jakmankind:
no be small to add to it I'm sure if you go to American embassy with this write up yuh visa is grantee to run for yuh life

Bros u said u want to make heaven abi? If u continue dis way with her u will not only go to hell but she will send u der soonest. Bro,flee for ur life &take ur daughter with u. U dnt hv any bizness wit such woman. U deserve a better wife & life. U cannot change her,she's on a mission to distroy u.

[quote author=samocholi post=41336082]
Greetings to u all,please I need a candid advise because am fed up and confused at same time.It all started in 2011 when I m

Firstly, I am saddened by the fact that you had to lose your job for this and you are so weak as a man to handle your wife. She actually taking advantage of your weakness.

Now, you are at her mercy, so she thinks but you must make your decision now. You will die in that marriage. She will not live long and you have only one life. She can't change.

Christianity and the stand ondivorce. You already have sufficient grounds to move on. You may be thinking "how do you survive" without a job and she is providing. Well you are already dead. He that is down, need fear no fall

My heart bleeds! I don't know what to say even though I've got a whole lot to say! Damn!

In the Bible, the only justification for a divorce is adultery. Your wife has committed adultery. You need to divorce her. She is sleeping around with other men and isn't using protection. Are you waiting for her to give you HIV before you leave? Because I know a couple this same thing happened to. The man gave his wife HIV after sleeping around.
You need to leave and you need to carry your daughter with you. She cannot be left in the care of a runs-girl lest she becomes one too.
LEAVE!!!

Mr!!!! Run for your life. Don't divorce her because its not biblical but separate from her. Move out and start afresh no point calling your parent or hers. They will still beg you. Just move out, if possibly with your daughter before she kills her too. But also seek a lawyers advice first before separating from her.






Run like you have never done before!!!!!!

Tallesty1:
You don't value your life bro

Separate yourself from her for now while praying and get the police to make her sign an undertaking that she will be held responsible should anything bad happen to you or your family considering her antecedents. You need to be away from her, if not we'll be reading about your obituary on nairaland.

my brother, religion is a fraud. act wisely, marriage is meant to be peaceful and not all this that you're saying.

Yoruba use to say a good wife is good to have,but a bad inlaw is not good. None worth having b'cos if ur wife kill u 2day ur inlaw can keep it a secret meanwhile u r gone. If u die 2day many men will pass ur grave and sex her. An if u continue with her n one more day she provoke u n u mistakenly kill her, PRISON or DEATH sentence await u. Firstly ! U never marry ur own wife. My advise leave her an face ur life. Any marriage that lack trust hold no life.

Is this for real? I think not!!!!

You must not allow place for the devil. The only scriptural ground for divorce is adultery or fornication. If you are sure she is into these games, the you may decide to go your separate ways. In so doing you have not offended God. But I blame friend who did not tell you initially that she was a cultists. Well, try to be prayerful and proactive.

Mhhhhh,you need God on this one bruv,forget your size this girl no just get mind but believe me she has killed before, was in this same situation but I didn't get to marry her tho,even if you leave that house for her and divorce her she will still wanna hurt you, you ain't dead yet but you're living in hell, bruv seek God wella,divorce her b4udie,leave with nothing but ur car, start a new life ,No do mistake start to dey drinkoooo

pls if everything u said is true flee from her,she is living under serious curses being a cultist,you are joking with your life,you have lost almost everything pray that you dont lose your life.the lady is deep rooted in evil.the parents cannot deny knowledge of her conduct

[quote author=Ibedionu post=41339753]Op, I really sympathize with you. Like my pastor will say, 'd worst thing after hell fire is a bad marriage'. U married your enemy that is why you're not progressing. please give her space for some time. Whilst seperated, go to God in prayer continuously ask for his help. He will help you.Please and please, don't continue living wt her unless you want to die soon. [/quote

The above said it all. Leave quietly before it is too late. It is only the living that can tell a story. You can later take your kid when she is of age. My two cents tho'.

@op, ur a man you need not to be told what to do. Your pastors and your family members don't run your life for you. You could had left that marriage a long time ago. Leave her and make sure u take ur children with you.

OP, where are you posting this from? Hell? Cos you are already dead bro.

If you are not happy in your marriage, you have a way out. It is called DIVORCE!!!!!
NB: Marriage is not by FORCE or By FIRE!!!!

