In the last couple of years, I have had girls attracted to me, and when I go the relationship way, or maybe the friends with benefits way, they usually refuse, and say they just want to be friends with me. I cut them off immediately, and they get angry saying why can't I just be friends with them without sex. Well, my thing is, I don't believe any man can ever be 'just friends' with a girl, without getting attracted to her and wanting sex in the long run. But ofcos, some wimps will say they can do that, but deep down, they so badly want to have sex with that girl.


You can believe me or not, but it is the truth. No. Men can never just be friends with a woman; attraction always gets in the way. But if you are lucky, you can fall in love with your best-friend.

Says who I have wonderful, nyc , responsible and polite male friends its just depends on your maturity and boundaris and also there maturity and dem knowing there boundaris.

your sex drive is too HIGH

try and level it down else...

Oga Go Marry ...

grad2012:
Says who I have wonderful, nyc , responsible and polite male friends its just depends on your maturity and boundaris and also there maturity and dem knowing there boundaris.

You would be surprised to know that most of them have sex at the back of their mind, This has nothing to do with maturity, there have been many researches carried out by psychologist on this. I wanted to write more on it, but NEPA took light, and my laptop battery is not really good, so I just posted it.

Gbam

kayo80:
In the last couple of years, I have had girls attracted to me, and when I go the relationship way, or maybe the friends with benefits way, they usually refuse, and say they just want to be friends with me. I cut them off immediately, and they get angry saying why can't I just be friends with them without sex. Well, my thing is, I don't believe any man can ever be 'just friends' with a girl, without getting attracted to her and wanting sex in the long run. But ofcos, some wimps will say they can do that, but deep down, they so badly want to have sex with that girl.


You can believe me or not, but it is the truth. No. Men can never just be friends with a woman; attraction always gets in the way. But if you are lucky, you can fall in love with your best-friend.

Who is the wimp here? You that cannot control your urges and just see girls as sex objects. Shame on you

kayo80:


You would be surprised to know that most of them have sex at the back of their mind, This has nothing to do with maturity, there have been many researches carried out by psychologist on this. I wanted to write more on it, but NEPA took light, and my laptop battery is not really good, so I just posted it.

Who is the psychologist? Add your source please. You cannot just spill bullsh1t on the Internet and expect people to believe you. This is the 21st century.

gj22:


Who is the psychologist? Add your source please. You cannot just spill bullsh1t on the Internet and expect people to believe you. This is the 21st century.

Read up...http://m.mic.com/articles/109480/science-shows-why-it-seems-impossible-for-men-and-women-to-just-be-friends


http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-and-women-cant-be-just-friends/

Wetin concern me nah, I get girlfriend wey no dey dull me, other female friends are just friends and attention might shift to them if there's vacancy. So, I don't do more than being a friend but if u want me to scratch ur back as a female friend, then u'll get it.

gj22:


Who is the wimp here? You that cannot control your urges and just see girls as sex objects. Shame on you

calm down guy, OP is saying d truth

even some cousin bro are still sexually attracted to their sis,,,talk more of a male frien.abegy

kathykathy:
even some cousin bro are still sexually attracted to their sis,,,talk more of a male frien.abegy

You sure u alright

kingsilly:

You sure u alright

this kind bitter leaf truth sef,,don put me for wahala

kathykathy:
even some cousin bro are still sexually attracted to their sis,,,talk more of a male frien.abegy

So it means you will open your puny for any male friend since that is your mind-set from the onset.

just wondering

skimma:



So it means you will open your puny for any male friend since that is your mind-set from the onset.

just wondering

eeee pain aaam

Benswaggy:


calm down guy, OP is saying d truth

Thank you o!

kathykathy:
even some cousin bro are still sexually attracted to their sis,,,talk more of a male frien.abegy

Yea!

mrsphyno

i see you creeping....

at least like a post or som'in

IamLEGEND1:
mrsphyno

i see you creeping....

at least like a post or som'in

I jus dey observe una o

I agree somehow. Especially if the lady in question is very beautiful or very sexy. Hard to stay platonic with her.....

However, I think it's up to the woman to decide. If she insists (with her actions) that you guys will only remain friends than it can work.

The lady may tease the dude tho, like sitting on his lap and hugging him and playing with him. Which can be more frustrating for the dude.

Sha, I wouldn't advise it. Male and female friendships are messy.

Cuz u avn't seen 1 b4 yeah dey might start developing sm awkward attraction 2wards each oda buh dey eventually move past it n bcum best pallies

Can a man be sexually attracted to every woman around him? In my opinion "NO", but if you think otherwise, I guess you need to be examined!

In My World, Only Gays Are Friends With Women.

That's all.

CaptainCodes:
In My World, Only Gays Are Friends With Women.

That's all.

Word!

Thunder fire any girl wey wan just be friends with me.....unless ur paying me for that....so I go dey send u airtime,buy u gifts,dash u money wen ur broke,take u out,buy u food etc.........u go come carry ur thing gv anoda man wey be ur bf abi?why dog go lick poo goat teeth go come rotten.....come on guyz!if we dnt bleep dis girls who will?.......I rest my case.

grad2012:
Says who I have wonderful, nyc , responsible and polite male friends its just depends on your maturity and boundaris and also there maturity and dem knowing there boundaris.

Very wise woman speaking here...smiles

kathykathy:
this kind bitter leaf truth sef,,don put me for wahala

Abeg I wan be ur friend jare. Make we click up jare.

orchmani:
come on guyz!if we dnt bleep dis girls who will?.......I rest my case.

DETTOL!!....hehehehe.

orchmani:
come on guyz!if we dnt bleep dis girls who will?.

DETTOL!!....hehehehe.

Then you guys need to read this....The Friend Zone: Much Ado About Nothing. It will change your perception. https://www.nairaland.com/2510195/friend-zone-much-ado-nothing