my girl friend currently my ex as at the time we were dating always have this habit of packing her effects out of my apartment at the slightest disagreement as well as throwing our engagement ring.this was a girl who made me to fall crazily in love with her and bulldozed me into the issue of marriage against my better judgment.i am still in love with her and that's the only fault i find in her.although it was this same issue that lead to our break up.but i do like to her your views in case she comes back.really,i want her back but isn't it risky?

I hope you dont hit her or anything nasty like that.

Next time she packs out change the locks!

Let her come and beg.

I hate people who do that because thats the only way they think they can solve arguments. Even when they have kids they will contine packing out like theres no tomorrow.

LadyT:

I hope you dont hit her or anything nasty like that.

Next time she packs out change the locks!

Let her come and beg.

I hate people who do that because thats the only way they think they can solve arguments. Even when they have kids they will contine packing out like theres no tomorrow.

lol
excellent advice!

i agree 100%.u wud c how she wd run and come begging and u 2 wetin u dey do sef.anyways try dt method but when she comes.no do 2mch shakara o.

probably she wants u 2 beg and if u dont she wud definately come back and make excuses like I KNW U DONT LOVE ME AND BLAH, BLAH

Jeeez! Story of my life;

I once dated a looney like that once. For every slight quarrel that makes no sense whatso ever, she would just pack her load and walk out of the dor despite all the pleas. There is even one i remembered so vividly whereby some of my male friends where over and she was just alone watching a movie and she told everyone to keep quiet because we were disturbing her. All of us just laughed and continued to catch on on old times and before you knew it, she picked up her clothes, put it in a bag and stormed out of the door and mind you, this was past 11pm and her house was miles away. We all pursued her to beg her to return because of the time, but she ignored all of us and walked so far deep into the night.

I was so scared that night and she switched off her phone. The next day i rushed to her crib and there she was chilling and I asked her why she did something so insane, all she replied was that we were disturbing her film so she had to go home and watch it.

Sheez!

Since then i wont even date any looney like that for nothing and if i meet one, i will make sure she never comes back and hope the wolves eat her alive for her foolishness and stubborness. I dont know what these stupid chicks feel like when they do such nonsense.

What are they trying to prove They could be a very dense Stupid chicken brained lot atimes!

Misfortune life ineed

why wont she pack when she is not your wife yet

like the other poster said change your locks and if you get to speak to her on the phone tell her to call you when she is matured

lol. . . . .sick n tired of d relationship

hmmmm. Sounds like the crazy Idoma girl I nearly married. She would throw my ring at my chest for the most minor of issues, then i had to spend entire days begging her or getting her friends to beg on my behalf. That's no way to live.

Even when you're married she'll keep packing up and running away instead of talking issues through; so much downtime (expended on stroking her ego) you guys might not achieve much together in life.

In the end I had to break off with her and change my number cos she kept on calling and disturbing my life. The most insecure and emotionally messed-up human being I've ever had the misfortune to meet in my life. & She's so pretty. Tall black beauty    Maybe that's what got me involved with her against my better judgement

Sometimes people have emotional problems. We should think of ways to help them.

@Seun

I agree many people have psychological issues we should not criticise them but help them get better

she's immature and a runner and above all a drama queen

u either get her to plant her ass down or move on

Change your doorlocks!

Seun. Not everyone has that sort of patience.

LadyT:
I hope you dont hit her or anything nasty like that.

Next time she packs out change the locks!

Let her come and beg.

I hate people who do that because thats the only way they think they can solve arguments. Even when they have kids they will contine packing out like theres no tomorrow.

nt good,why can't they settle d differences btw themselves than packing out of d house,only if d man is abusive sha,she can pack her things and never return back

yme1:
why wont she pack when she is not your wife yet

lol

I used to be like that till my bf asked me 1day what my problem rili is...he hlped me realize I can't continue such way that I shud always stand to face my fears(him)..trust me I started finding it interesting... @ op u cud talk her tru it.