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Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by edoziebobbyyahoocom(m): 4:40am On Dec 12, 2015 |
i'm one of those introverted guys and i don't know why you guyz are making it sound cool i hate being the way i am most times.... i'm one of those introverted guys and i don't know why you guyz are making it sound cool i hate being the way i am most times.... |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 4:46am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Joy189:right. guys. this is the fate of all us introvert guys. we will dwell in the friend zone for a long time.. amen. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Classicman47(m): 4:56am On Dec 12, 2015 |
I think the worst part about being introverted, not just in romantic relationships but in any setting at all, is the fact that EVERYONE(note the emphasis) misunderstands you, even folks who are probably just as introverted themselves but are probably not aware that there is a thing called that. People everywhere look at you with suspicion. Like, you talk very little and mostly keep to yourself, that means you must have something up your sleeves,and it mustn't be something nice! Some outrightly antagonize you for no reason whatsoever. Some can dedicate a whole day observing you, trying to DECODE your behavioral patterns. Some believe you are just too full of yourself and wonder why a person can be so proud? As in like, wetin dey give this guy morale sef? Some will just ignore you completely! As for relating with the opposite sex, hmmmm, different story! I consider myself a Charmer(quite cute too, infact a guy once told me I fine like woman.lol). And I have yet to see a girl who wouldn't fall for my charmingly beautiful smile no matter how pretty. We can hit it off right the first time. I can even "number-close"(for those of you who know a thing or two about pick-up). But immediately after that, by some strange stroke of fate, they would stop answering after the first or second phone interaction or they won't even answer the first time(well except for those who are really needy and stuff). I don't know how that happens. The longest relationship I've had lasted about 6 months. And that was when I was in school and mostly just involved only sex cos I was too broke and too introverted to take her out most times(although she compensated for that by keeping multiple guys). I am fast approaching 30 with no girlfriend whatsoever. I don't want to believe its normal. But then again, I think of the fact that many years ago, I made up my mind that my major definite goal in life was to achieve Financial Security and so, every other thing(relationships inclusive) is a distraction since I don't multi-task. I will get married when I am ready. Afterall, having a girlfriend cannot be seen as an achievement anywhere. And on several occasions, I ve tested my "marketability" by asking random pretty girls to marry me. To which some smiled and said they would "pray" over it. So I don't think anything is wrong with me. Am good. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Classicman47(m): 4:58am On Dec 12, 2015 |
edoziebobbyyahoocom: Recreate ursef bro. And if u can't, then just live with it! |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 5:03am On Dec 12, 2015 |
RobinHez:dude, chill. if you read my diary, you'll find that I often act similarly. I tried for sometime to change my character, but I didn't succeed, so . . . i thought, what the hell, I don't give a damn. and so I've embraced my quirks. who cares about what others think of me, right? and I'm totally happy being nice to girls. sure, all of them will friend zone me anyway. but it's cool anyways. books can't friend zone me. 5 Likes |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Classicman47(m): 5:13am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Teempakguy: U won't get married to books. |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Tjango(m): 5:30am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Hmmm, I'm part of dis crew |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by daclint(m): 5:46am On Dec 12, 2015 |
U just defined me bro. |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Ruuhh(m): 5:54am On Dec 12, 2015 |
I wish there's a way I could thank you for this piece,short n precise. introverts are not user friendly but if/when a worthy person breaks that wall,they would have found paradise but ladies just won't learn. I've suffered this misinterpretation a lot this past six years, so unfortunate. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Trustworthiness: 6:06am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Hmmm |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by encryptjay(m): 6:10am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Op,stop exposing us. Geez! |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by davidichaba: 6:14am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Thank God i can post on nairaland |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by adsami1: 6:17am On Dec 12, 2015 |
petkruz: If u hv the guts, den ask him honestly gently appealin2tell u hw it happened.......shocker is u caused it, u pushed him off the edge in2dat low corner......im introvt, and my ex dd ds exact same2me for two yrs out of the four yrs we were 2geda....now its 1yr3mths sins i got guts2quit and im stl sufferin@dat corner but no feeln of unfogvns doh..........he doesnt lik outside tinz 90% den cut ur outsidenes 30% nd he wil adore u nd even push u out somtyms by hmsef! |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 6:24am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Classicman47:there's always bound to be an occasional girl. |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 6:26am On Dec 12, 2015 |
petkruz:Your ex needed a counselor…, and you had a role to play and help him become a better person, anyway its past now |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by MuyiRano(m): 6:29am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Rapmoney: One more thing... You won't believe us when we come online! we are bold 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 6:32am On Dec 12, 2015 |
I won't lie. introvert guys like me always get the bad girls to like them. it's always the psychotic, immature, and irritating girls that ever manage to fall for us. the sane ones always keep us in the friend zone. if that doesn't suck then don't know what does. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by claremont(m): 6:33am On Dec 12, 2015 |
This is the opinion of the OP, he could be right or wrong. |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by MuyiRano(m): 6:35am On Dec 12, 2015 |
OkeEsibe:Go meet/read CharlesNneji thread and ur game will never remain the same. He's a Prof in dis game |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by UnimkeAk(m): 6:37am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Rapmoney: That's me oh! . I loose interest very fast 1 Like |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Richiy(f): 6:38am On Dec 12, 2015 |
PushMusic:Thank God for you then. At least you think with your brain. |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Richiy(f): 6:40am On Dec 12, 2015 |
uglybuthandsome: I know it is individual differences, but why don't you just say it as you feel it Especially if you are certain the other party feels same |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Richiy(f): 6:41am On Dec 12, 2015 |
RobinHez:Seriously how hard can it be |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by oyeah786(m): 6:41am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Guy I think u did a good research on this topic keep it up. |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Richiy(f): 6:42am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Politicos: As long as it us true and genuine...you should say it. |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Craigston: 6:46am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Rapmoney:Your article is true. I agree without any reservation. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by babyfaceafrica: 6:47am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Cavenchy:I disagree,there are proper introverts,,,what you also need to know is that ther are several shades of introversion and also we have ambiverts who are both introvrts and extroverts...a lot of factors determin this things lik health,parents e.t..c....but for you to say there are no proper introverts and xtroverts is a fallacy...just say you hav not met any!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 6:48am On Dec 12, 2015 |
bibiking7:Like just call me a fαggot already, which one be nice guy |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by Nobody: 6:50am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Boomark:Hehehehe. Awon introverts Bet you're as quiet as a mouse offline |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by AdeniyiA(m): 6:51am On Dec 12, 2015 |
aim5: Part of our strengths is also being straightforward, we don't beat about the bush/we hit the nail on the head when we see a lady we like ,that's, where we're heading in the relationship. Unfortunately, many of the girls turn you down for straight talks... do they all want lies?? Though this may not be true for young introverts... 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Characters Of Introverted Guys In Romantic Relationships by donifez(m): 6:52am On Dec 12, 2015 |
Na me you describe so, reading and smiling,assimilating stuffs easily, always trying to know about something using my phone, Girls hardly date you even if you are handsome,Nice to a fault...sometimes i try not to be nice cuz they label you a fool, well i can't stop. Can help close pals to the best of our strength, we can fight ooh...though some think we can't ...we dey watch boxing for youtube ..practising shadow-boxing...don't try us ooh,can feign forgiveness but never forget and when the feeling comes back to us, it rises so high. We are cool if you understand us. Team introverts-creativity is our slogan. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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