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Raped And Rejected ! by amosexy: 2:28pm On May 04, 2009
PLEASE I REALLY NEED HELP BEFORE I TAKE MY LIFE,



I'm 29 yrs old inlove with a man of 35yrs.We were suppose to be gettin married in like 3 months time. My fiance invited me over to his family house so we can discuss about our weddin preparation but on gettin there , he had a call form his boss who requested his presence right away; so he travelled to Abuja dat day. He promised to be back in 2days,so i was left alone with his parent and your brother.

My predicament : Later that nite , a lady knocked at the door and my father-inlaw open the door not known they were arm robbers.They came in ,beat my brother inlaw ,collected all the money and raped me in the presence of my in-law. The following morning my parent in-laws took me to the hosiptal for medical attention, i dont know what the family doctor told them but on gettin home,My mother-inlaw asked if i think its a good idea to still go on with the weddin plans, i told her yes.



My mother-inlaw insisted on telling her son the whole scene,even though i begged her,she doesnt tink i'm the right woman for her son anymore after 3yrs that i've known them.


What should i do now?
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by amebono13: 2:30pm On May 04, 2009
haba nlders, do u pple just wake up and form nollywood stories,without atleast brushing ur teeth? undecided

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Re: Raped And Rejected ! by pinkylady1(f): 2:53pm On May 04, 2009
i'm really sorry, just take heart der's a brighter future out there for you so don't

even think of takin your life [sub][/sub](dat's if na true story and not tale)
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by amosexy: 3:02pm On May 04, 2009
amebo no1.:

haba nlders, do u pple just wake up and form nollywood stories,without atleast brushing ur teeth? undecided

If u dont know wat to say,cant u just move away. since u believ it a nollywood story,then it will come to reality in your life.must everything on NL be a story?Dont alwaz u ur mouth to think,learn to use ur head.
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by toxicguy: 3:17pm On May 04, 2009
amosexy:

If u dont know wat to say,cant u just move away. since u believ it a nollywood story,then it will come to reality in your life.must everything on NL be a story?Dont alwaz u ur mouth to think,learn to use ur head.

what you just said now will only make people believe its a story. whatever anyone says that hurts you, just say thank you and move on. some people can be cruel. just move on dear. if you take ur life, no one stands to lose anything.
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by 4Play(m): 3:21pm On May 04, 2009
Complete tripe! Does Seun pay you jobless people to fabricate these stories?

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Re: Raped And Rejected ! by patwhizkid(f): 3:24pm On May 04, 2009
Tales by moonlight!
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by Pataki: 3:26pm On May 04, 2009
I do not believe your story in any way. undecided
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by Oxone(m): 3:29pm On May 04, 2009
haba nlander, cant u people ever give one the benefit of doubt angry angry angry

@op
take heart & move on as hard as it might seem
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by Orimili(m): 3:31pm On May 04, 2009
amosexy:

PLEASE I REALLY NEED HELP BEFORE I TAKE MY LIFE,



I'm 29 yrs old inlove with a man of 35yrs.We were suppose to be gettin married in like 3 months time. My fiance invited me over to his family house so we can discuss about our weddin preparation but on gettin there , he had a call form his boss who requested his presence right away; so he travelled to Abuja dat day. He promised to be back in 2days,so i was left alone with his parent and your brother.

My predicament : Later that nite , a lady knocked at the door and my father-inlaw open the door not known they were arm robbers.They came in ,beat my brother inlaw ,collected all the money and raped me in the presence of my in-law. The following morning my parent in-laws took me to the hosiptal for medical attention, i dont know what the family doctor told them but on gettin home,My mother-inlaw asked if i think its a good idea to still go on with the weddin plans, i told her yes.



My mother-inlaw insisted on telling her son the whole scene,even though i begged her,she doesnt tink i'm the right woman for her son anymore after 3yrs that i've known them.


What should i do now?

Honestly, at 29 years of age, you should understand that life is not perfect, nor is it fair sometimes. Move the hell on, there's most likely someone out there that is better for you anyway.

But, if you insist on carrying on, I have included some sites that may guide you in your quest to take your life:
[list]
[li]Cool ways to kill yourself[/li]
[li]How to kill yourself like a man[/li]
[/list]
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by dae(f): 3:32pm On May 04, 2009
Hmmmm Neither do i believe this story (sorry, das how i feel) , it Looks like some Nollywood production stuff --- and maybe she tryin to write some Superstory movie! --- i mean common now,  we too grown up for this fabu!!

