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The Sad Reality by Nobody: 8:56am On Aug 12, 2015
Many are in relationships, having high expectations from their partners. Not realising that they will leave you. It doesnt matter what you do, they WILL leave you or they WILL stay. Its their choice and not a function of what you do. So if you go into a relationship thinking that if you were to be nice, caring, not cheat, etc will cause the relationship to stand the test of time, you might be wrong. They stay because they want to not because of what you do. Thats why you hear of nice guys getting dumped when they did nothing to deserve such or people still staying in abusive relationships even when they have every reason to leave . Relationships have grown so complicated these days that even social media has an "its complicated" relationship status.

What I'm trying to say in essense is that one is only sure of himself/herself in a relationship. You cannot be certain of the partner even if you do everything an awesome partner would do. You can only love and HOPE it is reciprocated as you'd like and not EXPECT. Relationships are not like computers where your input determines the output, though it happens sometimes.

But if by some stroke of fate, you become certain or sure of your partner beyond all doubt, then hold on tight to the person especially since you are certain of yourself also. tongue

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Re: The Sad Reality by Crieff(m): 9:44am On Aug 12, 2015
Why is your tongue out? That is a true and valid observation.

Let's read some other divergent view of what you have written.
Re: The Sad Reality by IamLEGEND1: 9:55am On Aug 12, 2015
Nice write up bro
needs more x-rated content though
#Strippers&Prostitutes
Re: The Sad Reality by Nobody: 10:14am On Aug 12, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
Nice write up bro

needs more x-rated content though

#Strippers&Prostitutes

grin grin cheesy cheesy...una too get mouth for nairaland sha o
Re: The Sad Reality by IamLEGEND1: 10:23am On Aug 12, 2015
Manuelson:

grin grin cheesy cheesy...una too get mouth for nairaland sha o
it will help kick the piece up a notch.....
#SexSells
Re: The Sad Reality by yorex2011: 11:52pm On Oct 25, 2015
There's truth in what the op is saying

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