Tho s a sin bt s bettr do it dan to cheat on ur hubby.anythng dat mks u happy pls do it bt nt to cheat.

Ilekeh:
Why are Nigerians so backwards like this?

Kilo ti e de gan? Ta ni a se? Ta lo n binu si wa?

Anyway, where in your bible did God mention "self-service"? Who told you Jesus didn't jerk off when Jazabel denied him Mouth Gig?

go and sin no more

Ilekeh:
Why are Nigerians so backwards like this?

Kilo ti e de gan? Ta ni a se? Ta lo n binu si wa?

Anyway, where in your bible did God mention "self-service"? Who told you Jesus didn't jerk off when Jazabel denied him Mouth Gig?

go and sin no more

slapping the salami or poking the juice box is a SIN!!!!!!.....Common stop it!

Apart from looking at this topic spiritually or biblical living abroad where by your partner is far away from you, the moment the woman or the man begin to feel like having s..x or holding their partner so close the best i suggest they can do is to talk to each other on phone and tell each other how they are feeling at that moment or reminds each other of the good time they both spend together , tell him or her that how you wish he his nearby and do this and that to you boob or to your ikan okunrin...........if there is true love between the two at that moment the will feel relieved and talk talk about something meaningful beside sex...maybe consoling the wife that very soon we will be together ........But in a situation where by the woman ending up using a intimacy gadget or engage in the habit of watching a pornography this might latter lead to her wanting the real SEX and by so doing her marriage vows are broken ........to capture it all ladies and gentle men you are reading this tonight may be you are in a serious relationship with someone and you insist that he/she should travel abroad nothing bad in traveling abroad but if you push your man or woman to try all his possible best to secure a permanent stay i tell you ma'am /Sir ....you are doing yourself because if care is not taking the person will use what he has to get what he needs.....good night....poster

harry509:
I don't even kw wat 2 comment ryte now.

join them dey read, lol

molydonhenry:
Wat I call sin is wen u go against ur CONSCIENCE.



BTW, masturbation is not a sin. Especially one dat z not based on lust.

Believe me, the religion I've got is conscience bro

Pls can i ask us dis question? If ur ill, i mean ur suspecting u have low sperm count or urinary problem n ur doctor ask for ur sperm for test n ur not married. Also, knowing too well dat it against ur believe as a Christian. What do u do?

ronald4lif:


The embolden is false. Married women do play outside games on a near equal scale like the men. You think conji respects gender?

The question is not all encompassing. It should have been how do distance couple cope. The diaspora married men whose spouse are in Nigeria should have been included too. Wanna know how 'we' cope?

Didn't you see. Especially if ...?

[size=38pt]Self servicing kills ERECTION! Beware...[/size]

EzediPatricia:
What if a woman's husband is sick as a result can't perform and the woman is still young what would you have do? I think it's better to do self servicing than to commit adultery.

Nice observation

raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

Generally, I dont think masturbation is a sin.

Smh

emusmith:


Didn't you see. Especially if ...?

Does it matter. You think christian women don't cheat

Mastubation is a sin.

Flee yee from all forms of sexual immoralities,

ronald4lif:


Does it matter. You think christian women don't cheat

Have you seen one before?

emusmith:

Hmm yea...So, how do they cope?

Jesus explained that the moral commandments were not to be followed merely to the letter of the law, but also to the intent of the law. So, it was not enough to abstain from adultery, but God required that one not even look on a woman with lust (Matthew 5:27-28).

emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)

Masturbation is better than Cheating, Feeling Self pleasure is not a Sin, it's your body. You might feel dirty at 1st, but you will get use to it. Buy a Love Machine or a Cucumber, Same result

We know the truth but we try to cover it deep down inside us we know it is wrong but then we defend our actions by asking Where is it written in the bible that it is a sin?

malvisguy212:
Jesus explained that the moral commandments were not to be followed merely to the letter of the law, but also to the intent of the law. So, it was not enough to abstain from adultery, but God required that one not even look on a woman with lust (Matthew 5:27-28).

