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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:10am On Sep 16, 2015
No you won't cheat on her if you love her. You won't even feel like.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Revolva(m): 9:14am On Sep 16, 2015
Yes I do love ncheat....cos cheatin is good...
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by floxyflex: 9:14am On Sep 16, 2015
Men are easily aroused by What d see, unlike women. Only few men can resist till d end. Not that she is okay with your cheating but she has decided it won't bother her but I knw with 100% certainty that she is not happy about it. Even in marriage course, women are advised to satisfy the man at all times and at any cost, they have a reason for Emphasizing on that but along d marriage you will notice that u can't do that. my conclusion is that most men sexual drive can't not be satisfied by one woman.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by ironman123: 9:17am On Sep 16, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:
CAPITAL Yes!


Only the fear of God helps control a man's wild libido. Nothing else!
You have said it all.THE FEAR OF GOD. The sexual libido of some men is very high compared to some women.Men cheat expecially when they are away from home. if conjeal strike it takes the grace of God to defend when u are not with your spouse. That is why men of God always advise couples to be together. Distance relationships facilitate cheating.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:22am On Sep 16, 2015
Yea. True though have received some bashing here on this grin
presh2mos:

Love the statement "Only weak and iirresponsiblee men cheat"
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:22am On Sep 16, 2015
DrGroove:

GOOD ANSWER! there is no connection btw love n F u c k to men.The next lady a man would bleep despite how much he loves n adores his woman may even be one dirty low class chic but he just has to enter the place.thats all


Wrong. That's just the justification of a chronic cheat. A man won't feel like cheating if he is in love take or leave.... We have used this lie for ages to justify fellow men's cheating, same way guys have successful lied that wen he doesn't have sex for an amount of time he will fall sick.... A man in love with you is basically a fool for you who is impotent towards other women.

Before my ex I had a girl who was very pretty nd non virgin so we always flirted. When I met nd started datin my girlfriend, my urge for the other girl died instantly I couldn't even bear the thought of kissing her, she will come nd id sit on a separate chair... My girlfriend was in another town, a virgin and frankly wasn't as fine as the one I played with here but I never cheated on her, why? Cos I love her. I know many guys who do d same. I have a friend who carried a girl who got half naked for him nd threw her outside locked his door, why cos he had someone he loved. Plus we ain't religious people at all..... Uno

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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:24am On Sep 16, 2015
Talk about robbers accusing someone of stealing grin
BUTCHCASSIDY:


Most people liking this are probably some of the biggest cheats
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:25am On Sep 16, 2015
There are still good and reasonable men and ladies out there. Although we live in a world that now worships sex and immorality.
shadowgwalker:
gbam! My first reasonable WoRD to be read this day! U have said well bro!

Even these EnDtImE girls now use their body to try to deceive men, they think all men luv those goodies tthey have. I will be like, 'try that with a gay...' And she'd go quiet. #smh

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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by nathdim: 9:27am On Sep 16, 2015
ilobasama:
Brother you dont love your lady. If you do you wont cheat on her.

And NO, not all men cheat. Only weak and irresponsible men do that.

Once again, you dont love her, you can never love someone and cheat on them
serious mugu even the lady you love could be cheating on you
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:32am On Sep 16, 2015
We all know that. That is not the question here

The point is if you love someone you shouldn't cheat on them.

Can you guys every drive home your point without insults. Smh
nathdim:
serious mugu even the lady you love could be cheating on you
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by bashydemy(m): 9:45am On Sep 16, 2015
Having sex is diffrent from love due to my own little knowledge of life.. an average man will cheat no matter how much he love his wife.... 80% of ladies of nowadays will cheat even those that are typing rubbish grammar here don't mind them ooo na eye service.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:47am On Sep 16, 2015
ilobasama:
Brother you dont love your lady. If you do you wont cheat on her.

And NO, not all men cheat. Only weak and irresponsible men do that.

Once again, you dont love her, you can never love someone and cheat on them
I beg to disagree with you, people love their partners and still cheat on them, often times this can be attributed to a seeming sense of adventure or the need to explore. This you can call lust.
In all, cheating may be a sign of irresponsibility, but weakness? No
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:50am On Sep 16, 2015
How can you love and wanna explore

Please give a comprehensive and explicit definition of love.

Lets start from there.

Most people think love is when you just like someone.

