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Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by itstpia8: 7:29pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
not a bashing thread plz, let discuss maturedly here. If no man is viable enough to be considered for a relationship, and marriage is not on the radar, what do you do. For Christians especially, this is a very nutty problem, at least if you're not religious then nothing concern you per se. |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by owanguy(m): 7:31pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
*yawn* |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by Rapoo(m): 7:35pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by parzdor(m): 7:41pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
PARZDORLEE |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by umehmj(m): 7:51pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
you are not alone. fighting off sexual urge can be very challenging and frustrating at times. most sins takes the grace of God to contain but sins of the flesh takes more than grace if you ask me. i think that's about the only sin the Bible said we should 'flee' from. this means it takes more than mental determination, it also requires physical running away from, as Joseph did with potipha's wife. so how i do is get busy and avoid anything that will stir the urge in me. things like: 1) pornography 2) erotic chats or conversation 3) avoid being alone with an opposite sex 4) avoid places like clubs and bars where one can hit it off 5) take cold bath when the urge comes 6) give your life to christ. 7) masturbate when you can't take it no more. for guys masturbating is bad for your health but it's okay for the ladies. but mind you, the more you masturbate is the more the urge for the real deal grows, so let's scratch off the masturbation part. again it's a sin! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by oketoyinboshola(m): 9:41pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
umehmj:I agree with you . but you shouldn't have mentioned masturbation in the furst place, becos mesturbation is addictive . so my solution to sexual urge is always getting yourself busy, dont watch pornography |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by Fkforyou(m): 11:11pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Lol....It's going to be a bumpy ride.
*puts on seatbelt* |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by LastProphet: 11:59pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
this should just be about the last post by a lady, naija ladies don't have urges pls at least even if they do it is bad market to acknowledge it even on an anonymous forum because the inferiority-complex-stricken nigerian men can never be allowed to know that 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by itstpia8: 12:03am On Dec 05, 2015 |
umehmj: You are quite right about the fleeing. |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by tenderlaw(m): 4:25am On Dec 05, 2015 |
All of you should keep quiet and allow women to talk. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by Niceman4u(m): 6:03am On Dec 05, 2015 |
Sexual urge is a natural thing but hw we handle it is a different ting. To avoid always being in d mood or feeling. Just put ur mind off it. Personally, I handle it by engaging my mind nd tot wit reading, reading of interesting books. Avoid phone intimacy or sexual chats. |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by ogawisdom(m): 6:10am On Dec 05, 2015 |
Avoid sexuality section of nairaland n b selective abt threads u view then pray without ceasing God will help u |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by Nobody: 11:30am On Dec 05, 2015 |
Though im not a Lady but i think Avoiding things that cud agravate the urge shud work. but its not an easy something. |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by MsBliss(f): 2:52pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
You read your bible ![]() |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by Dyt(f): 3:02pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Don't seem to be an issue to me sha I was celibate for over a yr and wasn't even feeling no urge Mind was occupied with lots of things Sex wasn't just close to it ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by amtheone(m): 4:02pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Avoid having friends at all cost. |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by tpiar: 4:04pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by tpiar: 4:05pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
MsBliss: yes, it helps, if you don't misread it of course. |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by tpiar: 4:07pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Niceman4u: true. as per phone intimacy, anybody engaging in that is not trying to be celibate and is opening him or herself to blackmail. |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by tpiar: 4:07pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
akinsal: true. |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by tpiar: 4:09pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
ogawisdom: true, but I'm not sure everyone in sexuality section is moved by what they see there, maybe they are sha, in which case if it's not expedient, stay away. |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by dahmie2013: 4:51pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Dyt:Me 2 o! Over 3yrs now. So wen Op is talking abt sexual urge, it sounds strange 2 me. |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by tpiar: 4:53pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Dyt: I would have commented on your post but there was a thread where you were saying some things about molue. |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by Dyt(f): 5:25pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by amtheone(m): 5:32pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
tpiar: If one sets out to avoid sex before marriage, he/she must be ready to sacrifice and such is avoiding frendship. As to what type of friend. I mean all types of friends. Because if you chose to have one irrespective of the gender, such could introduce you to what you are trying to avoid or sell the idea to you. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by LegatusGlaber(m): 6:24pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
tpiar: Shots fired ![]() ![]() ![]() Sprinkles holy water on the thread |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by austine4real(m): 6:32pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
So toto dey itch u& u dey form big boss. Y u no com my house make i nak u prik |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by SAMBARRY: 7:07pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by SAMBARRY: 7:08pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by SAMBARRY: 7:08pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Re: Ladies, How Do You Handle Sexual Urges While Single? by austine4real(m): 8:42pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:hw va na? 1 Like 1 Share |
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