chymystique:
All these because of Men? Some who might just want to take advantage of the female. I think it should be one being one self instead of attributing these qualities to being marketable to the opposite sex.. Like seriously there is more to life than trying to impress the male gender

But it's okay for men to impress the female gender.

Simitrendy:
5. Being simple in dressing thus passing a
message to him: "I'm not extravagant;











I love extravagant babes








If you're not extravagant I'll just smooch u and the next day u call me



I'll just tell u bit*h I've done what I wanna do.

Time never reach! When e reach you go backtrack!

ollah1:

Pm me

what for?

Oga mister emusmith, what the fück do you mean by "average-looking"?

Oh man, I think that's pretty much demeaning to them girls.

8. Padded Bra- for agbalumo breast babes.

9. padded yansh- for ...

10. grinding well in bed... now this is d ultimate
#Gulder.

pinkiberry:
only desperate girls that really need to marry do this but sorry i arnt desperate.




after doing all these for a guy he starts feeling like some kind of demigod.

You ain't desperate yet..


We dey wait you with boil for front..

This would be more acceptable thread if the title were different. I mean "average looking" and "market value" ?.

It reeks of degradation and demeaning to women. What are we? Goods and services to be auctioned or sold off?

What about "average looking guy" and what they can do to increase their "marketability"? Hm.....

I can't even begin to express all the things that are wrong with the idea of increasing ones' market value, and the nerves you got by the expression of "average looking" women.

pinkiberry:
only desperate girls that really need to marry do this but sorry i arnt desperate.




after doing all these for a guy he starts feeling like some kind of demigod.

dont do all those for me 'JUST LEARN HOW TO BURST MY PIMPLEs' and I will never look at another lady. when i love a woman, her constant hand on my face can put me to sleep

MsBliss:
Please how can I increase my bank account value?

MagaZone all nl guys!!

gab264:
In this 28 century can a girl display those characters for you.
Am still lookin.
who cares anyway.

If a girl display's such character before you, wont you tagg her as desperate? you guys are the one scaring women away from doing exactly what thier hearts tell them to do for their guys because they will be scared their guys will take them for granted..which is true. I have seen many of such cases.

chymystique:
All these because of Men? Some who might just want to take advantage of the female. I think it should be one being one self instead of attributing these qualities to being marketable to the opposite sex.. Like seriously there is more to life than trying to impress the male gender

puhleez both sexes take advantage of d oda... ladies are always quick to play victim...smh.. the only positive frm wat uve written is dat there is more to life dan trying to impress any gender...so guys out der if a girl u ask out doesnt accept in a week.. on to d next one... no more fancy dinners or flowers or outings(at least dnt pay fr em)

lwkmd"market value in d dating world"

I will rather burst his balls dan pimple!!

emusmith:
Sub-Topic: Things An "Average Looking" Girl Can Do That Will Make Her PREFERABLE In The Dating World


They are not so pretty so they employ all methods possible to keep themselves irresistible and wanted in the "dating world".

Note: These is not applicable to all of them but a few well-mannered ones who really wanna settle down.

Character, they say is what is left when beauty fades away; She holds on tenaciously to that seeing the BIG picture.

The painful truth is, by DEFAULT 60% of Beautiful girls are on the contrary of all she believes in. As I said, most of it are old-fashioned but it's working for her.

I'm not generalizing

What are some things that an average-looking girl can do to make her WANTED in the Dating World?
Calhanoglu in Bayer Leverkusen may not be a very good midfielder but he is splendid at free kicks, so Man.Utd are after him

THE TRUTH IS, MOST OF THESE POINTS ARE INHERENT IN SOME.

1. Being nice with guys, in general. She is a helper.

Have you ever seen a lady who guys truly like? She is not that pretty but to guys, THAT LADY HAS CHARACTER and that sets her apart. She is nice even when she doesn't wanna date you, her wisdom in putting you off is astonishingly amazing. You feel good after she implies a No. That's being Nice. She even sends you a message after that but withdraws on time. I've met a few of them. After saying NO to you, you friend zone yourself in tacit, lol! She's just a gem.



2. "Irrelevant" and "Old fashioned" things like cutting his toe nails, bursting his pimples, knotting his tye, massaging his tired laps etc, are frequently done by her.

Yea, she does it and does it with humility and love. Not only when he gives you cash or buy you a gift. No. She does it because she loves to keep her man that way. It has become a part of her. She is "handy".


3. "Letting her guard down" most times, by becoming a friend to his difficult sisters and brothers.

When a girl like her starts getting closer to him, she may find out how some of his family members are a bit hysterical and difficult towards her. She doesn't turn away so quickly. If she likes him, she stays back and keep a good attitude. Soon, they'll see the stuff she's made of and will mark her "Good". Is it necessary? The question should be, Is he worth it? If he is, she will keep an optimal attitude.


4. Calling his mum, mummy- in such a way...


Yea, this may be common but hers is quite different. Most women know who their daughter-in-law will eventually be, most times, they know by the way she even addresses her subconsciously. It's a bit a mystery. She just can tell when she calls her, "mummy" in such that way...


5. Being simple in dressing thus passing a message to him: "I'm not extravagant; I'll take good care of our money."

I'm listing here what most average-looking ladies do to spell their worth in Bolded Fonts. One way is her dressing. To me, you mustn't reveal cleavage or bum to show you're pretty even when you know you're not. When pretty ones do stuff like that, guys see them like peddlers how much more you? Well, when she dresses modern and decent, she stands out. Did I say, those long and awkward-looking "ear machetes" Or earrings are not necessary to look decent?


