We use 2 be a very good friend until he travel out of d country, he cal me wen he got der and so he has been cal me. After a month he got der, he caled and ask me 2 marry he. What should i do? And he has been sendin money 2 me

k now i'm gon be real honest with this thing

yall never dated or anythin yall was just friends and he called u to marry him now thats really stupid see he might be sendin u money and all but that don't me u just gon jump on him and marry him damn atleast yall need to date 1st and that will be kinda difficult cos he ain't there with ya and y didn't he to ax u when he was with ya and again yall relationship won't really be all that cos yall won't get to av fun with each other he just gon come back and yall will jump into marriage this is so stupid i'm serious really stupid

okay lemme get this straight here

yall good friends he traveled and month later he ask U to marry him?

U cnt jus marry like that
U guys need to be in a relationship 1st (not as friends)
money dnt bye Love or happiness
dnt rush into anything cuz hes sendin u money
ask question , what R his intensions 4 U? blah blah bla

what did u tell him when he asked u to marry him?

Nothing yet! I don't know if i should stop pickin his cal. D funest tin is dat he said his comin back in 3years time,

3 yrs thats a long ass time and like my gurl free said yall got to be in a relationship first to start jumpin into some marriage shiit like that

Where u having feelings for him, maybe by then u always wish he is ur boyfriend, if yes, accept him because he is already acting towards it, by taking care of u, but if no try explain to him that u have no feelings for him. Follow ur dream!

Tell him that you can not gurantee wanting for him for 3 years sha BUT. . .you really like him AND will marry him IF you are still single when he returns. ._{so he will keep sending you money!!!. . .you know you need the cash . . .don't you?}

@ Poster
If u add 3 yrs to your present age and u find out that u're still dey market then wait for him. otherwise, no, no comment yet.

What has age got to do with this?Since u guys were friends be4 he traveled , i think u shld accept to date him.I am very sure you know him very well as a friend be4 he traveled?And in ur heart do u think you can date him?Forget the fact that he is sending money already,he might have seen u as a wife material whn he was here and decided that he could rely on u.I know most guys there prefer to pick their women in Nigeria and since he doesnt have the opportunity to pick just any girl, he had decided to keep you.I know you are a younger lady,give the rship a trial.It may not even be up to 3yrs be4 he comes back.Always pray for his success and that God shld hasten everything he has gone to do.
Let him know you are here waiting for him as well.I know it takes the grace of God for distance rship to work out but all the same u r not too sure that if u keep looking for some1 here as well ,you will get married in that 3yrs time.
So be patient ,give him time to settle down.How is he living there: comfortable ,staying with some1 or on him own?And if u love him and you are sure he is good friend you can rely on,go for him and wait for him as well.
All the best.

Tales by moonlight! How do they say it in A Knight's Tale, marry for love and money will come or marry for money and love will come. Its your choice cause am sure you saw this coming and still couldn't resist his pile a dough. Whatever we say here, I see you walking down the aisle with that guy. Chikena!

But if the Guy was still back in 9ja and asked for a relationship u would have rejected him, na wey cash don dey flow now he come become Mr right.