Speak English...as though you're a marriage counsellor.

Dats is why dey have fingers,moreover candles,cucumber,carrot and coca cola bottle dey available for them to use. If the urge persists after using all call your neighbourS

IsiCaterpillar:
My bf is a corporate wanderer so to maintain my sexual sanity I masturbate a lot and he is cool with it.

I can't cheat on him so I watch porn and stay with BoB = Battery-operated Buddy.

which site dey supply you porn?

emusmith:


Have you seen one before?

plenty

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emusmith:


Have you seen one before?

Na today? Stories are even abound on the web where Christian married women were caught pants down cheating or some cases their hubby filed for divorce due to infidelity. Some even lives with their hubby and not in a distance affair.

I hope you don't think a loose married woman won't cheat because she's a Christian

IYANGBALI:
Dats is why dey have fingers,moreover candles,cucumber,carrot and coca cola bottle dey available for them to use. If the urge persists after using all call your neighbourS

#clears throat #

Self service is a sin, whether is committed by either the single folks or the married ones. The Bible teaches us in 1 Cor 10 vs 31 that to, whatever we do, be it eating or drinking , we should do it all for the glory of God”. If you cannot give God glory for something, you should not do it. If a person is not fully convinced that an activity is pleasing to God, then it is a sin: “Everything that does not come from faith is sin” (Romans 14:23). Further more, let us remember that our bodies have been redeemed and belong to God. “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). This great truth should have a real bearing on what we do with our bodies. In light of these principles, the conclusion that masturbation is a sin is biblical. Clearly, masturbation is not glorifying to God; it does not avoid the appearance of immorality, nor does it pass the test of God’s having ownership over our bodies. So endure the KONJI, you can. It is a matter of discipline.

You are a big fool

Ilekeh:
Why are Nigerians so backwards like this?

Kilo ti e de gan? Ta ni a se? Ta lo n binu si wa?

Anyway, where in your bible did God mention "self-service"? Who told you Jesus didn't jerk off when Jazabel denied him Mouth Gig?

Hmmmmm, it's unfortunate no one really answered the question asked, the OP painted a scenario and asked for inputs and all I see is a lot of people playing the righteous game. Pls how can talking on the phone or reading the bible or even praying solve the problem of a "hard on".

Well for me I feel it's personal and based on individual scruples. If it works for u fine, if not thhen don't do it. Simple.

emusmith:
#clears throat #

go drink alomo

firstly sin is sin but listing what the bible has not listed as sin to be is adding to scripture such as in acts where some jews were enforcing the converted gentiles to follow all the laws of moses. the apostles cut this short on time by asking that burdens their fathers found difficult should not be placed on these converts. during sex everyone masturbates while trying to set things erect and ease things. distance is now what is being used as a yardstick for sin or no sin and not in the bible.

ronald4lif:


Na today? Stories are even abound on the web where Christian married women were caught pants down cheating or some cases their hubby filed for divorce due to infidelity. Some even lives with their hubby and not in a distance affair.

I hope you don't think a loose married woman won't cheat because she's a Christian

Well, cheating has little to do with religion. Women naturally aren't good at it as men.

ronald4lif:


Na today? Stories are even abound on the web where Christian married women were caught pants down cheating or some cases their hubby filed for divorce due to infidelity. Some even lives with their hubby and not in a distance affair.

I hope you don't think a loose married woman won't cheat because she's a Christian

no mind that guy. Even some pastors' wives dey cut shows these days

saint2ace:
Hmmmmm, it's unfortunate no one really answered the question asked, the OP painted a scenario and asked for inputs and all I see is a lot of people playing the righteous game. Pls how can talking on the phone or reading the bible or even praying solve the problem of a "hard on".

Well for me I feel it's personal and based on individual scruples. If it works for u fine, if not thhen don't do it. Simple.

Thanks for seeing. I used to have a friend who's married. She told me her hubby has been in US for 3 straight years... I was like...how?