6. When cooking, not over buying and over spending, sometimes she uses her own cash- Still passing a very vital message over to him.

Old fashioned? Yes! I know many ladies who do this not because they are trying to win him but because they are just that way. When you, an average... do it, you're passing a timely message. Even in Uni then, there were ladies who were like Mamas. Guys and friends can trust them for food then. They are homely. Guys love that in ladies tho. An economical lady. The sweetness of a correct egusi soup IS NOT directly proportional to the amount of money used i making it but the skillfulness in the lady involved.


7. She spends time building herself intellectually. How most men love this!

Aya! Who doesn't love a girl who knows that she knows but still knows when to come in? She mustn't be a lawyer or a doctor to be a reader or learned. After all, many of those talk flippantly and still don't make sense. She acquires skills for the purpose of her Husby and children. That's preparation. Don't forget that many husbands have lost the route to their wives' pots and channeled it to one Mama Put or One Ekaete somewhere.


Have a nice day.

emusmith, your second point is an insult. Imagine, burst his pimples? What kinda bullshit is that? I would never even date a guy with pimples. If the girl is like that naturally, fine. But to change herself? Hmm, so once she gets him to marry her, she'll be her real self and you'll realise you've been deceived. BTW, None of those points really work, because all you men see is booty and titties

MissGdope:

women are not objects to be put on a market. next time use a more respectful term

English Language

Ugly Biitches..


All you have to do is improve yourself worth. Get educated, build your intellect, be a career person or grow your own business. Basically be happy with yourself and Niggas would come.

What you should however do away with is having a nasty attitude.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.. A girl that I used to yab in my first year for being buttugly was the same girl I was too shy and cowardly to ask out in my final year. I still love her today and she would always have a special place in my heart.. Her beauty grew in my eyes alone as none of my other Niggas could understand what it was I lived about her so much.




So basic Biitches should stop looking for approval from Men and start working on themselves.

2scorehigh:
Oga mister emusmith, what the fück do you mean by "average-looking"?

Oh man, I think that's pretty much demeaning to them girls.

don't mind him, maybe he looks like Trey Songz. Even ugly chics are toasted everyday. The only way an ugly guy can get girls is if he's rich or funny

montezz:

U r wrong. I burst his pimples all d tym even afta brking up wt him. @op if a woman do ol dz stuffs u mentioned, u guys go still kol her mumu den dump her 4 a sophisticated wanton wu z afta nothing bt ur pocket. Good women still exist!

aww. how sweet. but you have to understand most girls play nice just to get it all. trust me I've seen it all

pinkiberry:
only desperate girls that really need to marry do this but sorry i arnt desperate.




after doing all these for a guy he starts feeling like some kind of demigod.

lmao, i jus hope u will neva be desperate

2scorehigh:
Oga mister emusmith, what the fück do you mean by "average-looking"?

Oh man, I think that's pretty much demeaning to them girls.

Hello! I'm been respectful here...What should I have used here? Please, give me a word

emusmith:


English Language

what has english language got to do with it??

Dem self-aclaimed feminists would be so pinched by this. Some of his points are maybe too much to ask for, but good women know how to keep their man.

Candid observation; majority of the ladies that had commented so far are single..and might remain...*keeps quiet*

Xiadnat:
This would be more acceptable thread if the title were different. I mean "average looking" and "market value" ?.

It reeks of degradation and demeaning to women. What are we? Goods and services to be auctioned or sold off?

What about "average looking guy" and what they can do to increase their "marketability"? Hm.....

I can't even begin to express all the things that are wrong with the idea of increasing ones' market value, and the nerves you got by the expression of "average looking" women.

Be cool, Lady Xia

emusmith:


I doubt you read it.

No one is compelling anyone but I think whatever you do is totally for yourself. Does reading for exams help your lecturer in anyway?

O boi...above all, i love ds ur response@reading 4 exams+lecturer.
its not about wut ppl feel or say but wut u want 2 achieve.

safarigirl:
don't mind him, maybe he looks like Trey Songz. Even ugly chics are toasted everyday. The only way an ugly guy can get girls is if he's rich or funny

8. Hitting the gym to get fit
9. Plastic surgery (if that can be afforded)
10. Dress to kill!

What a thread. Men be appropriating themselves false sense of importance and think they are the best thing to happen to women after roasted corn. Such mentality is why we think we're doing women a favour by marrying them. How a man would assume a woman has to adapt to his ways before she can be seen as a 'market valuable' or whatever that means is mind boggling.

I almost threw up when I read someone cite an example as when footballers are being sold to another club to give credence to a narrow minded sexism post that is designed to further subjugate women. Never read something as folderol as that comparison commercialising women.

A woman doesn't have to live their lives to suit men and be seen as a 'market value' to any one. Marriage is not the goal of every woman to have to live to please a man or make him propose. What this thread is suggesting is that women should stop being their natural self and jettison habits men find to be offensive and abhorrent. We don't have the right to dictate and set principles on how anyone should their lives.

69MissedCalls:


aww. how sweet. but you have to understand most girls play nice just to get it all. trust me I've seen it all

What if u r d one thinking dy r playing nice because u dnt expct a lady 2b dat nice(in naija)?

emusmith:


Be cool, Lady Xia

No. Make me

melakes:

O boi...above all, i love ds ur response@reading 4 exams+lecturer.
its not about wut ppl feel or say but wut u want 2 achieve.

Thanks bro! It's for yourself and your kids at the longrun

Market Value?! ..To be fair OP, that's kinda insulting ..and if any woman/lady goes the extra mile to please a man just cause he thinks she's "average looking", she shouldn't be with him AT ALL!! ..