BUT, if na true -- they dont want you, so take the steppin' -- move on with ya life.
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by IFELEKE(m): 3:34pm On May 04, 2009
amosexy:

PLEASE I REALLY NEED HELP BEFORE I TAKE MY LIFE,


I'm 29 yrs old inlove with a man of 35yrs.We were suppose to be gettin married in like 3 months time. My fiance invited me over to his family house so we can discuss about our weddin preparation but on gettin there , he had a call form his boss who requested his presence right away; so he travelled to Abuja dat day. He promised to be back in 2days,so i was left alone with his parent and your brother.

My predicament : Later that nite , a lady knocked at the door and my father-inlaw open the door not known they were arm robbers.They came in ,beat my brother inlaw ,collected all the money and raped me in the presence of my in-law. The following morning my parent in-laws took me to the hosiptal for medical attention, i dont know what the family doctor told them but on gettin home,My mother-inlaw asked if i think its a good idea to still go on with the weddin plans, i told her yes.



My mother-inlaw insisted on telling her son the whole scene,even though i begged her,she doesnt tink i'm the right woman for her son anymore after 3yrs that i've known them.


What should i do now?
shocked
This Story Is Really Sad(If it's true)
I suggest you give him the full details first before his parents paint it bad and also take whatever comes out of it in good faith.
3 years is long but believe me,It's not worth a Life.
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by yme1(f): 3:41pm On May 04, 2009
you had better go to the hospital again for proper check up since the family did not tell you the outcome of the test you did

and please make sure you are the first to tell your fiance (and wat in heavens name where u thinking, saying that u never wanted ur fiance to know abt the case)that is trouble u are creating for yourself

and if they insist pls move on with your life cool
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by platinumnk(f): 3:42pm On May 04, 2009
I'm sorry that happened to you, no one deserves to be raped. And this sounds like a true story. I've heard stories like this before. Pray real hard about it, sha, the man should not be marrying you just for your virginity, and this a test for both you and your future husband. You dont know what God has in store for you, so taking away your life is NEVER the best option. Please please pray about it and see couseling, you defintely need it, and your in laws should be supporting you , not rejecting you

I pray everything will be allright in Jesus Name.  smiley

And Nairalanders, I know sometimes ppl do seek attention here, but some of these ppl are geuine. I heard news reports of ppl commiting sucide after going to an online forum for help, and was ridiculed. Lets not make ourselves a case abi??
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by Dammyray(m): 3:47pm On May 04, 2009
Pls now you guys, ok just accept its a movie but try give the author of the movie some advice so this movie can have part 2 , sorry poster never think of killing yoursself thats not the way out just move on like notting happend but i know its hard.
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by 4Play(m): 3:49pm On May 04, 2009
@y me

Jenny, na you be amebo no1 as well? How are you?
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by Nobody: 3:51pm On May 04, 2009
Orimili:

Honestly, at 29 years of age, you should understand that life is not perfect, nor is it fair sometimes. Move the hell on, there's most likely someone out there that is better for you anyway.

But, if you insist on carrying on, I have included some sites that may guide you in your quest to take your life:
[list]
[li]Cool ways to kill yourself[/li]
[li]How to kill yourself like a man[/li]
[/list]


You are not serious. grin
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by amosexy: 3:55pm On May 04, 2009
@platinumnk, y me & ifeleke thx so much.



If it does happen to me,wont even tik of NL,would killed mysef b4 sayin it to the world.

I heard the conversation btw my colleague and her mother( the mother-inlaw),so she told me everythin n i felt so bad for the lady,i then decieded to put mysef in her shoes.This not a story plz,it happened for real.I NEVER PRAYED IT HAPPEN TO ME OOOO.Just wanted to know ppl advice on this.THX.
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by Anettenina: 3:57pm On May 04, 2009
amosexy:

PLEASE I REALLY NEED HELP BEFORE I TAKE MY LIFE,
Please and please, do not even attempt to take your life. Only cawards thinks of suicide. What you went through can only be imagined. I believe you should let your fiance know about what happened. He should help you go through the healing process. His mother does not have to act the way she's acting, it could have happened to just about anybody.
I pray that the grace of God should help you conquer this traumatic experience. Keep your head up.


