Internet and social messaging applications have made conversation much more easier this days.

To know what someone else is up to you will not be mistaken if you go through their private conversations.

But when we talk about relationship, is it advisable to be checking through your partner's chats?

Personally, i think intruding into one partner's private chat is a great mistake that anyone shouldn't venture into.
Yes, it is known that you are married that you need not hide anything from each other.

We know you are courting and you must learn to trust each other even when people outside are screaming that your partner isn't faithful, since you've never caught him/her unfaithful red-handed.

Yet, it shouldn't be your priority to intrude into your spouse's private chats.

So many secrets are unraveled in private chats, which you as a partner is not aware of and of which you might not find it pleasant if you find out.

At times, your spouse might want to share some other information with you but might skip their mind, you might see something of such in the private chat if you intrude and it might not go well with you.

If you wish to keep your marriage or relationship, it is very important you stay off your partner's private conversations.

If in case it happens you see some chats by mistake you must be ready to listen to explanation(s) because things might not be the way you have seen it in the chat.

Some people play some games through private chats which if their partner sees might change the future of the union negatively.

I have seen a man who wanted to prove to his girlfriend that he is also most wanted by some other ladies. To prove his point, he had to arrange with a lady who is close to him to act like one of the ladies out there who is dying to have the same man the girlfriend of the man his misbehaving with.

All the arrangements was done through phone call, but the romantic conversations were through one of the social applications. With that, the arrangement cannot be seen on the messenger where all other romantic conversation holds.

Hell was let loose the day the partner of the lady saw the romantic conversations, it took God's intervention before the man was convinced of the arrangement.

At times, it is not everything you will be told by your partner till something related to it happens, but if you get to know it at the inappropriate time it might be so detrimental to your relationship.

The social messengers contain secrets that may kill you if you intrude, especially when you can't hold your patience.

Never lose your trust in your partner until you have 100% evidence to do so.

Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2015/11/is-it-right-or-wrong-to-intrude-into.html

hell no

Anything wey she see she take and anything I see I take am like that.

Intruding means two things: insecurity and trust issues. Both are'nt cool. So, hell no.