Lizabeth25:
Issues before marriage!

It is well though cus I believe in most couples, when they will settle their matter now, nobody will be there!


As for the friend @OP, it best you mid your business. Because at the end, people will blame you if they end marrying and they still break up!

A single person is better than a divorcee"

proxillin:

A true lady you are. Some ladies were here defending her.

Lizabeth25:
Issues before marriage!

It is well though cus I believe in most couples, when they will settle their matter now, nobody will be there!


As for the friend @OP, it best you mid your business. Because at the end, people will blame you if they end marrying and they still break up!

A single person is better than a divorcee"

Oyind17:




I went through the ops post all I see is a jealous lover.

poshstore:
I notice the ladies are not commenting on this.Are they shocked by this or why are they silent on this matter?

chrizbrain:
lady's dis days, u need to examine thoroughly before taking any marriage decision. do you know dat my guy ex girlfriend dat was suppose to get marry on Saturday actually came for more Bleep in the eve of her wedding to her real fiancee.
this days, guys need to check well

francizy:


If a man had done this same stewpid thing the girl did, it's your kind that will come here to call the man all sorts of unthinkable names. Be objective for once woman!!!

Oyind17:











kids , we know them by their comments

Oyind17:











kids , we know them by their comments

proxillin:


I actually knew that the solution is to cancel the wedding.
But it cant come out of my mind.

The fear..when you see the truth, but can't afford to spill it out.

Oyind17:




I went through the ops post all I see is a jealous lover.

Billygee2u:

the may be as guilty as the lady

Billygee2u:

they may be as guilty as the lady

Billygee2u:

the may be as guilty as the lady

Eberex:


my guy, a woman with a mission can never be found out even by the FBI.

missmary:

Oyind17:

You are taking sides with your friend. if the lady is doing all that, why is your friend hell bent on marrying this lady? I wish I can hear the Lady's side of this story. My man was angry cos I didn't pick his call, my phone was on silent and he sent an annoying msg to me. If he opens a thread on Nl I know the kind of advice people will give him.

She lied to the DJ that her friend needed his service, she didn't discuss the unnecessary date with her fiance ... .... She just wanna get bonked before Marriage !!!

Abiola88:
I will advise d guy 2 calm d lady,try 2 settle d differencies.if she doesn't change,he can postpone d wedding

Eberex:


what do you mean mind your business? So you want the OP to tell his friend if he asks for advise to reply ''bro, Lizabeth25 for nairaland say make i mind my business, because e no be my matter'' huh?

Oyind17:




I went through the ops post all I see is a jealous lover.

Eberex:


my guy, a woman with a mission can never be found out even by the FBI.

agarawu23:
I will keep waiting becos we haven't heard from the Lady. I can't jump into conclusion when I know how things can be......

No evidence here cos the guy didn't catch the Lady red handed. Imaginations is killing the guy.

Bollove:
When peeps like you suffers from wrecked marriage you would think it is ur mama papa that is against you without knowing it is all about fishbrain inside most woman head !!!

No one is asking you not to go out with a DJ, imagine a DJ ..... She may just wanna fu.c..ked with the DJ for the last time before closing her coochie against all men but for her husband alone ......... I am speaking from experience !!!

She lied to the DJ that her friend needed his service, she didn't discuss the date with the DJ with her fiance ... .... She just wanna get wasted before Marriage !!!

Two ladies have approached me in my lifetime for this kinda crap which I formally rejected cuz I know my conscience will set me on fire for the rest of my life, months later they got married and Pregnancy ensued, few months ago they have delivered ..........One is Industry colleague the other a Research colleague....... all these happened this year 2015

...... I have a sense of accomplishment whenever I see any of them ....... I know they are in relationship but they never hint me they are close to Wedding/Marriage..... ..... They have this attitude of showing you their relationship is not smooth or seriously searching for the right man for marriage thus lured you to take over !!!

I got to discovered that they are both suffering from distance relationship !

My policy is :

I don't share babe with anybody and I don't bang whom someone is banging .......... It is either me doing the banging/Dating or somebody else ..... Anything other than me , I quit .... I don't get jealous , World is free
Quit is so easy !!

That was the policy that helped me against those two ladies !!!

Bollove:
When peeps like you suffers from wrecked marriage you would think it is ur mama papa that is against you without knowing it is all about fishbrain inside most woman head !!!

No one is asking you not to go out with a DJ, imagine a DJ ..... She may just wanna fu.c..ked with the DJ for the last time before closing her coochie against all men but for her husband alone ......... I am speaking from experience !!!

She lied to the DJ that her friend needed his service, she didn't discuss the date with the DJ with her fiance ... .... She just wanna get wasted before Marriage !!!

