After being in a relationship with a guy for a
long time, you might wonder what is keeping
him from asking you to pop the question about
marriage. This can leave many doubts in your
mind. Is it you, something you did or said, does
he want to call it quits or what? It can be a
very stressing matter, and all this worrying can
take a toll over your otherwise normal life.
So, to avoid getting your stress levels high, we
get you a list of reasons for this delay, and
how you should handle it.

#1. He is scared to commit
Most men dread the word ‘commitment’. To
them, it means being restricted from all the
pleasures of life, and an end to their freedom.
Making him understand that not much will
change after marriage, can be a good way to
get him out of the commitment phobia.

#2. He is waiting for his parents approval
If he is a family guy, he might not want to go
against the wishes of his parents. He might be
planning to set up a meeting or something to
introduce you to them.

#3. He wants to enjoy his bachelorhood for
some more time Well, don’t they all? They might fail to understand that no time will ever be enough.
But, you just hang in there for a little more
time. If he still does not, then you must have a
word with him regarding this!

#4. Responsibility scares him
Being responsible for someone else, when he
still needs someone to pick up after him scares
him. Making him understand that you two are
in it together and will work as a team, might
calm him down.

#5. He still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend
Have you noticed him talking about his past
girlfriend quite often? That might be what is
holding him back. It is thus adviced to be
cautious.

#6. He has to wait for his elder sibling to be
engaged first

#7. He feels he might lose you if you say no
He might not be sure whether you are ready to
take the plunge or not. Leave him hints that
this is what you want to. If he catches them
right, you might have a ring waiting for you at
the dinner table tonight!

#8. He is in love with somebody else but
cannot recognise his feelings
It might not be his ex-girlfriend, but someone
else. You should be the smarter one here to
identify his feelings, and leave him before you
end up getting hurt.

#9. He is just being lazy
He knows in his mind that he wants to spend
the rest of his life with you, but is just being
lazy to propose. Show him that it is time he
stopped taking you for granted, and got you
that diamond!

#10. He might be searching for the perfect ring
Aahh! Now we are talking! Well, if this is the
reason, he is free to take as much time as he
needs to find the biggest and prettiest rock,
isn’t it?

#11. He wants to achieve a little more in life
professionally
He wants to be financially secure before he
asks your hand in marriage, to give you a
comfortable and wonderful life. Now, that is a
sweet thing!

#12. All his friends are still single
If his friends are unmarried, he might be a little
scared to be the first one to tie the knot. What
would his friends say, how they would tease
him, how he would be cut off from the group
for a while, etc., must be the thoughts clouding
his mind. If you too are close with his buddies
and can trust them as much as he does, get
them to lighten the conception that he has, and
encourage him to ask you out.

#13. He is scared of being a father soon
Men themselves are like little children, refusing
to grow up ever. Obviously, becoming parents is
the next step after getting married, be it sooner
or later. Being unsure to be responsible for a
child’s life is not his fault too, as it can be a
scary thought for some people. If you sense
that in him, make him understand that you both
do not need to rush into things. Having children
will always be on the cards, but you are in no
hurry!

#14. He wants to ask your parents before he
pops the question to you
Now isn’t that the sweetest thing ever? He
knows that you will say yes, but getting your
parents approval first is so gentleman like of
him. Yes, consider yourself lucky to have met a
guy that we thought does not exist anymore!

#15. He is waiting for you to ask him
Why should the guy always propose first? You
can too! And, maybe that is what he is waiting
for as he cannot gather the courage to ask you
yet!

Well, if you two are meant to be together,
eventually you will be. Do not push him to do
what you want. Let him do it his own way.
Unless you sense that he is delaying the
proposal for the wrong reasons, in which case
you need to walk out of this relation. It might
be a little late than you expected, but it will all
be worth it when he actually pops the question.
All you need is a positive mind and a little
patience!

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No. 11 is sooo me!

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