Gridlock say smtin rather dan openg that ya yeye teeth   

you can only seek their advice but it dosent have to be the final say.

the pastor could always give you the support but most parents wouldn't if they do not like the woman/man he or she want's to get married to.

Gridlock say smtin rather dan openg that ya yeye teeth

jaybaby, u get beef 4 me? abi you be pastor? hmm maybe i will change my opinion because of u.

The one i don talk, e never do?

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i agery with you marlet01 that is right but the person in question is the unmarried couple which have the final say to thierself that is if they agery with each other to live as husband and wife and trusth in God then every thing will work out fine with them.

@topic,

NONE is final.Marriage is a matter of the heart,pray to God and follow your heart.

parent cos pastor is just a title

none.
It's the decision of the parties concerned and that's my final answer.

none

Well, you are in chare of your ife and no one is going to take the risk, vow or decision of marriage WITH or FOR you. Some pastors' prophecies turn out to be untrue. So it's YOUR decision thats final in the issue of marriage. Not me, not your pastor's and not your parent(s) but yours.

Pastor: has ZERO say
Parents: have SOME say
RichyBlack: has FINAL say

Pastor ko, pasta ni.

NONE has the final say. . .I alone DO.
Pastor 20%,Parents 30 % , finito !

none of the above. I have the final decision cox am the one going to live with person

mine

Pastor doesn't have the final say; but he will certainly contribute a lot, close to 60%.

Lokking at some of the responses, I just wondering that for those who believe marriage is principally a spiritual commitment, will it not be wiser to let someone more spiritually mature than yourself (ie pastor) to gauge the . . .em. . .spiritual compatibility before heading for the alter?