Anyway, everyone with their own views
7Alexander:

I beg to disagree with you, people love their partners and still cheat on them, often times this can be attributed to a seeming sense of adventure or the need to explore. This you can call lust.
In all, cheating may be a sign of irresponsibility, but weakness? No
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by joseph5566: 9:53am On Sep 16, 2015
Wetin no gud no gud
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Sike(m): 9:57am On Sep 16, 2015
Nothing is impossible!
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by lezz(m): 10:14am On Sep 16, 2015
DrGroove:

GOOD ANSWER! there is no connection btw love n F u c k to men.The next lady a man would bleep despite how much he loves n adores his woman may even be one dirty low class chic but he just has to enter the place.thats all
It's a ironic fact of life.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by talk2gdan: 10:19am On Sep 16, 2015
Most Men are just too adventurous seeing what is behind every beautiful lady but it doesn't mean that they love their wife's or their ladies, however, being faithful is a matter of choice or decision which help a lot in so many areas of life, thus cheating that is in the DNS is demonic which calls for deliverance prayers.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Marrtynze(m): 10:25am On Sep 16, 2015
Richiy:


Love is a very strange thing. I have "caught" my ex cheating a few times and I didn't walk away.
Really!!strange indeed,nd u saying ur trust for him stayed d same
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by MadCow1: 10:27am On Sep 16, 2015
ilobasama:
If you love one and lust after the other, can you call it love

Have you guys realize this word love covers so many others like satisfaction, happiness, dedication, trust, faithfulness, patience

Or whats your definition.

If you love someone with fullness of your heart, what time do you have to lust or cheat. Why should you lust after another. Whats the single reason.

If you love someone, faithfulness comes along. Don't dissociate faithfulness from love.

You can be faithful without loving someone but you can never love someone without being faithful

Stop bringing logic into this. It wont work

It's not logic, it's simple common sense.

I love my Range Rover Sports buy lust after a Maybach.

I love Jesus but I lust after sin on the regular.

I love my wife for everything that she is but I lust after Omotola and Waje's sex appeal.. I really wanna tap those Yoruba yansh one time grin.

Love is everything that is contained in the book of 1st Corinthians 13 and then some.. But Lust my Nigga is vicious and wild.

Love is in the heart, lust is in the eye.

I will give my wife a kidney.. I wouldn't give my side chick my car key sef.





Love is forever, lust is fleeting.


You can lie to yourself all you want, but you cant deny yourself truth. The woman you are with is not PHYSICALLY the finest nor most beautiful nor most attractive in the world.

When you love a person, it's not just their body, but their personality et al.

When you lust, it's nothing but their pretty face, bigass, Bigtitties, slim waist and her slutty outfit. grin You just wanna hit that. But do you know why after hitting that you still go back to your main chick? Cos what you love about her runs deeper than the physical.

I am not trying to justify it as being right or okay cos that seems to be what you are stressing about, all I am saying is: Yes you can love one deeply and still lust after another.

P.S:: It's not peculiar to Men alone. Even women do lust after men. My Boo lusts after Djimon Hounsou. She has told me. grin


Memory verse for you:: Love is not enough to keep a person Faithful... You need self discipline as well.


Madcow. . [/right]

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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by xtervaganza(m): 10:30am On Sep 16, 2015
ITS TRUE, YOU CAN CHEAT ON SOMEONE YOU LOVE



HAPPENED TO ME B4, I CHEATED ON HER(LONG STORY THOUGH) AND FELT SO BAD ABOUT I WAS ALMOST HITTING MYSELF. RIGHT THEN AND THERE I PROMISED NOT TO CHEAT ON HER AGAIN FOREVER AND EVER
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by kamikazeY(m): 10:37am On Sep 16, 2015
@op,Love is strictly to someone and overcomes anything odd.The moment you start cheating,impurities are mixed with your love for that person.A LOVE LOST AND NO LOVE FOUND.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Eniqurl(f): 10:38am On Sep 16, 2015
Cutehector:
lool see ur ugly face... Oya say cheeese grin
Hector
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Cutehector(m): 10:44am On Sep 16, 2015
Eniqurl:
Hector
its working cry
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by BlakkBoi(m): 10:47am On Sep 16, 2015
That a man loves a girl madly deeply doesn't stop him from cheating on her. It's in our DNA to cheat.

Getting married to my beautiful and wonderful girlfriend who lives in a far away city. I still buy abuja market every now and then, yet she's my everything.

We just can't explain it. Yet we won't accept a cheating girlfriend or wife.