Two ladies have approached me in my lifetime for this kinda crap which I formally rejected cuz I know my conscience will set me on fire for the rest of my life, months later they got married and Pregnancy ensued, few months ago they have delivered ..........One is Industry colleague the other a Research colleague....... all these happened this year 2015

...... I have a sense of accomplishment whenever I see any of them ....... I know they are in relationship but they never hint me they are close to Wedding/Marriage..... ..... They have this attitude of showing you their relationship is not smooth or seriously searching for the right man for marriage thus lured you to take over !!!

I got to discovered that they are both suffering from distance relationship !

My policy is :

I don't share babe with anybody and I don't bang whom someone is banging .......... It is either me doing the banging/Dating or somebody else ..... Anything other than me , I quit .... I don't get jealous , World is free
Quit is so easy !!

That was the policy that helped me against those two ladies !!!

Bollove:
When peeps like you suffers from wrecked marriage you would think it is ur mama papa that is against you without knowing it is all about fishbrain inside most woman head !!!

No one is asking you not to go out with a DJ, imagine a DJ ..... She may just wanna fu.c..ked with the DJ for the last time before closing her coochie against all men but for her husband alone ......... I am speaking from experience !!!

She lied to the DJ that her friend needed his service, she didn't discuss the date with the DJ with her fiance ... .... She just wanna get wasted before Marriage !!!

Two ladies have approached me in my lifetime for this kinda crap which I formally rejected cuz I know my conscience will set me on fire for the rest of my life, months later they got married and Pregnancy ensued, few months ago they have delivered ..........One is Industry colleague the other a Research colleague....... all these happened this year 2015

...... I have a sense of accomplishment whenever I see any of them ....... I know they are in relationship but they never hint me they are close to Wedding/Marriage..... ..... They have this attitude of showing you their relationship is not smooth or seriously searching for the right man for marriage thus lured you to take over !!!

I got to discovered that they are both suffering from distance relationship !

My policy is :

I don't share babe with anybody and I don't bang whom someone is banging .......... It is either me doing the banging/Dating or somebody else ..... Anything other than me , I quit .... I don't get jealous , World is free
Quit is so easy !!

That was the policy that helped me against those two ladies !!!

proxillin:
My friend’s wedding is coming up by next month. I am to be one of his men in suit.

I noticed they are quarreling recently. He opened up to me yesterday.

They are looking for a DJ to play at their reception, so his wifeToBe got a number of one DJ, added him on whatsap and they started chatting. My guy trusted the lady that she is just doing business chat with the DJ.

One day, my friend was going through her whatsapp chat with the DJ. The WifeTB told the DJ that she needs the service of the DJ for her friend’s wedding. She didn’t tell the DJ she is actually the one wedding.

The DJ started asking her out for date. She agreed to meet the DJ for a date somewhere.

My guy saw all that, yet he kept quiet and didn’t want to raise the issue with the lady as their wedding is close, before people start saying he is jealous, he is spying on his girl blahblah.

But my friend could not endure the whole thing again when the DJ started calling her repeatedly. They engage in confidential phone calls. She will be laughing…all Yes No Yes No Ok.. Ok hmmmm conversation, so that someone nearby will not understand what they are saying. At times she excuses my guy to go and pick the DJ’s call.
My guy finally confronted her, why all conversations with the DJ are not business and formal. Why is she hiding things from him?

The wifetobe went mad she alleged my guy is jealous, wrongly suspecting her.

My friend told her, he actually read their chats where they agreed to go out on a date.
That’s when she admitted that he actually asked her to meet him somewhere for a hangout.
She said she had nothing in mind for him. She is only going to meet him as friend at a restaurant. Nothing is going to happen. It’s just a harmless date.

My friend opened up to me that he regretted making decision to marry her. He told me a lot of things that he can’t cancel the wedding again. He will be part of the wedding, but after the wedding, he will start f***cking girls. He will make life difficult for her.

I told him, it’s better to remain single than to go into a hateful marriage.
Deep down in me, I can’t advise him to cancel the wedding.
I have summoned them for a meeting to discuss it and settle it. But that lady can be arrogant at times. My peace meeting may or may not be successful.

Is it normal for a lady to go out on a date with another guy just a month to her wedding?



Please advise your buddy to stair clear of such union cos he might not be lucky with his plans to maltreat the women when they are married,he never can tell also what the woman also had in stock for him.........hmmmm i smell doom for your friend.truth is bitter though

therealdeal10:
It's definitely nt right, there isn't a single guy dat wuldn't b suspicious n jealous, if u try n reconcile dem both n d woman still continue with her habits den bro d wedding shuld jst b called off rather dan go ahead wit d marriage n start facing countless problems
Gudluck

Lizabeth25:
He shoudlnt be on the side of any of them!


That is one i meant!