Hello nairalander , Am almost get confused when a man was telling me about his babe that she's very hardworking,gentle and has good behavior but she's not presentable, with respect of this he trying to end the relationship. This thing happened vice versa.
To me i think the beauty of a man/woman is in he/she but not exterior features.
Which one would you prefer?

None of the above but pretty will some how be accepted if na by force but God no go allow me fall victim sha

Depends on what I want from the relationship.

Did he just rrealise that she is urgly or lazy? or after using the poor lady he is now making excuses to dump her

i would rather be single, either one is a waste of time. if it aint right then better be alone rather than waking up next to someone you are not attracted to or having to do everything for the girl.

Theres a reason why urgly women are " hardworking,gentle and has good behavior " hahahaha

But like someone here said, Id rather stay single, but I should say, everyone deserves to be loved wehter they're ugly or beauriful, whether they're short or tall, and the imperfections go on.

I should say that most pretty ladies aren't lazy, hahaha, in fact because of thier beauty, its much easier for them to find work,

@poster
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over 2d guys

~ Neither! ~

In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only
get 80% of what
you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you
WANT in your
relationship. There is always another person (man or women)
that you will
meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking
in your
relationship that you WANT And believe me, 20% looks really
good when you
are not getting it at all in your current relationship.

But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave
that good 80%
that you know you have, thinking that you will get
something better with the
other 20% that you WANT But as reality has proven, in most
cases, you will
always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing
the 80% that you
really NEED and that you already had.

Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in
your life.
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you
don't have. 'Wow, this
girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her
Wynona Rider features
that got me. I'm crazy about her because she's also
understanding,
intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is
not'

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man
who will be more
charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful.
Richer. Have greater
sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need
you and pursue
you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse
will only have 80%
of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place
when a husband or wife
looks for the missing 20%. Let's say your wife is
melancholic by nature.

You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a
cherry laugh no
matter what she says: 'I broke my arm yesterday,
Hahahaha . . , '

Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas,
smelling of
garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling
young sales
representative that visits your office in a sharp black
blazer, high heels,
and a red pencil-cut skirt Or because your husband is the
quiet type, your
heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame
who has the makings
of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 20% of what you don't have.

Don't throw away the 80% that you already have!

That's not all. Add to your spouse's 80% the 100%
that represents all the
years that you have been with each other. The storms you
have weathered
together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a
couple. The many
adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of
memories that
you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you
don't have.

But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for
what you already
have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage.

I'm talking about life!

About your jobs.

About your friends.

About your children.

About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially
peeks through
the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what
he's missing? 'They
have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in
porcelain! Wow, their
seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal
videos!'

I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip!
Don't live your life
like that. Forget about what the world says is first class.
Do you know that
there are many first class passengers who are miserable in
first class --
because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet?

The main message

If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever
you are, you are
first class!

@gabrwyl youv'e said it all. Firstly i love the inner beauty but appreciate the outward beauty. Both are essential but it all boils down to want and need. No woman is entirely ugly you've got to bring out the beauty in her. Personally i don't want an ugly lady neither a pretty one. All i need is a virteous woman full stop.

both isnt suitable.why? a pretty girl but lazy is of no much use to her man( u will eventually get tired of her beauty and be resentful) .why, an ugly but hardworking girl is in for a heart break because her man wouldnt be satisfied especially with all the beautiful girls around.he would likely cheat.its given.this is my view and the above is exactly wat i will do