I'm 29 yrs old inlove with a man of 35yrs.We were suppose to be gettin married in like 3 months time. My fiance invited me over to his family house so we can discuss about our weddin preparation but on gettin there , he had a call form his boss who requested his presence right away; so he travelled to Abuja dat day. He promised to be back in 2days,so i was left alone with his parent and your brother.

My predicament : Later that nite , a lady knocked at the door and my father-inlaw open the door not known they were arm robbers.They came in ,beat my brother inlaw ,collected all the money and raped me in the presence of my in-law. The following morning my parent in-laws took me to the hosiptal for medical attention, i dont know what the family doctor told them but on gettin home,My mother-inlaw asked if i think its a good idea to still go on with the weddin plans, i told her yes.



My mother-inlaw insisted on telling her son the whole scene,even though i begged her,she doesnt tink i'm the right woman for her son anymore after 3yrs that i've known them.


What should i do now?
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by yme1(f): 4:00pm On May 04, 2009
@4 play

kiolode!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i dont get your drift at all undecided
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by patwhizkid(f): 4:04pm On May 04, 2009
y me:

@4 play

kiolode!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i dont get your drift at all undecided



Jenny how are you?
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by yme1(f): 4:10pm On May 04, 2009
@pat
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
who is jenny??
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by patwhizkid(f): 4:24pm On May 04, 2009
y me:

@pat
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
who is jenny??


You are jenny! wink
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by yme1(f): 4:26pm On May 04, 2009
@pat

you want to turn my name to jenny abi
anyway it is a cute name, so me like it wink cheesy
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by patwhizkid(f): 4:33pm On May 04, 2009
y me:

@pat

you want to turn my name to jenny abi
anyway it is a cute name, so me like it wink cheesy



your name is jenny.
Take it or leave it! wink
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by yme1(f): 4:37pm On May 04, 2009
@pat

i take it cause i like the name
and i leave it cause it is not my name
so both grin grin
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by patwhizkid(f): 4:59pm On May 04, 2009
y me:

@pat

i take it cause i like the name
and i leave it cause it is not my name
so both grin grin

You are a very stubborn girl.
You need to be flogged. sad
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by Skywalker5(m): 5:07pm On May 04, 2009
amebo no1.:

haba nlders, do u pple just wake up and form nollywood stories,without atleast brushing ur teeth? undecided

With the kind of strange stories i hear here. I would agree with you
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by Nobody: 8:04pm On May 04, 2009
I'm sorry about your predicament, life can present unfair situations but God is there to help us deal with it all. I hope u've been tested for std's and taken all the necessary precautions for your health sake. Then i think you should talk to your priest /pastor so that they can counsel you on the issue, it will help you over come it and feel whole again. The last ting would be to talk face to face with your fiancé and hear what he has to say about the decision his parents have taken. After that, you'll know how to move forward. Be strong my dear, God loves you no matter what.
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by Sauron1: 8:13pm On May 04, 2009
amosexy:

PLEASE I REALLY NEED HELP BEFORE I TAKE MY LIFE,

I'm 29 yrs old inlove with a man of 35yrs.We were suppose to be gettin married in like 3 months time. My fiance invited me over to his family house so we can discuss about our weddin preparation but on gettin there , he had a call form his boss who requested his presence right away; so he travelled to Abuja dat day. He promised to be back in 2days,so i was left alone with his parent and your brother.

My predicament : Later that nite , a lady knocked at the door and my father-inlaw open the door not known they were arm robbers.They came in ,beat my brother inlaw ,collected all the money and raped me in the presence of my in-law. The following morning my parent in-laws took me to the hosiptal for medical attention, i dont know what the family doctor told them but on gettin home,My mother-inlaw asked if i think its a good idea to still go on with the weddin plans, i told her yes.

My mother-inlaw insisted on telling her son the whole scene,even though i begged her,she doesnt tink i'm the right woman for her son anymore after 3yrs that i've known them.

What should i do now?

Odikwa serious
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by jidobaba(m): 8:36pm On May 04, 2009
@orimili, u harsh o!
Keee!Keeeee!!Keeeeeee!!!
Re: Raped And Rejected ! by jidobaba(m): 8:38pm On May 04, 2009
@orimili, u be suicide o!
Keee!Keeeee!!Keeeeeee!!!

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