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Trust Issue! by 190: 9:22pm On Apr 26, 2009 |
Hey nlanders This is an Open discussion between the male and female folks Please have you ever trusted someone so much and all they could do was to make you regret ever knowing them, if you do, drop your views here! |
Re: Trust Issue! by Diva1(f): 9:24pm On Apr 26, 2009 |
Oh yes, definitely, it happens. You love someone so much, You believe they would never do anything to hurt you and seems too good to be true and then you find out the unthinkables . It would definitely hurt, you wish you had never met them. |
Re: Trust Issue! by Secretz(f): 9:30pm On Apr 26, 2009 |
Yes hun, I think most people have! Even though I do not trust anyone including my immediate fam 100%, just abusing that 70% of trust I have in people is enough for me to dash that person away! I mean come on, I only trust you 70% and you're still dumb enough to abuse it. lol What about you @ 190 |
Re: Trust Issue! by 190: 9:37pm On Apr 26, 2009 |
@secretz I have really had a terrible experience dealing with someone who i was starting 2 like already, she dissapointed me bigtym, and now i have 2 stat all over again,i really trusted her so much but she fooled me all along sobs and sobs why are people this WICKED @topic if someone tells me that he/she trust me so much i would never dissapoint such person, never anyway i hate the saying such is life, cos such shouldnt be how life is really meant 2 be! |
Re: Trust Issue! by Secretz(f): 10:36pm On Apr 26, 2009 |
@ 190, Don't cry, dry your eyes, |
Re: Trust Issue! by 190: 11:27pm On Apr 26, 2009 |
@Secretz Thank u my dear Nairaland is wicked sending me someone who jst broke my hart sobs and sobs louder |
Re: Trust Issue! by chanbabs(f): 2:02am On Apr 27, 2009 |
i feel u ooo. I recently trusted/loved someone with everything i had, and he let me down in a way i never thought humanly possible . Its so hard to trust again, and feel like it can never happen again, but it will. I'm slowly learning that myself Hugs!! |
Re: Trust Issue! by sparta(f): 12:10pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
@ 190 NDO, PELE, PE, DO |
Re: Trust Issue! by brutal(m): 12:12pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
I don't trust so deeply coz anythin can happen. |
Re: Trust Issue! by 190: 12:13pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
@chanbabs i know ure the one that caused all these problems here ure the same person i have the same trust issue wit, ure rubbbie and alexbabe, stop changin ur IDs u dissapointed me and i wish u woteva u wish urself signs off |
Re: Trust Issue! by yme1(f): 3:01pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
@190 pele oooooooooooo alexbabe has really dealt with you ehyaaaaaaaaaaaa sorry |
Re: Trust Issue! by Nobody: 3:08pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
pele oooooooooooo You don JAM AYAMANTAGA!! GBOSA!!! Guy just chiLL!! Shine your Eyes! |
Re: Trust Issue! by dae(f): 3:09pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
Well, i guess almost errone has gone through that phase. S*it happens meeen, we just have to take it as one of those things in life, the good things is that it makes us stronger. So if one next A-Hole comes and betrays that "trust" its all good cos we're now stronger people. God dey sha ---- and always remember ---- KARMA IS A BIOTCH, its gonna come back and bite those betrayers! |
Re: Trust Issue! by chanbabs(f): 3:16pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
@190 , i'm sorry, i think u have mistaken me with someone else. I havent been online here in months, and have never changed my name. So, please know who your accusing, before you make false accusations. |
Re: Trust Issue! by ikmoore2(m): 3:30pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
THE TRUTH IS THAT GIRLS ARE NOT TO BE TRUSTED. THE BEST THING IS TO HAVE ATLEAST THREE TO SEVEN GIRLS AT A TIME COS THEY MAY DISAPPIONT U AT ANY TIME. I HAVE SAID MY MIND |
Re: Trust Issue! by ammamat(f): 4:02pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
Who said that is only girls that are not trust worthy, I trust piple and they ve all been paying me back in bad coin, Give person money out of trust, u won't get the monay back again, love someone and trust the person, still it ani't work |