Maybe that's how God made it. Created us and accorded us those privileges.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by ZaraBrains(m): 10:50am On Sep 16, 2015
whizqueen:
Wetin you go talk before tongue What happened to commitment?
Commitment ke! When its time reach, I'll think about it sha. tongue
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 10:50am On Sep 16, 2015
EnlightenedSoul:


Well said @ bold. Now, here is a post of plain and unadulterated truths (with slight corrections). Bravo, lol.
Thanks bro, but I beg to dissent; we both agree (pardon my presupposition) that cheating hurts the cheated party? If so, is it not proper that you should do all you can to avoid hurting them? Cheating is a tactical avoidance of artificial encumberances placed on man's natural impulse to multiply himself. I consider it an art form as each man brave enough to so express his nature may do so by his own unique artifice...so long as no one gets hurt...
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 10:56am On Sep 16, 2015
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Who be dis one whey de force himself make him no get sense. Go n read ur bible osiso.

A kind is only ready for war wen he has spent several decades for battle, He must have trained with his army for dem to obey wen he commands den. Do u think that those days was 2015 wen presidents sit in a majestic mansion n den order soldiers to fight. In those days, Kings lead his people to war.

Bible explained that Solomon was a mummys boy, He never trained with anyone to be ready.

Go n read ur bible.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:02am On Sep 16, 2015
Your view. One advice

Just try to be faithful and responsible. Stop lusting about.

No justification for cheating.

Nice day bro
MadCow1:


It's not logic, it's simple common sense.

I love my Range Rover Sports buy lust after a Maybach.

I love Jesus but I lust after sin on the regular.

I love my wife for everything that she is but I lust after Omotola and Waje's sex appeal.. I really wanna tap those Yoruba yansh one time grin.

Love is everything that is contained in the book of 1st Corinthians 13 and then some.. But Lust my Nigga is vicious and wild.

Love is in the heart, lust is in the eye.

I will give my wife a kidney.. I wouldn't give my side chick my car key sef.





Love is forever, lust is fleeting.


You can lie to yourself all you want, but you cant deny yourself truth. The woman you are with is not PHYSICALLY the finest nor most beautiful nor most attractive in the world.

When you love a person, it's not just their body, but their personality et al.

When you lust, it's nothing but their pretty face, bigass, Bigtitties, slim waist and her slutty outfit. grin You just wanna hit that. But do you know why after hitting that you still go back to your main chick? Cos what you love about her runs deeper than the physical.

I am not trying to justify it as being right or okay cos that seems to be what you are stressing about, all I am saying is: Yes you can love one deeply and still lust after another.

P.S:: It's not peculiar to Men alone. Even women do lust after men. My Boo lusts after Djimon Hounsou. She has told me. grin


Memory verse for you:: Love is not enough to keep a person Faithful... You need self discipline as well.


Madcow. . [/right]
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by MadCow1: 11:08am On Sep 16, 2015
ilobasama:
Your view. One advice

Just try to be faithful and responsible. Stop lusting about.

No justification for cheating.

Nice day bro


I am responsible and faithful (except for those rare occasions when I sin and fall short of the glory of God.)

There is no "Good" reason to cheat. True.

But the day I see a fine chick that I don't lust after, I am most probably blind or about to be killed. grin

Take it easy Hommie. cool
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by jabojafa(m): 11:08am On Sep 16, 2015
Aitee1:
Very possible!!!
u r correct becos cheating is a choice. D act of cheating doesnt jst fall on u like ripe mangoes rather it is a calculated plan to b havin sex with sum1 else dt is nt ur spouse. If Joseph cud resist Potifer's wife den u op does hv any reason to cheat.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by DrGroove(f): 11:10am On Sep 16, 2015
chrisbaba1:



Wrong. That's just the justification of a chronic cheat. A man won't feel like cheating if he is in love take or leave.... We have used this lie for ages to justify fellow men's cheating, same way guys have successful lied that wen he doesn't have sex for an amount of time he will fall sick.... A man in love with you is basically a fool for you who is impotent towards other women.

Before my ex I had a girl who was very pretty nd non virgin so we always flirted. When I met nd started datin my girlfriend, my urge for the other girl died instantly I couldn't even bear the thought of kissing her, she will come nd id sit on a separate chair... My girlfriend was in another town, a virgin and frankly wasn't as fine as the one I played with here but I never cheated on her, why? Cos I love her. I know many guys who do d same. I have a friend who carried a girl who got half naked for him nd threw her outside locked his door, why cos he had someone he loved. Plus we ain't religious people at all..... Uno

WHAT IS THIS ONE EVEN RANTING?
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by bummyla(m): 11:12am On Sep 16, 2015
NO! guy you have got a problem! http://www.bummyla.com

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