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Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by bluespice(f): 12:32am On Mar 29, 2009
moyo a game on human minds is my sin wink
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Moyola(f): 12:55am On Mar 29, 2009
if itz woh i f!nk it iz. . . .ain no saint e-daa! cool tongue
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by bluespice(f): 1:06am On Mar 29, 2009
grin wink
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by tope2000(f): 1:58am On Mar 29, 2009
Dont wanna get married yet cuz i still have things to do b4 i tie the knot cool
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by dayokanu(m): 2:02am On Mar 29, 2009
Which thing Tope wan do again?

Wetin u never do for this world

Ebony I be pikin o.
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by tope2000(f): 2:05am On Mar 29, 2009
dayokanu:

Which thing Tope wan do again?

Wetin u never do for this world

Lol . . . . bro dayo shud a man be the only that has accomplished his goals b4 marrying? grin
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Nobody: 2:07am On Mar 29, 2009
dayokanu:

Ebony I be pikin o.
Of course na wink

Yet you no fit catch that bobo wey dey chase TOYOSI.

Arthritis dey stop you ni?
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Nobody: 2:08am On Mar 29, 2009
@topic
Cheiiiiii,

Let's just pray that all Naija men dnt turn shitty by the time I get to that stage shocked shocked
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Epi: 2:09am On Mar 29, 2009
Someone sent this to me. . . . .Interesting

Little girls watch the disney stories and dream of their prince charming. The prince rescues them and brings them a life of love, luxury, ease and fun. Then when these little girls grow up they are looking for a prince - and marry. They may try to change their real man into a prince and this ruins the relationship. They are disappointed when they realize that the fairy tales aren't true - and can't adjust to reality and be happy with what they have. Men are motivated by sex. They may work hard at the relationship at first to win over the object of their affection (and to get sex). Once they have "won" that woman they stop or reduce efforts at romancing. This harms the relationship. Many women would be better off not marrying. Many men would be better off just continuing to casually date. When children are involved it is best for them to be raised by two responsible adults who love each other - but this may not last. Marriage is over romanticized in most of the media (giant, glamourous weddings, fairy tales, etc). This is part of the problem.

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Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Treetop20(m): 2:10am On Mar 29, 2009
tope2000:

Dont wanna get married yet cuz i still have things to do b4 i tie the knot cool
things like?
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by tope2000(f): 2:12am On Mar 29, 2009
Treetop20:

things like?

Be more financially stable too
Buy my own house - yeah i said it tongue
see the world
n a few more things wink
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Nobody: 2:14am On Mar 29, 2009
epi:

Someone sent this to me. . . . .Interesting

Little girls watch the disney stories and dream of their prince charming. The prince rescues them and brings them a life of love, luxury, ease and fun. Then when these little girls grow up they are looking for a prince - and marry. They may try to change their real man into a prince and this ruins the relationship. They are disappointed when they realize that the fairy tales aren't true - and can't adjust to reality and be happy with what they have. Men are motivated by sex. They may work hard at the relationship at first to win over the object of their affection (and to get sex). Once they have "won" that woman they stop or reduce efforts at romancing. This harms the relationship. Many women would be better off not marrying. Many men would be better off just continuing to casually date. When children are involved it is best for them to be raised by two responsible adults who love each other - but this may not last. Marriage is over romanticized in most of the media (giant, glamourous weddings, fairy tales, etc). This is part of the problem.


this is total bull. 50 yrs ago marriages were not perfect but 100 times better than the nonsense we see today. What has been over romanticized isnt marriage but SEX. We have raised our kids in the culture that says sex = love = marriage.
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Treetop20(m): 2:14am On Mar 29, 2009
tope2000:

Be more financially stable too
Buy my own house - yeah i said it tongue
see the world

n a few more things wink
these you can do with a man
don't you reckon?
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by tope2000(f): 2:17am On Mar 29, 2009
Treetop20:

these you can do with a man
don't you reckon?


See the world . . . . yeah
Buy a house . . . . true but i want one in my name and another in both of our name
y'all cant be trusted . . . mama didnt raise no fool grin cool
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Treetop20(m): 2:18am On Mar 29, 2009
tope2000:

See the world . . . . yeah
Buy a house . . . . true but i want one in my name and another in both of our name
y'all cant be trusted . . . mama didnt raise no fool grin cool
you are over doing it
if you cannot trust your husband wholeheartedly
then i suggest you stay single and never get married
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by tope2000(f): 2:19am On Mar 29, 2009
Treetop20:

you are over doing it
if you cannot trust your husband wholeheartedly
then i suggest you stay single and never get married


This is coming a guy that doesnt trust naija babes grin
I dont trust anyone 100% not even my mother wink
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Treetop20(m): 2:20am On Mar 29, 2009
tope2000:

This is coming a guy that[b] doesnt trust naija babes [/b]grin
I dont trust anyone 100% not even my mother wink
when did we have this discussion?
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by dayokanu(m): 2:21am On Mar 29, 2009
Tope which goal you wan achieve again?

what have u not done?