Re: Trust Issue! by yme1(f): 4:06pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
@ik-moore2 i think you are wrong there not all girls are not to be trusted having 7gfs i think you will only be creating trouble for urself @190 PROBLEMS ARE OPPORTUNITIES FOR CORRECTION |
Re: Trust Issue! by iice(f): 4:06pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
Hey nlanders Nope. . .i was born cynical |
Re: Trust Issue! by scorpa: 5:57pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
I've never trusted any lady, and I will never do. But I'll never show it to her. |
Re: Trust Issue! by Czarskit(m): 6:56pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
~ What's Trust? ~ Lemme check my dikshunari ~ |
Re: Trust Issue! by 190: 8:28pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
@post Thanks alot, I have heard ya she dissapointed me all the same i wish her the best anywhere she is @least i can never trust a yoruba lady ever again! @chanbabs sorry dearie just that she still stalks my post and everytin and she registers wit numerous IDS And felt u were her, Nairaland has really tot me a bad lesson I WISH HER THE BEST WITH HER LIFE, @LEST SHE HAS TOT ME A BITTER LESSON |
Re: Trust Issue! by C2H5OH(f): 8:31pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
Nigga don't start none of that ethnic discrimination crap again. |
Re: Trust Issue! by 190: 9:59pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
@C2H5OH u wont understand this is my 1st close encounter wit a yoruba lady and she messed up bigtyme i never knew anytin abt her, but was clouded in zone 5 by love i cant go in2 details but i nearly ran i can never trust a yoruba again never eva @least i have learnt my lesson now thanks partly 2 nland |
Re: Trust Issue! by Czarskit(m): 10:18pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
~ Yeah! Try anoda tribe! U tribalist ~ |
Re: Trust Issue! by 190: 11:02pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
@Czarskit Abeg dey ur own oooh i didnt ask 4 no view 4rm u abeg just dey ur own lane ooh |
Re: Trust Issue! by chanbabs(f): 4:17am On Apr 28, 2009 |
lol @ 190. You had me ready to give up on 9ja's all together, for the past week i've been dealing with all the craziest 9ja men to ever set foot in Canada. ha ha ha ha but i'm cool now, all is forgiven . Its very immature to change ids like that!!wowow glad u got out when u did I wish u the best!! Hugs |
Re: Trust Issue! by sistajay(f): 9:08pm On Apr 28, 2009 |
Trust is the foundation of all relationship. If you can't trust your partner, it can weaken every single facet in the relationship. Communication becomes more difficult, because you start to doubt if he is tellin you the truth about anything. |
Re: Trust Issue! by 190: 12:03am On Apr 29, 2009 |
@sista Jay dat was very postive of u! |
Re: Trust Issue! by topup: 3:33am On Apr 29, 2009 |
Nope, and not because I haven't trusted someone a lot, but more because it's never gone to the extent that I've been extremely mad at anyone. We all make mistakes, I try and forget the hurts of the past too. I have noticed that my innocence LOL!! tends to make most people feel guilty when they break my trust, maybe it's the subtle underlying pressure I subconsciously put on people not to break my fragile heart. I have not met a heartless human being yet - I've come close but that was high school, |
Re: Trust Issue! by C2H5OH(f): 7:48am On Apr 29, 2009 |
chanbabs: Yea but that's because you a white girl ma. Them dudes only see you as a potential source for paper. |
Re: Trust Issue! by chanbabs(f): 2:40pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
Acctually, i'm mixed. No one has been trying to use me for papers. I know that game too well. Many of my friends (black included) have been used. The crayzies I dealt with already have their papers, and some are already citizens too, |
Re: Trust Issue! by IFELEKE(m): 2:58pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
School,Back In Dayz. . . I once trusted my best friend(A Lady) but she ended up betraying the trust by implicating me to get off a Panel Case,She got Off and I got an extra. We are cool now but no longer best of friends. |
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