Tallesty1:
I didn't read all but I learnt from the little I read that the op is dealing with a woman who was an ex cultist, a runs girl, and a husband beater.



And e be like say she get personal native doctor because she get plenty jazz for cupboard too.

chai see perfect summary in two sentences. please give me the permission to be quoting you if the need for summary arises

Long story. If This is real, please get off that marriage.

ahnie:
I have learnt not to jump tu hasty conclusions on nairaland,and tu be one sided....oga no offence,we need tu hear your wife's own side of this unside down marriage.

The only sensible post i read after many pages. You said it rightly.

Shiite!
Please kindly divorce this woman!

From being a comfortable mugu, you turned and became a foreign mugu. You ll leave the marriage when you die. Nonsense

Op u don't value ur Life coz if u do u would have simply take a walk, and from ur write-up der is nothing like LOVE in ur marriage in d first place. Save ur head y u can bro marriage is not do or die affair. God forbid bad,if something should happen 2 u 2mmorrow DAT woman u can ur wife will just mourn u for 1months and move on with her life, and I doubt if DAT baby his ur own....So think and act fast.

Take d marriage to Jesus.I believe there would be remedy.

danidee10:


This might work too...but remember say na cult girl dem no dey fear anything

Them dey fear FEAR. I finish for uniben and I know their type... Once you show them real madness, their head go cool. Once them see say you soft, dem go use you like mumu still hold you tight so you no go leave them.

thiscounts:
Hmmm.Get this into your head;see beyond the physical appearance of the woman with you...begin to see her for what is she spiritually.

She has sold her soul to the devil by choosing the wrong path of life by being into cultism back in school.Many evil things she has been exposed to...many atrocities she has commited.Weep for her not because she chose her path but weep for yourself for devil has chosen your home to stay.And ( s)he has only one mission in your life to frustrate your faith and drag you from the little hell of home you have now into the eternal Hell fire.

You are into a big battle you can not win while you are still in the same battle ground with her.You've got to change the battle ground from the home she has filled with her soldiers of demons.

Seek for another apartment and relocate without her getting to know the place and if you do not have the money squat with a friend that she can't trace.That's going to be your own battle field to win this war.You don't need your pastor or your families or relatives of anybody in this..just you alone and your soul.

Do some soul searching of what you might have done wrong in the past,your job inclusive..could this be a comeuppance or what...be sober and seek for forgiveness, then fire your missiles of prayers against her.

Do not go back to the house again and courier your divorce letter to her doorstep and win the war from far.

As for your daughter you can report child abuse to the police and direct your sibling with the police to get her.

I repeat do not step back into the house once you leave because her spell will bind your sense of reasoning as it has all this while.

Are you still here reading?

Free yourself from bondage...run!run!run!!The woman with you is agent of Devil.You have no wife nor marriage!

...and to add...the first time you brought her home to your parent that she surprise them with early morning sweeping of the house..guess what she got them first under spell before she got you.Sweeping the home gave her access to some corners and areas of the house which ordinarily she wouldn't have had access to plant and hide her charms.

No wonder they couldn't free you from her grip.You are living with a demon from the pit of hell.She will take you in except you escape now!

Take ur marriage to Nairaland,LIB,twitter,FB and see it dissolved but take it to Jesus and see it resolved.

@OP......I won't advise that you stay in marriage with someone that plans to kill you, am sure she will be happy when you both separates.....so bro find you way out and go with your daughter. only the living can tell stories. please allow her to continue in her pitfalls while u move on with your life.

The only solution 2 this issue at hand is for to divorce her before she send you 2 ur early grave.

Samocholi,
To be sincere with you, it's best you leave that marriage. I think with thus whole story, the time is already too ripe . Haba! So you mean she slept with a married man that poured sperm inside her ? That your wife is really nasty, sorry to say.How can a woman chase her husband with a pant over 5k for something as frivolous and useless as make up? ! Jesus Christ!

Op you left things for too long. You should have left with your dignity. Still leave now and also be very prayerful.

Jesus! This has to be a nollywood movie.

Op you mean after all these, you stay put? That woman need a violent man to make her quiet each time the devil enters her. But seriously, you have chosen of the fastest way to die.