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Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by kuulkyd(f): 8:08am On Jul 31, 2015 |
tellwisdom:Chai, see waste of labour pain. She's a mother of 2 for Christ sake, if u don't have respect for urself, pls pretend to have for others, especially women. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Nobody: 8:09am On Jul 31, 2015 |
long distance relationship is a sh1t talking from experience... sorry,I'm not good at advising nd ain't here for that either; to all the singles and not dating crew,plz don't get into one no matter how sweet your partner is,I know you'll say "I can deal with it" blaaah! I said that too |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by hayor93(m): 8:37am On Jul 31, 2015 |
prinwa:dat's d mistake!!! |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Jorussia(m): 8:47am On Jul 31, 2015 |
AleAirHub:That's a true situation of things here,my brother.prinwa has no reason to complain,because, there are many ladies whose husbands are oversea and they fasting and praying day and night to see their husbands once in a year,with no breakthrough at all. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by jossypet(m): 8:51am On Jul 31, 2015 |
You probably did not do your homework well b4 saying 'I do' to him. Nevertheless, there's nothing impossible with God. While u pray to God, humbly n wisely let your husband know that u're not ok with the form of marriage u both are practicing. It is opening doors for the enemy to creep in. U both need to be together. Lastly, pls DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT consider divorce. Trust God. That's the best option. Grace 2u |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by josite: 8:53am On Jul 31, 2015 |
stop harrasing him.do as much as you can to legitimately get yourself financially secured,like setting up a shop/business or getting a good job.When you have up to 5/10m.Give him ultimatum to either come home or take u guys with him or serve him with divorce papers,the way you are going,you will sooner than later allow another man to start handling with your boobs and the rest will be history.It is a mistake you made marrying him,having the first kid for him and then going ahead to have the 2nd kid in an unsettled marriage.Accept youve made a mistake and the issue is do you want these mistakes to ruin your entire life.you marry to have regular sex and companionship and you are not getting it and very soon you will become less and less mentally and emotionally unstable. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by G3n3sis: 8:55am On Jul 31, 2015 |
prinwa: |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by nairalife2013(m): 9:00am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Brandnew2:love is very strong when it.s genuine. There are women that such estrangement can cause serious break down and other psychological blows. My wife is more attached to me than our kids. Itz unbelievable that any time I refuse to talk to my wife or see her for up to 48 hrs she falls sick with hot fever and tremor. U wont believe but Itz just as simple as that. Thanks goodness the lady is not used to him line hook and sinker kind of. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by ModiKen(m): 9:09am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Brandnew2: Emotionally she feels pains. There is an immeasurable feeling u get from physical presence of the one you love. The kids could be good company; friends and relatives as well but nothing compares to the physical touch, kiss, sight, smell of ur darling darling. Prinwa tell ur husband how u feel. Explain to him in detail what u are going thru due to his absense and how it is affecting d kids. He may be too focused on making money and forget how much his presence is needed in ur life and dat of ur kids. If he truly loves u, he would start thinking of either working papers for u guys to join him or relocating to naija. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Truckpusher(m): 9:10am On Jul 31, 2015 |
freecocoa:Women are even the ones that suffocates men in a relationship with their chewing gum attitude - you can't even be somewhere without explaining yourself like a primary school boy does explain himself to his Mom about his whereabouts. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by ezenik: 9:10am On Jul 31, 2015 |
My advice,you can't put your hand on plough and look back,you most stay in that marriage,I know the physical,emotional feeling will be there,the only advice I can give you is that to find way to do it yourself if you can't bear the emotion instead of having boy friend,because that will worsten your marriage and you will regret at the end. God bless you |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by ezenik: 9:11am On Jul 31, 2015 |
My advice,you can't put your hand on plough and look back,you most stay in that marriage,I know the physical,emotional feeling will be there,the only advice I can give you is that to find way to do it yourself if you can't bear the emotion instead of having boy friend,because that will worsten your marriage and you will regret at the end. God bless you and pray |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by adedayourt(m): 9:12am On Jul 31, 2015 |
prinwa: AM VERY SORRY TO SAY THIS THOUGH. for a man to marry and abandon his family in this manner is the height of irresponsibility as a father and a husband. am avin a second opinion bout d value he places on his wife nd family nd i doubt his nt avin ........ You need to call him back to order befor ur kids strts to refer to der father as mum's frend |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Nobody: 9:15am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Luyeanka: Sorry for the way I talked to u. Was in a bad mood and its never in my character to be unfair to pretty girls like u. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Shigobaba(m): 9:17am On Jul 31, 2015 |
