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Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Sauron1: 1:47am On Apr 30, 2009 |
tope2000: Haba, these questions are too personal. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 1:47am On Apr 30, 2009 |
ima1: Very bad idea . . . |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by debosky(m): 1:47am On Apr 30, 2009 |
Women need companionship - your hubby is acting like he's single and can do whatever he wants. He should let you know where he is, or at least that he will be gone for x number of hours. This is simple courtesy not even husband and wife. You don't just wander off without letting your partner have a reasonable idea (even if not detailed) of where you are. It's irresponsible and childish to behave that way That said, if you approach it with a wrong tone, he might get defensive and simply not respond. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by tope2000(f): 1:48am On Apr 30, 2009 |
~Sauron~: Well i dont why the guy is acting as if he is still single |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 1:48am On Apr 30, 2009 |
davidylan: She just said she doesn't. ~Sauron~: Can't talk for women when it comes to breathing space but myself. And I'm not in a mood to talk about myself either. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 1:49am On Apr 30, 2009 |
tope2000: Been married for like 2 yrs, dated for like a yr b4 getting married, and ya i have just ignored things he says or does bcoz i do not want to be a wife that nags, i feel like he doesn't really appreciate me (i mean u don't really know what u have until u lose it) |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 1:51am On Apr 30, 2009 |
ima1: How long would you keep on ignoring? That's why he takes you for granted. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Sauron1: 1:52am On Apr 30, 2009 |
stillwater: It's obvious you will be a nagging wife. debosky: Ima prolly made this mistake. tope2000: Leave the man jare. ima1: PRICELESS. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by tope2000(f): 1:52am On Apr 30, 2009 |
ima1: Mehn. . . . . i really feel 4 u The one worst feeling any woman cud ever have experience is to feel unappreciated. . . . . talk to him, tell him how u feel. let him say u nag. . . . . .always say how u feel |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 1:52am On Apr 30, 2009 |
ima1: Have you expressed this feeling to him before? 1 yr dating before marriage . . . i fear o. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 1:53am On Apr 30, 2009 |
~Sauron~: no be lie . . . women like this are better left alone. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by tope2000(f): 1:56am On Apr 30, 2009 |
u shudnt be in relationship where u are too scared to talk to ur bf talkless of ur husband. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 1:56am On Apr 30, 2009 |
stillwater: i honestly don't know, but nagging is one thing i never want to do. maybe i need to give him his space, maybe he feels smothered. but i am tired of being the nice and supportive wife for a man who does not appreciate it. it pisses me off and sometime i feel like i would be better off single (but i know divorce is not an option), i have tried talking to him but it ain't working. lol maybe i need to get pregnant that way i have something else to concentrate on. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Sauron1: 1:57am On Apr 30, 2009 |
tope2000: Tope, you are taking this issue way too personal. Wetin be your own? Ima is not scared to talk to her husband. She doesn't want to come across as a nagging wife does not mean she's scared. ima1: U must be very intelligent. Get preggers. . . . . . .Surely, you will have other worries when your baby starts kicking. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 1:57am On Apr 30, 2009 |
~Sauron~: davidylan: Scaredy cats!!! tope2000: Thank you. Is he her parent? |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by tope2000(f): 1:58am On Apr 30, 2009 |
My dear telling him how u feel isnt nagging even tho most men seem to see it as that . . . . . .I am not going to hide who i am or what i dont like because i dont wanna come across as a nagging person. Never |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 1:59am On Apr 30, 2009 |
davidylan: ya i have expressed it to him, but i feel like he doesn't care. i am not scared of him or talking to him, but its just that u tend to ignore things to avoid conflict |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by tope2000(f): 2:00am On Apr 30, 2009 |
~Sauron~: Lmao . . . .she just come across as really laid back . . . . the ones men chances because they hardly complain Wish i can marry her husband for just 2weeks he will see pepper @poster Noooooooooooooooo . . . . . . Getting pregnant will not solve ur issue |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Hauwa1: 2:00am On Apr 30, 2009 |
lady, you dey make marriage scare us o eh give him good food something to always run home to heavy egusi soup with heavy poundo will keep him at home sleeping |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 2:01am On Apr 30, 2009 |
ima1: na wa o. This is a serious issue. Just married two yrs and you have started thinking separation? stop am o! |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 2:02am On Apr 30, 2009 |
*Hauwa*: Marriage isnt scary, take your time to marry a man you at least understand 90%. Too many women "fall in love" and suddenly they are rushing to tie the knot. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 2:02am On Apr 30, 2009 |
ima1: Jeeez you are already thinking like this after 2 years? Take it easy. I'm not even the right person to be giving advice because I'm not married. But I have to say your husband is very inconsiderate. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by hoeyeadoe: 2:02am On Apr 30, 2009 |
I'd say you do your own thing. He just confirmed you need not know his whereabouts. There is a Yoruba adage that says a woman who monitors her husband's movement is in for some troubling shit. Speak to him about it again and catch yur fun if he isnt yeilding. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Sauron1: 2:03am On Apr 30, 2009 |
stillwater: U are not married?? See me thinking you are a mother of 6 kids. *Hauwa*: That might be a big turn-off. Pounded yam and Egusi soup?? tope2000: Husband snatcher. stillwater: Tssssk tssssk. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by tope2000(f): 2:03am On Apr 30, 2009 |
*Hauwa*: This is ur ansa to everything . . . oti like oun je ju ima1: Yes it is good to ignore sometimes but not always babe |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by C2H5OH(f): 2:03am On Apr 30, 2009 |
a man is not required to tell his wife where isLMao Lmao LmAO Mwahaha classic cheater cop-out response. Better hire Cheaters to investigate his lying ass. Not even a call: hey hunny I am running some errands on my way home so i might be a little late |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 2:04am On Apr 30, 2009 |
*Hauwa*: lol what haven't i done. he still eats at home so no worries about that. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by tope2000(f): 2:05am On Apr 30, 2009 |
C2H5OH: Gbam @poster I change my mind sef . . .go out n enjoy urself |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 2:07am On Apr 30, 2009 |
ima1: I do that a lot too and what do I get continuous emotional torment . Yes, you have to compromise in marriage but not to the extent of being beaten black and blue emotionally. That's why I've decided not to keep my mouth shut. You lot can call it nagging. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by C2H5OH(f): 2:08am On Apr 30, 2009 |
tope2000:Lol abi wetin you say I talk? You think he getting it? I missed the part where I am supposed to be your wife. |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 2:09am On Apr 30, 2009 |
~Sauron~: *Rolls eyes* |
Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by Sauron1: 2:09am On Apr 30, 2009 |
stillwater: I thunk u said you are not married yet!! See your mouth like emotional torment. . . . . |
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