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Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by Nobody: 10:05am On Oct 16, 2015
WOMEN LIKE s*x!! Okay, now that we’ve gotten
that out of the way, the fact of the matter is
that while usually all we men need to want to
have s*x is a touch here or a look there, your
woman needs something more. And, while you
can be dog tired, stressed out, and would still
jump her bones, most women aren’t built that
way.


Men, to turn your woman on and get that body
rockin’ good love that you sooo desire, your
woman needs you to ‘get her’ and understand a
few things as well.
So, here are some things that will hopefully help
you and your woman get it on a little, no, a lot
more often.



1.She needs to be attracted to you too!!

I started with this one for a reason. There is a
misconception that men are the only ones who
are “physical” creatures. But, if you ask your
woman, she would say FALSE! So, fellas, simply
put, just like you don’t want her to let herself go,
she doesn’t want you to do that either.
She wants to see you healthy and without that
beer belly. In other words, she wants to see you
put some effort into how you look. This means
sometimes you need to throw away the holey
briefs, buy some new t-shirts and socks, and do
some “manscaping” as well (yeah, shaving and
smelling good go a long way).

How about you also retire those old sweats and
try putting on some nice clothes occasionally
and give her some good ole eye candy?! You
may not think it matters to her, but it does. So
start working out and go shopping and watch
her get that look in her eyes again.


2. It starts in her mind and heart!


s*x is highly mental for a woman and her desire
to have s*x with you starts way before the
physical action begins. When she wakes up in
the morning, it starts with your willingness to
help make her morning easier with the kids and
doing your part in making sure the house isn’t a
mess.
It also starts with compliments and thoughtful
gestures. Kind words during the day, simple
texts that let her know you’re thinking about her,
and flirting when she gets home, all help to get
her mentally stimulated. In other words,
stimulate her mind through your ACTIONS and
you’ll stimulate her ACTIONS in the bedroom.




3. If she doesn’t feel sexy, it’s hard for her to BE
sexy!


Fellas, your lady is always fighting a battle with
other women, herself, and society about physical
appearance, and she needs you, as her man, to
affirm how beautiful you think she is. This
means tell her, touch her, flirt with her, and let
her know you only have eyes for her.
If she isn’t feeling sexy because she isn’t at her
physical best, then go workout with her, cook
healthy meals for her, buy some new sexy
lingerie for her–do whatever it takes her feel sexy and feminine again.
Another important thing is to NOTICE her. When
she changes something like her hair, nails,
fragrance, clothes, etc. pay attention and point
it out. All of these things make her feel wanted,
desired, and sexy. You play a big role in this, so
embrace that role and stop dismissing it and
thinking she is just insecure.





4. Switch it up with spontaneity!


Sometimes the reason she doesn’t want to have
s*x is because you make it so predictable and
routine that she gets bored with it. Change up
some little things such as positions, where it
goes down, and when it goes down. Maybe you
need a little lunch break s*x in a hotel close to
her job.



5. Put some effort into the pre-intimacy and
romanticism!


Okay, I get it that sometimes the “F word” just
sounds like something that’s going to take
forever, but your woman might take a little more
to get aroused and she needs you to serve her
and her body. You can’t just get a quickie every
time, sometimes she needs you to take your
time and pay attention to her body.
Be romantic; set the atmosphere; play the music
and get out the candles and bubble bath (you
know all those things you USED to do). Once
you get her turned on, then she will give you all
you can handle. But, take your time!
Make it easy for her to find the time and energy
Help her out! Understand that, to a woman, her
kids and her household are a big deal, and she is
going to make sure those things are taken care
of.


Ask her how you can help take some things off
of her plate. If she is spending all of her energy
doing all of the things you could be helping with,
then that might be why she ends up snoring
before sexing. Simply ask how you can help and
then do the things you say you are going to do.
Guys, instead of getting defensive about the
things she needs to help increase her s*x drive,
just embrace them. Remember, at the core of
marriage is a willingness to serve one another
and sometimes that means loving your mate
how they need to be loved and not how you
WANT to love them!

Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by falconey(m): 10:08am On Oct 16, 2015
hmmm

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Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by Adasun(m): 10:23am On Oct 16, 2015
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Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by flawlesRebirth(f): 10:25am On Oct 16, 2015
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Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by Nobody: 10:25am On Oct 16, 2015
Adasun:
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Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by Nobody: 10:28am On Oct 16, 2015
flawlesRebirth:
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Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by Ahmed0336(m): 10:43am On Oct 16, 2015
All these wahala on top woman matter? Had it been na God matter i for no get problem undecided
Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by IamLEGEND1: 10:56am On Oct 16, 2015
all this things?
Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by hormobollar(f): 12:24pm On Oct 16, 2015
flawlesRebirth:
iffa hear say i read am......


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Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by Nobody: 12:31pm On Oct 16, 2015
hormobollar:


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lol
Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by flawlesRebirth(f): 12:33pm On Oct 16, 2015
hormobollar:


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Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by Nobody: 12:47pm On Oct 16, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
all this things?
Yes nah
Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by Nobody: 3:20pm On Oct 16, 2015
Ahmed0336:
All these wahala on top woman matter? Had it been na God matter i for no get problem undecided
lol.... funny guy
Re: Yes, Your Wife Loves S*x! But Here Are 5 Huge Reasons She’s Not Giving It To You by Nobody: 8:44am On Oct 17, 2015
hop u guys av learn frm dis

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