Holluwatarhyor:
bros,write another one,the lady already complicated the issue by telling the DJ it's her friend's wedding,she has the intention of cheating abeg

proxillin:
My friend’s wedding is coming up by next month. I am to be one of his men in suit.

I noticed they are quarreling recently. He opened up to me yesterday.

They are looking for a DJ to play at their reception, so his wifeToBe got a number of one DJ, added him on whatsap and they started chatting. My guy trusted the lady that she is just doing business chat with the DJ.

One day, my friend was going through her whatsapp chat with the DJ. The WifeTB told the DJ that she needs the service of the DJ for her friend’s wedding. She didn’t tell the DJ she is actually the one wedding.

The DJ started asking her out for date. She agreed to meet the DJ for a date somewhere.

My guy saw all that, yet he kept quiet and didn’t want to raise the issue with the lady as their wedding is close, before people start saying he is jealous, he is spying on his girl blahblah.

But my friend could not endure the whole thing again when the DJ started calling her repeatedly. They engage in confidential phone calls. She will be laughing…all Yes No Yes No Ok.. Ok hmmmm conversation, so that someone nearby will not understand what they are saying. At times she excuses my guy to go and pick the DJ’s call.
My guy finally confronted her, why all conversations with the DJ are not business and formal. Why is she hiding things from him?

The wifetobe went mad she alleged my guy is jealous, wrongly suspecting her.

My friend told her, he actually read their chats where they agreed to go out on a date.
That’s when she admitted that he actually asked her to meet him somewhere for a hangout.
She said she had nothing in mind for him. She is only going to meet him as friend at a restaurant. Nothing is going to happen. It’s just a harmless date.

My friend opened up to me that he regretted making decision to marry her. He told me a lot of things that he can’t cancel the wedding again. He will be part of the wedding, but after the wedding, he will start f***cking girls. He will make life difficult for her.

I told him, it’s better to remain single than to go into a hateful marriage.
Deep down in me, I can’t advise him to cancel the wedding.
I have summoned them for a meeting to discuss it and settle it. But that lady can be arrogant at times. My peace meeting may or may not be successful.

Is it normal for a lady to go out on a date with another guy just a month to her wedding?

Oyind17:





A woman that have the intention to cheat will only password the phone. until I sees s of their chat and hear the lady side of the story . all na wash

DrGroove:
The wife to be is f o o l ish.
what type of phone is she using that she can't have it passworded,pattern locked,face locked,voice locked,all d lockable that somebody will have access to see her chats and go thru her phone in her absence?

So that is your own contribution to this topic?

How the wife to be should have successfully cheated on her fiance without getting caught?

I just knew people like you and the woman in question really existed.

Serial cheats with no self-respect or dignity for their self worth.

*spits*

proxillin:


When a husband start misbehaving in a marriage, people start seeing him as bad. The lady will become a saint and start going to church to pray with pastor so God can touch the heart of the wayward husband.

Pastors fails to ask those women what they did to the guy before wedding.

proxillin:


I said she is arrogant because I invited them for a peace meeting, who knows the meeting will be truncated when she start showing me her attitude. because I dont have time for nagging lady. I will just walk out of the meeting.

Holluwatarhyor:
and your likes,that's if you are even maRried yourself,will go to your pastor,alpha or babalawo that guys are not asking you out,if you like password your pussy,na you sabi

DrGroove:

Lol..whats ur pain? A mobile phone is a personal device! Women are advised not to go snooping on a man's phone.Same goes to the man! Nobody touches my phone in my absence,without my permission! and I don't touch anybody's phone!! and I am married(6years and counting)! If ladies passworded their kitty cat,hediots like u would have sense! m u m u!!!!

misspicy:
Hmmmm,now am confused,she is arrogant?
seriously sometimes,women cause most heartache they experience in marriage...
Op advice your friend to wear his usain bolt snickers and run,if not,dat marriage will be a sham....him sleeping around and she going on a date around...
Its d children they will have that wilk suffer the effect of a bad marriage.

naijaboiy:

So that is your own contribution to this topic?

How the wife to be should have successfully cheated on her fiance without getting caught?

I just knew people like you and the woman in question really existed.

Serial cheats with no self-respect or dignity for their self worth.

*spits*

DrGroove:
The wife to be is f o o l ish.
what type of phone is she using that she can't have it passworded,pattern locked,face locked,voice locked,all d lockable that somebody will have access to see her chats and go thru her phone in her absence?

Oyind17:




You are taking sides with your friend. if the lady is doing all that, why is your friend hell bent on marrying this lady? I wish I can hear the Lady's side of this story. My man was angry cos I didn't pick his call, my phone was on silent and he sent an annoying msg to me. If he opens a thread on Nl I know the kind of advice people will give him.

tsdarkside:


thats it!!!!..the next person that wish me to be saved by that white-Jesus-christ,i will swear for am!!!

DrGroove:

Better know we exist! the same way you cheat without self respect or dignity is the same way your wife cheat/will cheat! what business does he have snoopping around her phone?? Can he allow a woman go through his phone? Rabbish!

proxillin:


Passwording your phone is fine if you dont have ulterior motives.

Imagine someone like that WifeToBe passwording her phone.

agarawu23:
still on my point, The lady left her conversations because her mind is clean. we are only reading the guys part of the story without hearing from the lady so we can't just jump into conclusion.

she told the DJ the wedding is for her friend doesn't mean she wants something from him, she might just wanna be free to beat the charging price and moreover that's not q big deal on the issue on ground. I may have money to buy a car and when I get to the dealer, I can tell him I am buying it for my friend and he doesn't have much money cos I am the one lending him just to get get it at cheaper price.

She isn't picking the dj's call in the guy present doesn't mean things are going on between them. We are talking about marriage and not bf and gf issue o because I still blv the guy has a lot of choices before he chooses to end up with the girl. If he doesn't trust the girl, he won't have wanna marry her so therefore he should hold his trust and tell the lady to end all conversation with DJ.

The guy way know pure cos he has already made up his mind flirting around after marriage that means even if this issue didn't come up, he will still fvck around.

we shouldnt trust the guy that much jare. though ladies aren't to be trusted too but this issue isn't what "WE" think

Amazo:



I'm guessing you haven't been dating smart rich boys. For a few hundred dollars in monthly subscription fees, i'll have all your mobile com devices hacked and accessible 24/7, 365 days, sun up to sun down to sun up, with info on all your social networking, calls, texts, location, GPS movement tracking, and all data logs within the palm of my hands. It's so much fun and you'll be amazed at how amusing lies become when you already know the truth, and the best part, YOU CAN PROVE IT. Next thing I start hearing repeatedly is, I'm sorry with pathetic tears...and my answer is pretty much always the same - BYE!!!

Oyind17:









I want to know the outcome of this story, I don't mind dropping my number. Lolzz, I want to know if she actually cheated on your guy few days to their wedding. I find it hard to believe.

DrGroove:

And after stressing yourself,you find nothing! who is the f o o l? fyi,i didn't date boys.i dated a secure confident MAN who knows how to respect other people's private property!

ekiloui:


In other words you are judging the story based on what your man did nd not on what you read. As a lady I will suggest that man cancels his wedding! A woman that had to lie that it was a friends wedding nd even agreed to go on a date with the dj isn't loyal.

Infact she's a Hoe!

He better cancel that wedding now that the handwriting is clear on the wall and stop thinking of a revenge scheme that'll lead him to hell.

This has absolutely nothing to do with jealousy! Aunty is not ready to settle down, maybe she's still looking for true love

proxillin:


A true lady you are. Some ladies were here defending her.