I like in between. . . Loud at times and quiet at times. Balancy of everything is alwways good.

When I mean quiet guys, I don't mean those that keep very low and say naught boring guys.
The quiet guys I know from experience are very interesting and mysterious. I love mysteries

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When I mean quiet guys, I don't mean those that keep very low and say naught boring guys.
The quiet guys I know from experience are very interesting and mysterious. I love mysteries

But becareful about mysterious guys oooo. . . . It has been proven that those kinda guys are usually hiding like a deep dark secret. . .


U know like those vampires? But they are sexy ooo

rotflmao @ vampires.

From experience, those kinda quiet men are more of my fancy.
They get to me. I can sense one from a few feet away

It really is complicated but according to the research conducted at the RuuDie Psychiometric Institute - A huge majority of ladies will tell you QUIET but the individual they are dating is anything but. . . . . .

i totally agree with that, what you say and what you are attracted to are two different things

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rotflmao @ vampires.

From experience, those kinda quiet men are more of my fancy.
They get to me. I can sense one from a few feet away

U sniff em well well abi?

if we face reality, we will realize that girls prefer outgoing (not too loud) guys. girls want fun and adventure and usually think (could be erroneous) that it is the loud guys that can give them that.

Loud or quiet, i think the skill of diplomacy alone shuld tell us when to assert and talk and when to be quiet. i can't put myself in the loud categiory though i make people laugh, The thing is i am not going to change myself just because some girl prefers loud or quiet guys. the trick is to date those girls who like ur type. if girl date u not out of attraction then no be beter relationship.

Another thing is not to stereotype people too early and girls are so guilty of these. i sometimes use this to advantage cos girls like enigmatic guys even if they won't accept it. quiet guys are able to pull enigmatic stuff.

@TRANNGIRLS
I mean nothing of that sought, just trying to awaken her spirit to something good.just a show of care.

D secret don dey open up, I've ALWAYS wanted to ask this but i guess the avenue to do so, juz didnt present itself until now,

I'm an ibo guy been dating this yoruba girl, i'm the quiet type, she's the talkative type, we get along on issues in general but when i'm around her friends, i seem to mute, like i dnt have a voice and they misunderstand the whole thing, Being the quiet type has both its pains n gains, Somedays could go AWFULLY wrong with her but how i handle the ISH is wht still holds us down,

Here's the thing about we, the quiet guys, we're TRIPLE C's Cool, Calm &, Go Figure

@v3nom4eva
is she just talkative or she speaks vernacular whenever u are with her and her friends,if the later is the case then u have to make her understand the importance of neutrality in a relationship where both persons are of different tribe and ethic background.

She's the average yoruba chic,but she doesnt swear,which is something i hate!, But her friends, Urrgghhh! When she's around them,she's a completely LOOSE person, i sometimes get lost in the convos but we make up for it later when we're together,

@ nom4eva, the most stupid thing any civilized person will do is to stereotype. What do you mean "typical yoruba", Lets break it down, that tribe has the highest number of civilized to uncivilized ratio, remember you have to migrate from one village or the other to Lagos to experience urban civilization. Pls don't go there, I have a lot of Ibo, Benin, Edo, few Housa friends, only because we reason and act alike not be cause of there ethnicity. So Learn to phrase ur words there are lots of intellectuals on these forums you know, so address the subject discussed. If you read my post earlier , you'd see this kid just proved me right. Here he goes giving derogatory remarks about his "typical yoruba girl friend" in a forum, an indication to how loud guys will sell you out before they realize it 'cause they can't shut the @#$% up.

jeffman:

if we face reality, we will realize that girls prefer outgoing (not too loud) guys. girls want fun and adventure and usually think (could be erroneous) that it is the loud guys that can give them that.

Loud or quiet, i think the skill of diplomacy alone shuld tell us when to assert and talk and when to be quiet. i can't put myself in the loud categiory though i make people laugh, The thing is i am not going to change myself just because some girl prefers loud or quiet guys. the trick is to date those girls who like ur type. if girl date u not out of attraction then no be beter relationship.

Another thing is not to stereotype people too early and girls are so guilty of these. i sometimes use this to advantage cos girls like enigmatic guys even if they won't accept it. quiet guys are able to pull enigmatic stuff.

I think you have it twisted.  A quiet guy can still be fun loving and outgoing, just that when he's out he chooses his words and for sure people wanna hear what he has to say. He makes intelligent jokes which ladies love, he's romantic, remember action speaks louder than words, he is sensitive to her needs because he pays more attention to her reactions than talking and blabbing on without brakes applied to the tongue, how would you know you've hurt someone by your stupid remarks. And ofcourse, its evenl in the Bible, anyone that knows how to control his tongue is wise, but a fool has no self control.


Naija Born

I don't trust quiet men and I don't like loud men - they are vexation to the spirit

A person who talks too much always runs out of things to say. ALWAYS!

Personally I cannot stand loud guys. It irritates me deeply, and I never fail to show my expressions to whomever concerned. Even a fool when he holds his mouth at times is counted as a wise man.

epi:

I don't  trust quiet men and I don't like loud men - they are vexation to the spirit

So, which would you prefer cos there is no neutral zone. You definitely don't want ur spirit vexed as you may murder his loud ass some day.

Not loud,but not too quiet

@teeowl,what is dis ur penis enlargement poster all about?i beg remove it jo

i prefer out going guys.
Being out-going is not the same as being loud.
I hate loudness in both sexes.

This is a topic whose answer i believe lies with the individual lady. I mean a lady knows what she wants and she goes for it. Though some say they want this and go for another. Let me clear up some thing,

Some guys/girls say quiet guys are boring, but those same quite guys are the ones people actually [b]listen [/b]to when it comes to serious matters because they hardly talk and when they do they don't invite people from the next room with their voice.

I prefer reserved guys because they tend to be more mature in handling things.

@Naija-born, I'm sorry i used those remarks, so I'll have to re-phrase wht i said earlier, she's the average"yoruba girl next door" type of person, Go figure n if u still don't, then u need an IQ check, and PLLLLLLLLEAAAAAAASE, NEVA TALK SHIT OR I'LL @@*&&* U UP, PERE!

I looked up ur pfrofile and saw ur age so let me send you to your father whom you get up from sleep with a kick. Tell him he is a failure in his fatherly duties to have raised such a piece of crap like ur self.

So until U start feeding urself, paying ur own bills and move away from home, the only thing U can show me is the child's play I engaged in 20 years ago.

I tried to put you in check but, ur brain is too porous to grasp words of wisdom.

Good luck to you and stay away from my posts.

Uncooked child

@ Naija-Born, U saw my profile,, huhahahahahahahhahaa, I'm having a good laff, when 90% of the profiles ONLINE are NOT real, Ur I.Q REALLY is low, go get it checkd, Your juz lettin off steam n wasting space on here for people who REALLY dont giv a flyin Bleep wat u think, STUPID A**

I'd like a guy right in between the two and i found him on this website justsingles.diydating.com

This is for real a good discuss, loads of ladies would say they would rather go for the cool guys but i think it's the other they are doing if you get to find out whom their Man really is , loud people don't usually make for intelligent people if I'm right. No stereotyping but girls in fact prefer the notice me type, the kind of person that i am comes in between some said I'm cool while some people said i come in between but in anyway I'm not the loud type, some ladies em selves are not interesting to be with it takes 2 to tango, you don,t expect me to bring up everything up all the time, do U!!! lol

Nice looking. . . . .Laptop

abeg borrow me your laptop

Longed for it, "a pe ko to jeun ko ni je ibaje", no be today i don dey long for it, well if i got a better one i might borrow you a Sony Viao