good on u

u deserve a better wife,someone dat will help u out,smone dat will help u build and not someone dat wants to take evrything uve worked for

it is not easy to find true love my bro,

before you quit try and see her parents and let them know you have hands off and let them realise what they are doing is not fair.

I really appreciate what you all have said so far , if I tell you that i am not depressed over this issue i am a lair, "too-soon" just as you said that i should try see her parents , i have already done that and i told them that if this repeat itself again they should consider me leaving the relationship becuase i have siblings that i am attending to. Not to somebody that i am not yet married to. If i am married to her that is another diffrent case then i will know it is my responsibility to see her off in her education.

my good people of nairalanders pls i need advice on what i should do this girl because thhe thing is really telling on me I need to settle down soon to see my wife come from a decent home not the kind of home of some parents that will be disturbing thier brother inlaws for money becuase i see the one i am as one of them.

CHUKWUKAHE:

my good people of nairalanders pls i need advice on what i should do this girl because thhe thing is really telling on me I need to settle down soon to see my wife come from a decent home not the kind of home of some parents that will be disturbing thier brother inlaws for money becuase i see the one i am as one of them.

@Poster,
Obviously you can't cope(judging from your posts on the subject matter)so call her and let her know your stand.
Another Option,
You can assist her in getting a part time job that will ease the burden on you.
There there is no 3rd way, Either you leave her or you inherit the Burden.
The Options are on the Table and The Choice Is Yours To Make. . .

Obviously you can't cope(judging from your posts on the subject matter)so call her and let her know your stand.
Another Option,
You can assist her in getting a part time job that will ease the burden on you.
There there is no 3rd way, Either you leave her or you inherit the Burden.
The Options are on the Table and The Choice Is Yours To Make. . .

IFELEKE'' I really appreciate your comment i will look on to your advice becuase i find it so interesting i will call the girl and tell her what is in my mind.