@ebony-silk,

Me I be pikin oh Why should I worry about Toyosi for now? We aint ready let her enjoy her puppy love for now
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by tope2000(f): 2:22am On Mar 29, 2009
Treetop20:

when did we have this discussion?

When we were discuss abt long distance relationship n u said u cant never do that with a naija chic wink

dayokanu:

Tope which goal you wan achieve again?

what have u not done?



Bro dayo nobody has done everything o shocked
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Treetop20(m): 2:25am On Mar 29, 2009
tope2000:

When we were discuss abt long distance relationship n u said u cant never do that with a naija chic wink


Bro dayo nobody has done everything o shocked


oh that
i meant a Nigerian girl in Nigeria
need i say more?
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Nobody: 2:27am On Mar 29, 2009
dayokanu:

@ebony-silk,

Me I be pikin oh Why should I worry about Toyosi for now? We aint ready let her enjoy her puppy love for now
rtoflmao. . . right grin

Wey that girl sef, I don miss am
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Sauron1: 2:27am On Mar 29, 2009
Tope doesn't wanna get married??
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by tope2000(f): 2:28am On Mar 29, 2009
Treetop20:

oh that
i meant a Nigerian girl in Nigeria
need i say more?


Yes that grin
why r u guys scared of naija chics in nigeria . . . .na wa o tongue cheesy

~Sauron~:

Tope doesn't wanna get married??

ofcos i do
Its every woman's dream to get married . . . . No??
but they dont come cheap do they? sad
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Treetop20(m): 2:29am On Mar 29, 2009
tope2000:

Yes that grin
why r u guys scared of naija chics in nigeria . . . .na wa o tongue cheesy

ofcos i do
Its every woman's dream to get married . . . . No??
but they dont come cheap do they? sad
would you want a Nigerian girl in Nigeria
for any of your brothers or friends?
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by onyinye2(f): 2:30am On Mar 29, 2009
Marriage is a joke. It has lost its value over the years.

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Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Sauron1: 2:31am On Mar 29, 2009
onyinye2:

Marriage is a joke. It has lost its value over the years.

Marriage is an entrapment.

tope2000:

Yes that grin
why r u guys scared of naija chics in nigeria . . . .na wa o tongue cheesy

Too much jazz about em.


ofcos i do
Its every woman's dream to get married . . . . No??
but they dont come cheap do they? sad

Every woman's dream?? I disagree.
Some women have no dreams of getting married at all. . . .

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Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by tope2000(f): 2:34am On Mar 29, 2009
Treetop20:

would you want a Nigerian girl in Nigeria
for any of your brothers or friends?


Ah ahn. . . . .what is bizness with who my brother or friends date . . . . .sabi na him want the girl tongue
or did someone put chewing gum for hin eyez?? undecided

~Sauron~:

Every woman's dream?? I disagree.
Some women have no dreams of getting married at all. . . .

Oh well . . .i am not one of those woman
n i'm sure most naija women wud want to get married even if they r pretendin as if it doesnt mattter
dont be foooled by them tongue wink
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by tope2000(f): 2:35am On Mar 29, 2009
correction - women not woman cool
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Treetop20(m): 2:37am On Mar 29, 2009
tope2000:

correction - women not woman cool

now we know how many times you edit
your grammer.lol


tope2000:

Ah ahn. . . . .what is bizness with who my brother or friends date . . . . .sabi na him want the girl tongue
or did someone put chewing gum for hin eyez?? undecided

Oh well . . .i am not one of those woman
n i'm sure most naija women wud want to get married even if they r pretendin as if it doesnt mattter
dont be foooled by them tongue wink

i rest my case then
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by tope2000(f): 2:39am On Mar 29, 2009
Treetop20:

now we know how many times you edit
your grammer.lol

lol . . .its driving me nuts not havin the modify button angry
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Treetop20(m): 2:42am On Mar 29, 2009
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i will get married when the time is right
Re: Why Don't You Wanna Get Married? by Epi: 2:49am On Mar 29, 2009
Davidyllan wrote: "50 yrs ago marriages were not perfect but 100 times better than the nonsense we see today"

50 yrs ago the dominant male society ruled hence marriages appeared to be "perfect'.  In that era men were dominant and treated women like chattels. Today, some women don't stand for that BS, hence the divorce

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