Hey 9ralanders, I strongly need ur advice,im a male,19,& a child of God wu holds him in high esteem,but then,im having a serious problem bothering me in terms of relatnship,Up til now,av gat no grl 2 kol mine,in short,av neva wooed a lady since birth just because I don't wanna go in2 sin,but,ova d yrs,as im growing matured,there's ds wilines in me 2 av a grl but im afraid,what can i do,I don't wanna cheat on any lady and most importantly,I don't wanna luse HEAVEN,tho,i strongly wish 2 av a grl 2 luv

it is well

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it is well

Amen!

Confused is a good word bro. . . leave the earthly things remember that?
But seriously do you mean dudes with chics aint gon make heaven or aint children of God? like really? ? ?
Olboy learn to decide and go for what you want.
If ima advice ya itll be: Find a girl you like and get close. . . .whatever you decide to do with her or call her is your biz

Big fanks 2 concernd 9ralanders,don't get me wrong,im nt saying dudes and chick whose's got hookd up aren't gonna get to Heaven,No,all im trying 2 say is dt,u kuld tempted and fall in2 aving seks wt ur partner,yeah,it can happen 4 sure,hoping 2 aving more views and contributns,tnx

Dude i dont understand you. . .
Do you mean you aint into seks? If yes then good for you cos there alota girls who would be very kwul with that.

Im nt in2 seks,what im tryin 2 pass acros' dt,if u're nt d determind type,its easy 2 go in2 seks which im nt settling 4 now,try and undastand

19 man! You r not old enought to date anyone thats why u r weak to approach or ask a girl out, face God and ur studies by the time you r 20 or 21 trust me you become a player by then but now relax and get the experince you need.

jimmy4x:

Hey 9ralanders, I strongly need ur advice,im a male,19,& a child of God wu holds him in high esteem,but then,im having a serious problem bothering me in terms of relatnship,Up til now,av gat no grl 2 kol mine,in short,av neva wooed a lady since birth just because I don't wanna go in2 sin,but,ova d yrs,as im growing matured,there's ds wilines in me 2 av a grl but im afraid,what can i do,I don't wanna cheat on any lady and most importantly,I don't wanna luse HEAVEN,tho,i strongly wish 2 av a grl 2 luv

Jimmy,spell W. . . . . .A. . . . . . .N. . . . . . . .K,what does it form?

steve49ja:

Dude i dont understand you. . .
Do you mean you aint into seks? If yes then good for you cos there alota girls who would be very kwul with that.

Sky-walker:

You gat a problem?

steve49ja:

You gat a problem?

You sure about that? what i thought was a few gals would like that,not a lot of gals.

Judging with views of female nairalanders regarding seks: alotta them claim not to do seks
Judging with some online research and ish youll realise them ladies some of them though prefer tongue to the real thing. . .and for the thread-starter. . . he has to understand most ladies aint all bout the seks thing once ya gat other ways to makeup.

@poster, u ar stil a kid. Wait til the time to have a gal 4a serious relationship is right.
You wan miss heaven?
Check urself critically, u don backslide finish. Devil don arrest u nao!
Find ur way back oh!

hay jimmy, @ 19 u are no kid anymore. der are two things involvd here, 1st, u need a gal friend cos u now think u need it, or maybe u beginning to feel lonely or because all ur friends even d once @ church has 1 or 2. 2ndly, u don't want 2 loose heaven because u are afraid u mite be tempted wit seks n go for it.

ok now lets solve the puzzle. I was 18 wen a had 1st seks, was equally early, but u wouldnt blame me, d gal wantd it even wen she wasnt a girl friend, so being 19, u stand more chances, so getting a gal friend now, beware, cos seks is a member of every relationship. lol

Another thing is that, if d gal u love needs it and u dont giv it 2 her, then u stand a chance of loosing her. thats for sure.

so its better u forget having a gal friend for now till u are matured enough so u would equally get a matured gal friend that wants to go to heaven too. lol

Occupy ur time wit more church activities, so u dont think  too much of a gal, just as it happend to me and i stoped going to church. I can tip you on wat to engage ur time wit. ok

we are mate so u will enjoy my company

WEBPRO, I respect ur thinking faculty and d way u reason,U seem to be the ONLY one who undastands me quite well,tnx 4 d insight,u're such a brother,God bless ur brain

hay pal, just hit my profile and send me a mail. think we can be gud friends.

Tanx my guy,av sent u a msg,

Im giving u ds babe 4 ur kind gesture lol,don't tl me u've startd tripping 4 her lol

@poster,
if only Jesus was a gal////

Please Jimmy, can I humbly ask u why u pasted dis picture here?

ehe? New comer