BRAVAGAD0O:
Hello friends, 1st of all, I don't want you to see me as a man that involves third party in his marrital life/affair, am not that kind of man, in fact a lot of things go on that I rather let it stay in my home for us to sort or face together than involving family or friends but this challenge is really heavy for me to bear.

I don't really know what else to preach to her that I don't like her behavior anytime am broke ,for me it's a total turn off because it always makes me feel like am not being appreciated even with all my efforts to make us happy.

My wife nag anytime am broke or notice my pay ain't coming soon, all she does is play blame game like telling me all sort of story, like she never eat since last year, like she's not happy, that the marriage is hell because of just few days broke, and the few days broke doesn't mean no food for us, the few days broke doesn't mean I won't raise money to fuel generator talk less of some more important bills. I am just 10 months old in this marriage, please, real men in the house kindly advice me on what to do, if am the one being wrong here because I don't understand why she's always like that.

Lalasticlala I wouldn't mind front page at all because I really want to learn from all other husbands out there... Thanks

PhillyBrav0:
Oh really he told u guys his part n u guys just concluded dat am d bad one right? Is not a problem. I am not a full house wife people, I work monday to friday n work extra just for us to be ok, yeah I said ok. He has not been working for over 6months n u ar here telling me dat I am nagging when a woman complain n try to make d family move forward so dat means she is nagging. Am sorry for dose people dat said am bad tank u so much. I love dis man my husband n nothing will make me leave my marriage. God bless n tank u all for ur time

Poseidon000:
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If I am you. I won't give room for such nonesense. She either stop or we end the marriage.

It is really pathetic that you find yourself with such woman.
I don't like divorce but I won't advice you stay with such woman who is so money centered.
It's just like sleeping in same room with a snake.
If you ain't careful. It will harm you one day.
I am 90% certain that your wife will abadon you when things goes awry(God forbid) and she strike me like a person who may cheat or betray you.

You need to seek your inner self and ask your self,if you wanna build your future with such insensitive woman.
If it comes out yes.then talk to her about such attitude and it effect on you. If she continues.

I strongly recommend you leave that woman. Even you don't feel the effect now. you can't escape it when you get past your productive days.(When you turn old man).

Please be careful with that woman. She is a potential snitch.
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faithbibi:
Marriage is not for kids, it's for matured minds. You know why? You tend to go through lots of things. Inshort, I define marriage as an unfinished course. You don't have to bring your marriage here to seek for advice. I believe you are a man, to prove that, you have to learn how to manage your home. It's just like you managing a very big organisation, and it's about to liquidate, what will you do? Even if you need to seek advice as a manager, will you run to public? Please be wise and don't allow people insult your wife here. Your marriage is just 10 months. You can make it perfect

cococandy:
If you people have divided roles that you must provide and she must face the home keeping, then don't complain that she's nagging.
Do your own part.
I'm sure you will nag her if she doesn't cook for 3days.

When they tell people to relax their rigid rules of who does what in the home, they will think someone wants to divide their home.

If she doesn't see you as sole provider, why would she have problem bringing her own money to supplement your income?

BRAVAGAD0O:
Hello friends, 1st of all, I don't want you to see me as a man that involves third party in his marrital life/affair, am not that kind of man, in fact a lot of things go on that I rather let it stay in my home for us to sort or face together than involving family or friends but this challenge is really heavy for me to bear.

I don't really know what else to preach to her that I don't like her behavior anytime am broke ,for me it's a total turn off because it always makes me feel like am not being appreciated even with all my efforts to make us happy.

My wife nag anytime am broke or notice my pay ain't coming soon, all she does is play blame game like telling me all sort of story, like she never eat since last year, like she's not happy, that the marriage is hell because of just few days broke, and the few days broke doesn't mean no food for us, the few days broke doesn't mean I won't raise money to fuel generator talk less of some more important bills. I am just 10 months old in this marriage, please, real men in the house kindly advice me on what to do, if am the one being wrong here because I don't understand why she's always like that.

