guys, u had a problem wit a girl u ve dated before and she sent u a text insulting u, i dislike ur behavour, u re stupid, foolish etc. Wat will u do in responds to this, because am sure as a guy, u wouldnt keep quite.

hmmmm e didnt easy

romade:

hmmmm e didnt easy

@poster,
play the matured mind here,i guess when you respond,the insults will still continue but when you make her look like the fool by not responding,you will keep her guessing.

DNT EVER NEGLECT THE OPINION OF A WOMAN,

van der jo:

@poster,
play the matured mind here,i guess when you respond,the insults will still continue but when you make her look like the fool by not responding,you will keep her guessing.

U rite! basically it is wrong from her side but in this case
not responsding will kill her spirit and hurt her

Ignore d message


ma bad poster

Silence is the best answer 2 d girl.it will make her regret it.

Silence is the best answer 2 d girl.it will make her regret it.

Silence will not help you in anyways,  communicate,  make she no visit babalawo for ur case ooh, 

talk with her and just be nice. Men often forget that women are people with feelings. Yeesh! 

tank u all for ur positve ideas and thoughts.

I sent her a text, dis is wat i wrote

Don't tink I will respond 2 dis, @ least, am not that stupid. Tanks anyway, I humbly accepts all u said.
Sorry 4 stalking u, n 4 wat I said.
Don't worry, I won't boda u again.
Take Care
Steve


and she has been calling me since morning, although I ve not picked her call, cos am kind of busy wit a project.
but wat do u tink she is going to say, because am sure she is not calling to apologies too, because she has this pride in her, and that was wat i told her that made her sent the text to me ealier.

webpro:

guys, u had a problem wit a girl u ve dated before and she sent u a text insulting u, i dislike ur behavour, u re stupid, foolish etc. Wat will u do in responds to this, because am sure as a guy, u wouldnt keep quite.

I will most def ignore/delete the txt as i wouldn't be stooping low to her level.
You have moved on so no need to war of words as;
you had be re-opening old wounds
wasting you valuable credit on worthless rants
wasting your emotion and thoughts on past that can determine your future

You wat I find, women do this stuff for attention.

Call her and say " I jus wan greet you ooh" hope body dey kampe, and drop the call,  Im sure she's in love with you explains why she is soo angry,

make sure thats the first and last time you speak with her. Don't send her anymore text messages, it will only escalte things. Talk with her, call her to talk.

Please let us women speak

@ sistawoman, we are listening.

OBVIOUS:

@ sistawoman, we are listening.

I have to wait to get permission from the OP. I want to respect his thread.

ok. sistas, u re welcome. lets her from u

I for one, will call her and apologise 4 whatever action of mine that earned me the insults and then thank her for the insult and then drop the call.That 4 sure would be my last call to her until she apologises!
@ charmine
didn't you see the "ladies don't say a word" written as subject? Or did you fopget you were a lady

Be honest and tell me what you did to her, please?

I wont rain insults I promise. Or hit me on yahoo and tell me what it is that you did.

Keep quiet and wait for her to send another one before replying because

1. The message may be for someone else

2. If she really means it, you'll piss her off more by staying quiet. Guys don't know the power of the silent treatment, it is better than all that screaming and trying to reason with her. Just shut up and she'll come begging.

Ignore the message completely. . .she still cant get over me . . .OBVIOUSLY.

if she keeps sending more. . .My only reply will be. ,

"Thank you dear, i knw how you fell.". . ."Thanks luv, its ok". . .

Ignore the message and find a way to Bleep her 4 d last time. Dig her hard so that she wont have the audacity to send such derogative text next time.

There is nothing more hurtful than keeping silent when she sends such a text message. She sent the message with some motives behind it.

1. Either to incite you to anger and you become irrational

OR

2. To express her disgust and anger at you, expecting a response.

In either of the case scenarios, she is best ignored temporarily.

Ok now i see. She is just a little me at that age.

Her pride and dislike for being wrong are blinding her. She is trying to turn the tables on you because you pointed out a flaw.

She has a need, actually it is a compulsive desire to always be right and never ever make a mistake.

People like her and me know that perfection is something we can never have but is something that we need none the less.

The guys are right:

Ignore her.
Dont pick her calls
Leave your house today because her next step will be to come to your house.
The text message you sent is driving her crazy because she did not get the desired result.
Send her a text message and let her know that you will be going over a male friends house to clear your head and that your cell will be off.
Then dont pick her calls and leave the house.
Dont respond to any text messages again.
Let her stew.
Let her stew.
Let her stew.

Tomorrow
Send her a text message that says:

Goodmorning my love
I know that you seek perfection but it is something that is unattainable.
I know that you dont like to be wrong, but being wrong and admitting it is sexy to me.
I love you despite your flaws.
I love you because your not perfect.
Let us put this matter behind us and move forward.

This will calm her
And this should be done when she starts to act like this again.

Please dont give up on her
Please dont throw her away because of this
Please work with her and you will have a diamond that will be able to properly handle when she is wrong.

I am proof that it can be done.

then swear for her father too. simple.

segzi cres:

then swear for her father too. simple.

ha ha, no offcourse not

sistawoman nicely stated.

Webpro,

Do all what sisterwoman wrote, but don't do the 'tomorrow text message' part.
If she's truely sorry, she will look for you, office, house,, ur favrite spots. If she doesn't get to meet you, she will send messages apologizing.
Then! you know she's ready to change.
After then ONLY! should you now sit her down face-2-face and tell her what sisterwoman wrote here:


Goodmorning my love
I know that you seek perfection but it is something that is unattainable.
I know that you dont like to be wrong, but being wrong and admitting it is sexy to me.
I love you despite your flaws.
I love you because your not perfect.
Let us put this matter behind us and move forward.

viperman:

Webpro,

Do all what sisterwoman wrote, but don't do the 'tomorrow text message' part.
If she's truely sorry, she will look for you, office, house,, ur favrite spots. If she doesn't get to meet you, she will send messages apologizing.
Then! you know she's ready to change.
After then ONLY! should you now sit her down face-2-face and tell her what sisterwoman wrote here:

The problem is she wont apologize.

He has to show her, say to her that it is ok to be imperfect.

Trust me.

She will get mad and madder and madder.

heaven knows this ain't a thread

sistawoman:

The problem is she wont apologize.

He has to show her, say to her that it is ok to be imperfect.

Trust me.

She will get mad and madder and madder.

If she won't or doesn't apologize then she's not worth his time. If she's too proud to beg him for forgiveness, then she doesn't respect him enough for a relationship, and is not worth investing time on.