Whatever you do,do it very well . My story after Bsc Electronics engr, Msc Computer Sci I worked for a few year job finish I drove a TAXI TO PUT FOOD on the table and then went back to Engineering tingy 25 years latter I will retire in a year so my question to you was I stupid, by the way I really LOVE driving a cab in windy city you make your decision

holysam14:
I am a graduate from Adekunle Ajasin University Akungba Akoko i study survey and few month after my NYSC i got a job at one construction in Lagos this company really pay me well i av been working for them for close to 5 years now but since April 2014, no work and since then i av been struggle to get another work but all to no result i av a wife and kids the small shop my wife is managing is far not enough to take of the kids not to even talk of paying bills. As this struggle goes on i saw a company who needed a dispatch rider and i applied luckily i was employed and to start work on Tuesday the 5th January 2016 the pay is 35k per month though i will av the bike in my possession which mean i am not going to pay for transport at all the fueling and the maintenance of the bike will also be done by the company. the issue here is that my wife doesn't want me to take this job just because of the risk involve, and also there are rumor that the construction company i worked for may call us back to site as early as January. so i'm confused here and i need a serious advice. thanks

Take the bike and work...If they call you back, you resign and move on. gaskia!

DopeBoiRapy:
....taking the seriousness of his situation if u wia in his shoes would putting up this for discussion on internet b an option for u?

I've read all you typed and I came to the conclusion that your problem is simple ignorance, immaturity and inexperience, because the best way to make good decisions in life is to borrow from other's experiences, listen to their advice, learn from their mistakes and then you will have a better understanding of your own predicament which would help you make a more informed decision.

And where else do you have access to as wide a range of experiences than on the internet? If you have a lick of sense in you, you'll learn to utilize the internet for your own good, instead of trying to discourage someone using the most advanced and comprehensive source of information in the world today.

awa:


You have a point of concern but sometimes our individual approach towards resolving issues might differs but I feĺt you were a bit rather harsh. Besides I was expecting you to make your contribution but you ended up focusing on expression of disappointment in him.

Is well shaa

u atleast understand my point of view n i get urs...but dat doesn't any way lessen d disappointed i feel for d o.p...smh a grown married man wit kids.....to me he doesn't take dis seriously

khalhokage:


I've read all you typed and I came to the conclusion that your problem is simple ignorance, immaturity and inexperience, because the best way to make good decisions in life is to borrow from other's experiences, listen to their advice, learn from their mistakes and then you will have a better understanding of your own predicament which would help you make a more informed decision.

And where else do you have access to as wide a range of experiences than on the internet? If you have a lick of sense in you, you'll learn to utilize the internet for your own good, instead of trying to discourage someone using the most advanced and comprehensive source of information in the world today.

i dont care wot u think

DopeBoiRapy:
i am disappointed dat as old n mature as u are u look for advice on the internet....wot r u trying to teach ur kids wen they reach to make important decisions in lives...Man Up!!! Ur suppose to b leading a family.

Check ur bloodline thoroughly n it may marvel u wen u find out u decended from adolf hitlers bloodline. Nobody knows it all n I don't think seeking for advice n ideas have become a crime in any part of d world. So if u aint gonna lend an opinion, u zip up ur proud mouth.

I will advice u go spiritual bro. It's a tough decision.

holysam14:
I am a graduate from Adekunle Ajasin University Akungba Akoko i study survey and few month after my NYSC i got a job at one construction in Lagos this company really pay me well i av been working for them for close to 5 years now but since April 2014, no work and since then i av been struggle to get another work but all to no result i av a wife and kids the small shop my wife is managing is far not enough to take of the kids not to even talk of paying bills. As this struggle goes on i saw a company who needed a dispatch rider and i applied luckily i was employed and to start work on Tuesday the 5th January 2016 the pay is 35k per month though i will av the bike in my possession which mean i am not going to pay for transport at all the fueling and the maintenance of the bike will also be done by the company. the issue here is that my wife doesn't want me to take this job just because of the risk involve, and also there are rumor that the construction company i worked for may call us back to site as early as January. so i'm confused here and i need a serious advice. thanks

you will not have the bike all to your self ooo. u will only use it during office hours for office errands ehenn

khalhokage:


I've read all you typed and I came to the conclusion that your problem is simple ignorance, immaturity and inexperience, because the best way to make good decisions in life is to borrow from other's experiences, listen to their advice, learn from their mistakes and then you will have a better understanding of your own predicament which would help you make a more informed decision.