The best solution to your loneliness is to go and get an attachment that will make you happy. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by royal101(m): 9:18am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Prinwa Inbox me your Digit i have a very important solution for you and it will be personal communication via phone... |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by brodalikeme(m): 9:19am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Sowie my dear. This is part one of ur marriage, which involves getting married, having kids, and preparing for the next stage. Now is the time to start part two, which will be raising your kids living togather and gaining financial stability. Go back to the drawing board and discuss this next phase. Let him know how you feel and what harm the distance is doing to the marriage. ULTIMATELY, IT IS TOO EARLY TO GET TIRED. AT YOUR AGE YOU SHOULD HAVE PLANNED TO STAY MARRIED FOR AT LEAST 50 YEARY, FIVE OUT OF FIFTY IS VERY VERY SMALL. Stay strong my strong my friend! |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by asiwajumi(m): 9:20am On Jul 31, 2015 |
prinwa:step 1 .invite him back home. Step 2. Prepare his favourite dish. Step 4.let him enter your bed room when kids are at sleep. Step 3.. Kneel down and hold his legs and let him understand your pain. My advise as a solution is . Tell him to come back in nigeria to set up a business. at least 5years for that place no be moimoi .I summit |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by brodalikeme(m): 9:20am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Also pray at it, God sees your heart and if your motives are right and you have faith, He will answer you. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by tellwisdom: 9:21am On Jul 31, 2015 |
kuulkyd:
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Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by dejdel(m): 9:42am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Jorussia:nice one bro,you've said it all..I'll advice you to be very strong for him and turn deaf to any side talk.The children and the dude gesture towards them alone has shown the commitment of your husband in this marriage. I want to tell you that what he's doing presently is neither for himself or you,it is for the children. It takes time to get stabilise over there,all you gat do now is to support him with prayer and holding yourself strong and keep the family going.You will surely laugh last. Your husband is for real...May be I should round up with this..."If you believe this place is good for you and you are okay here,pls hang on"..President buhari to Nigerians in USA. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by phenol33(m): 9:48am On Jul 31, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:don't mind her she want to travel with him the next thing is to divorce him and run with his kids and money |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by menxer: 9:55am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Brandnew2: I guess she meant "emotional & sexual loneliness" which her kids can't fill, or am I missing your point? |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by menxer: 10:02am On Jul 31, 2015 |
let's be sincere, is it possible for a virile man to have sex once in a year? na wa ooo, long distance things! |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by gynazo: 10:21am On Jul 31, 2015 |
noblegrex: This is one of the very noble advice here. "All that glitter is not gold" |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Nobody: 10:31am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Brandnew2:no honestly you are the one who needs to get a life.. You posted total crap to be frank.. s-ex gadgets really? smh |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by ekamavictor(m): 10:31am On Jul 31, 2015 |
[/color] tellwisdom:You are a very big fool. I guess u are still a teenager. Dey wl f**k ur wife right in ur very own eyes. How can u play with such delicate situation. |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by darkman200: 10:35am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Typical Naija responses to a sincere question. The lady is seeking advice on how to cope with her situation, but there is a category of women on here, especially the single females that have lost all hope of finding any kind of man to marry (even poor and ugly men are no longer looking their way), all they have to offer on here is bad advice, or whatever they can say to destroy the op's marriage. Op- Life is not bed of roses, take whatever you have and make the best of it. The man is wherever he is, hustling to provide a better life for his family, you need to trust his judgement and engage your mind with other ventures that will keep your mind occupied until your situation changes for better. Goodluck! |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Neplusultra(f): 10:40am On Jul 31, 2015 |
OP,you just brought out yourself to the whole world! Imagine the advices they are giving you here It's because of you he is out dere and you are here complaining,didn't you know it would be like this before you accepted to marry him? I know how it feels but please don't complicate your life! Everything will be fine,just call family members and talk it over,Nairaland is not the best place to confide in! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Tired Of My Long Distance Marriage. by Neplusultra(f): 10:42am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Eminentafo:True talk! |
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