Lalasticlala I wouldn't mind front page at all because I really want to learn from all other husbands out there... Thanks

ibk4luv:



please I beg 2 disagree that women don't nag 4 nothing .... cos they do, it's in them and it's like an in built nature rather say u don't know women .... it explains it

Abbey2sam:
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It's Ball down

Aude:


The correct expression is "It boils down ..."

BUTCHCASSIDY:


LEmme guess
Like cover her face with a pillow while she sleeps

BRAVAGAD0O:
Hello friends, 1st of all, I don't want you to see me as a man that involves third party in his marrital life/affair, am not that kind of man, in fact a lot of things go on that I rather let it stay in my home for us to sort or face together than involving family or friends but this challenge is really heavy for me to bear.

I don't really know what else to preach to her that I don't like her behavior anytime am broke ,for me it's a total turn off because it always makes me feel like am not being appreciated even with all my efforts to make us happy.

My wife nag anytime am broke or notice my pay ain't coming soon, all she does is play blame game like telling me all sort of story, like she never eat since last year, like she's not happy, that the marriage is hell because of just few days broke, and the few days broke doesn't mean no food for us, the few days broke doesn't mean I won't raise money to fuel generator talk less of some more important bills. I am just 10 months old in this marriage, please, real men in the house kindly advice me on what to do, if am the one being wrong here because I don't understand why she's always like that.

Lalasticlala I wouldn't mind front page at all because I really want to learn from all other husbands out there... Thanks

Flashh:

Thank God you knew you're off-point.

Besides... Can I PM you?

vani86:


its her responsibility to contribute to the welfare of the family, and not nag at every opportunity when things aint going well but be supportive.

lazy ass gold digging bit.ches everywhere.

Joy1706:

She contributes to the welfare at the home front e.g cooking good food. You lazy ass men should handle the finances. After all you're the 'head' of the home ba?

Abi na jst 4 mouth

PhillyBrav0:
Oh really he told u guys his part n u guys just concluded dat am d bad one right? Is not a problem. I am not a full house wife people, I work monday to friday n work extra just for us to be ok, yeah I said ok. He has not been working for over 6months n u ar here telling me dat I am nagging when a woman complain n try to make d family move forward so dat means she is nagging. Am sorry for dose people dat said am bad tank u so much. I love dis man my husband n nothing will make me leave my marriage. God bless n tank u all for ur time

Joy1706:

She contributes to the welfare at the home front e.g cooking good food. You lazy ass men should handle the finances. After all you're the 'head' of the home ba?

Abi na jst 4 mouth

vani86:


See your pea brain. Cooking food is contributing to the family.

I will go on 100 days fasting not to meet girls that are not ambitious like you.

Aude:


I can't believe that in this day and age women still reason like this. So how do you buy the food to cook? What if a husband loses his job or worse dies, how would the wife take care of the family? Instead of watching Telemundo and nollywood movies, a woman can go to work and help support the family.

Joy1706:

Lmao! Na u get pea brain. If it's not contribution, why do you nag about women cooking good food. Abi u think it's easy?

Whether I'm ambitious or not, providing for the family is the MAN'S responsibility.

Aude:


I can't believe that in this day and age women still reason like this. So how do you buy the food to cook? What if a husband loses his job or worse dies, how would the wife take care of the family? Instead of watching Telemundo and nollywood movies, a woman can go to work and help support the family.

vani86:


dude, dont waste your time with madam joy, i am sure thats what she will like to be called. from her conversations, you can easily conclude that she has planned a life of being a house wife that nags the husby when pepper no rest and bleep the houseboy

Joy1706:

Why should she work and then come back home to the stress of cooking and house keeping? Is she the 'head' of the home? Husbands and Wives are not partners na. Each person should carry out his or her duties. He should sit up and be the MAN

vani86:


dude, dont waste your time with madam joy, i am sure thats what she will like to be called. from her conversations, you can easily conclude that she has planned a life of being a house wife that nags the husby when pepper no rest and bleep the houseboy