selfish needs (to control women) -  if your culture is going to stifle you from attaining your God given potentials, the best thing to do is pack your bag and find your way out of that bondage in order to discover the happiness and peace of mind they'd so long denied you.  Hopefully, you would find a guy that respect and support your freedom to be who you want  to be and both of you would set out creating the kind of world you want to be in to achieve your God given potential as a woman thus, a whole and complete woman.
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Gbam! You've said it all especially the bolded part. Bless your heart for this post. I agree especially with the bolded part.

Ekwere:


Africans are copying nonsense life and character from the Americans and Europeans