There are lots of things we must have experienced in our previous relationships but the major things are the lessons we learnt from it, be it positive or negative.
Here are the things I learnt from mine.


I FIRMLY believe that NO woman wants to date a man that NO OTHER woman wants, finds attractive or places some sort of value on. At a point in my relationship I experienced this attitude from her because I felt, O well am dating the girl of my dream and what’s the point doing things that will attract the opposite sex not knowing it helps in sustaining a relationship.

Domestic violence – let me start by saying this, any guy who strikes his lady or any woman is not a man but a COWARD. I learnt this the hard way because I fell under this category but am happy I was able to stop that habit and speak against it. The bad part of it is that, once you hit your lady once it will be hard to stop because you feel it will put some sort of fear in her not knowing your driving her away. Ladies please don’t hit your man as well or put him to test by daring him to hit you cause out of anger he might end up doing so.

Taking decisions when you’re angry is really bad. There were times we would have heated arguments and out of anger we would say things or take decisions, which would not end well, and then we start apologizing. So try not to take any decision when you’re angry and there is this phrase I do say, the best decisions you make when your angry will eventually turn out to be the worst.

Pride – ladies do you know why your guy becomes mad and if possible breaks down when he finds out you cheated on him? Is simple, you’re his “PRIDE”. Most guys who love their lady so much sometimes end up boasting about her faithfulness to their fellow guys. So when you end up doing the opposite, you have only made a mockery out of him amongst his friends.

Finally what ever will be will be. If your partner is not meant for you just learn to let go don’t look at the years, sacrifice, pain and gain you both have spent. If you like go under the rain and pray if he or she wants to leave they will still leave but if you force it, you might end up regretting it.


You can add yours so we can learn one or two, it can be positive or negative things you learnt from your previous relationship.

I leant communication is the key.





Learn to always communicate with each other no matter how little or in valid u tink an issue is, it might cos great trouble





when talking learn to choose ur words carefully. Cos words easily hurts






Don't talk wen u r angry. And don't let sorry be far from ur mouth.

That when a lady loves u then she loves u to the end without any single scar, she literally becomes ur toy but we the guys will not know how much they love us untill we break up and we are mostly the one to break up with them but weeks later we are filled with regrets but what baffles me is that inspite of the pains i put her through, she still loves me and willing for us to start all over.

E plenty o

I learnt that exes do come back to their partner when they've gone away before and althrough they cld find no one who treats them like u

@op, you are really on point.

I didn't learn anything.

never give all ur love out, give 30 keep 70 for urself

dachaste:
I leant communication is the key.





Learn to always communicate with each other no matter how little or in valid u tink an issue is, it might cos great trouble





when talking learn to choose ur words carefully. Cos words easily hurts






Don't talk wen u r angry. And don't let sorry be far from ur mouth.

your right on communication most especially for distant relationship.ladies are moved by words so i learnt to choose my words carefully and if possible say nothing self

Don't love too much
Don't trust too much
Don't hope too much

Cos dat too much can hurt so much

kossyablaze:
E plenty o

i know but i just mentioned the major ones i learnt out of it and am sure there are some major ones you learnt as well

mizquote:
I didn't learn anything.

Meaning you didn't contribute anything to the relationship

don't date a portharcourt gurl

schumastic:



your right on communication most especially for distant relationship.ladies are moved by words so i learnt to choose my words carefully and if possible say nothing self

WOow. Looks like your experiences havve really groomed u and made u better. More grease

Humm

They know your value even when you are not there any more.

Please women be your best.!!!

dachaste:





WOow. Looks like your experiences havve really groomed u and made u better. More grease

yeah you can say that again...been working on myself ever since...7yrs ain't easy

Don't believe every words he/ she said..

Fireson:
Don't believe every words he/ she said..

hahahaha why now...is that how much you hated it lol

schumastic:


hahahaha why now...is that how much you hated it lol

Nah.. not hating, I only discovered she was deceitful and pretending to be what she was not. Later found out and kicked her away!! she is still asking for another chance

Shoro niyen?

