ccollins:
sweetheart, no calls, no emails,, you just snub since makes me feel tired.. my phone can't use whatapp

refiner:


hehhehe u re indirectly calling d op a wizard den

INDUSTRIALFAN:
Isn't it Obvious he knows that already? He needs advice and not confirmation of what he just admitted....

Daily12:


Just her but i smile when i see young women in pain

KashyBaby:



There is no cure for sadist ppol boo...he knows what he doing and since he reach his gratification thru hurting his wife, nobody can't stop that unless his wife will come here to tell her side, then il be the first to advice her what to do...
For now, im done here.

INDUSTRIALFAN:
Easy on the guy Bae... A problem shared is one half solved. Me thinks dude is coming to his senses considering he has identified the problem and knows he is wrong. He is bringing it here to get help because like all addictions it is hard to stop if it brings pleasure. Me things he needs a Shrink because according to a later quote of his, he said he wasn't that way until after the marriage. The selfish actions of both his and his wife's Parents is what has turned the guy to what he is but it doesn't mean he can't get help...

That aside.... is that you @DP? You are beautiful....

HungerBAD:
You actually need help.

Memyselfu2009:
You would soon loose ur wife to a better man

9jatatafo:
Guy love your wife with all your heart and please don't let her pains be your turn on. You need a serious heart to heart talk with her.why cause your wife pains while having sex? Sex is for pleasing and pleasuring especially with your wife. I am sure there are some features you like in a woman that are very visible in your wife.

KashyBaby:


Sorry boo but this kind of addiction can't be cure by juz random comments..
He needs professional help..a psychiatric or a marriage counselor..somebody that will really understand them and give them both wife and husband a proper cure..
And btw that dp is obviously me.

INDUSTRIALFAN:
Yup... Random comments won't cure addictions but could lead him in the right direction, knowing what step next to take or referrals from people here who know good therapists and not just ANY therapist cos he just might end up burning finances and gaining nothing...

Back to your preety self... Had to ask if it was you cos almost all the Nairalanders I ve met( both guys and ladies) are usually nothing like what I imagine them to be. I was already giving up on the beauty of Nairalanders as most of them can claim Swag, brains and beauty....

KashyBaby:



Aha..so u met them in person? I.never met anyone here on nl yet...

Decker:


You smile....hmmm.
People only smile at things they are excited about or things they are happy seeing. Do you feel excited when you see women get hurt? Does a part of you enjoy it? Is it also sexual? Be sincere to yourself.

Did you feel this way prior to marrying your wife or was it after getting married to her that you started feeling this way?

Can you remember what it was that triggered this desire to see your wife get hurt, this sexual excitement from seeing her in pain? When did all this start?

INDUSTRIALFAN:
yea.... Basically, I get to meet with Nairalanders who I might have one or two business dealings with. I would love to meet nairalanders just for friendship sake but I have no Idea why nairalanders shy away from meeting people they've met on here physically... the last one I met physically was made possible because He had a car he wanted to sell and I was ready to buy it off him. That was the only reason he agreed to meet up with me. After our transaction, I tried to keep the friendship buh dude didn't seem interested so I just laid back. personally, I love to make new acquaintances business or not.... I love to make new friends.

KashyBaby:


Aaahh OK...well u shudnt collect random friends..a one or 2 wud be great..Too much friends will juz lead in complications..it's nice to meet ppol outside cyber world but bear in mind, most of them are not exactly who they are behind the screen...

INDUSTRIALFAN:
yea... I actually keep that in mind. It's the major reason I love to make new friends but have so few..
If you don't mind, hit me up on Instagram @ LORD_ILEX . We might get e-beaten(lol) for derailing

KashyBaby:


Aight I'll check u up

Daily12:
This might sound obscene to some people, as i do not intend to hurt anyone feelings but i seriously need help. I dont know if i can continue this or not. But i would be short and straight, and i hope you guys can help me. Please

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I married my wife 2 years ago and we were very young. Our parents kind of forced us into it. My dad said i must marry her so that he can cement his friendship and contract with her father. Her own Mum told her she must marry me so that the family business would continue and the name stands since its a joint venture. So, technically, our parents used us both for business! I was only 23 she was just 19 approaching 20. She was 20 the Sunday after our wedding. That is not really the problem here, the problem is I enjoy seeing my wife in pain! It turns me on when she cries or she is sad. It makes me feel closer to her.

And as a result of this, Sometimes i deliberately do things to hurt her feelings. I scold her at every opportunity! I pick a fault in her every action. I complain about everything. I even condemn whatever she does just so she can feel bad and possibly cry. That is my intention. It has become like a drug and i'm an addict. I cannot stay without it.

In fact, sex is not what i want even when we have sex i am aggressive and mean so she can feel excessive pain. It suppose to bother me but it doesn't, it makes me feel happy.

Long story short, I think i am not normal or maybe its a fetish i don;t know but whatever this is, my wife is at the receiving end of it and she is receiving the bad side. Please mature persons, i need your advice. Divorce is impossible, our parents would disown us. so that is why she is still around and i am not surprised she did not file for divorce or report my wicked actions. She is just "Swallowing It" because her father might just disown her or cut her off from his expenses. And same applies to me, i am starting to love her and i dont want to keep on hurting her and i was thinking of ending the marriage so she finds someone better but my mum said she must not hear it and i know my dad wont find it funny. So its impossible to separate from each other and its somehow impossible for the pain she is going through to stop because I am the pain, and i want to fix this.

Thank You all.

KashyBaby:



Aight I'll check u up