I learnt that sum women are worse than dogs
Trust is a scarce commodity xo don't throw it around
relationship is a 24/7 job
being single is beta than being in a bleeped up relationship
Sex, money and care doesn't keep a woman cos it's only if a woman wants to be kept...

abeg I don learn plenty cos relationship is not always a blessing it can also be a lesson

Best Advice
DATE A HOE
HAY PROBLEMO
#WALAHI ~SATIRAMONI

Neva been in any real relationship

Cutehector:
Neva been in any real relationship

Hector Hector...you can pick anyone of the female NL, am sure they will offer something good

I have learnt never to be too inquisitive,let things be the way they are.

I have learnt to put God first,never forsake God because of a guy.,


i have learnt to keep somethings to myself,even best friends can betray you.

Jolllyjoy:
I have learnt never to be too inquisitive,let things be the way they are.


I have learnt to put God first,never forsake God because of a guy.,



i have learnt to keep somethings to myself,even best friends can betray you.

keeping things to yourself in terms of relationship s good and helps alot..reason s cus telling your friends what your passing through can back fire most times especially those who are not happy or jealous of Ur relationship and il end up giving u bad advice.

I've learned to know actually what she likes about me for... When i discovered it i was like "O God this can't be me" i reduced my emotions for her.

Fireson:


Nah.. not hating, I only discovered she was deceitful and pretending to be what she was not. Later found out and kicked her away!! she is still asking for another chance

Shoro niyen?

good thing you found out on time..some will hide theirs so well u won't even smell a dead rat but I believe their are good ones out there but the chances of meeting any s 1/100

schumastic:



keeping things to yourself in terms of relationship s good and helps alot..reason s cus telling your friends what your passing through can back fire most times especially those who are not happy or jealous of Ur relationship and il end up giving u bad advice.

seconded

Never trust anyone.

schumastic:
There are lots of things we must have experienced in our previous relationships but the major things are the lessons we learnt from it, be it positive or negative.
Here are the things I learnt from mine.


I FIRMLY believe that NO woman wants to date a man that NO OTHER woman wants, finds attractive or places some sort of value on. At a point in my relationship I experienced this attitude from her because I felt, O well am dating the girl of my dream and what’s the point doing things that will attract the opposite sex not knowing it helps in sustaining a relationship.

Domestic violence – let me start by saying this, any guy who strikes his lady or any woman is not a man but a COWARD. I learnt this the hard way because I fell under this category but am happy I was able to stop that habit and speak against it. The bad part of it is that, once you hit your lady once it will be hard to stop because you feel it will put some sort of fear in her not knowing your driving her away. Ladies please don’t hit your man as well or put him to test by daring him to hit you cause out of anger he might end up doing so.

Taking decisions when you’re angry is really bad. There were times we would have heated arguments and out of anger we would say things or take decisions, which would not end well, and then we start apologizing. So try not to take any decision when you’re angry and there is this phrase I do say, the best decisions you make when your angry will eventually turn out to be the worst.

Pride – ladies do you know why your guy becomes mad and if possible breaks down when he finds out you cheated on him? Is simple, you’re his “PRIDE”. Most guys who love their lady so much sometimes end up boasting about her faithfulness to their fellow guys. So when you end up doing the opposite, you have only made a mockery out of him amongst his friends.

Finally what ever will be will be. If your partner is not meant for you just learn to let go don’t look at the years, sacrifice, pain and gain you both have spent. If you like go under the rain and pray if he or she wants to leave they will still leave but if you force it, you might end up regretting it.


You can add yours so we can learn one or two, it can be positive or negative things you learnt from your previous relationship.

true love doesn't exist ....if ur broke..truth

schumastic:



good thing you found out on time..some will hide theirs so well u won't even smell a dead rat but I believe their are good ones out there but the chances of meeting any s 1/100

Sure they are ......