And where else do you have access to as wide a range of experiences than on the internet? If you have a lick of sense in you, you'll learn to utilize the internet for your own good, instead of trying to discourage someone using the most advanced and comprehensive source of information in the world today.

if u don't knw wia to draw d line den ur a fool

DO NOT LISTEN TO YOUR WIFE OOOO
Maybe she wants you to get a Porsche job.
Do it till they call you back to the previous job.

...

And your English makes me wonder whether they used Yoruba to teach you throughout your stay in school.

DopeBoiRapy:
i am disappointed dat as old n mature as u are u look for advice on the internet....wot r u trying to teach ur kids wen they reach to make important decisions in lives...Man Up!!! Ur suppose to b leading a family.

No man is an Island, and he who feels to know it all is the biggest fool.

DopeBoiRapy:
i am disappointed dat as old n mature as u are u look for advice on the internet....wot r u trying to teach ur kids wen they reach to make important decisions in lives...Man Up!!! Ur suppose to b leading a family.

sharap ur stinking mouth dere.....seeking advice has nothin to do with age.

see Inhlish ...cus its obviously not English.

DopeBoiRapy:
i am disappointed dat as old n mature as u are u look for advice on the internet....wot r u trying to teach ur kids wen they reach to make important decisions in lives...Man Up!!! Ur suppose to b leading a family.

Problem shared is half-solved, stop acting like u knw it all.

tunergy:



I am sure you want to exhaust your supply of stupidity before you take up a new delivery on Jan 1

from your reasoning it is obvious u are highly dope on weed...dopeboi fool

Discipleship:


I"m more highly disappointed for you to come here and vomited this trash..Programmed Fool.

Award for Best response on Nairaland 2015.

You made my 2015 end well. No gay bro but I love you scatter. Cos we shared the same line of thoughts I wanted to type. As in complete programmed fool of the century...#pissed

Discipleship:


I"m more highly disappointed in for you to come here and vomited this trash..Programmed Fool.

U should knw he is a Drop out of sch and a pathetic fool

@ Op its a hard decision no ones advice can be the best I tell you just be patient, follow ur hear and make sure your are led before taking an action because if I were to advice you it might be and might not be the best. #Best Advice#

checking on the validity of this story.I don't think aaua has a course called survey.I stand to b corrected.

A bird in hand is worth two in the bush. Please take this job and IF your former employer calls you back, you can always resign.
Or aren't you tired of your wife being the breadwinner while you seat around and do nothing??

Please remember that you have a wife and kids to take care of and providing for them should be your primary concern, not your ego or what your wife thinks

DopeBoiRapy:
u cant do any better fool!!!

I can see you are an epitome of a brainless buffon.

Joy83:
My fellow AAUAITE, well done sir...

Take the one at hand and when they eventually call you back, you return there.
At least you have assurance that you will not become a RIDER all through your life as a family man.
Idle hand is a devil's workshop!!!

Go 4 d job, as soon as ur formal company call u back quit that ur bike job an go 4 ur formal company. And pray abt it 4 ur save journey

Discipleship:


I"m more highly disappointed in for you to come here and *vomited* this trash..Programmed Fool.

Who was your English teacher?
I'm highly disappointed in you cos you literally littered the thread with bullets!

This is a simple decision, take d new job when ur former co calls u back u go for it.... but if ur confusion is abt the risk, the pay, the prestige etc, I don't knw what to tell u.... how come u are telling us ur sch, Nysc, and course of study.....that's lame....it won't help us advice u nah

DopeBoiRapy:
i am disappointed dat as old n mature as u are u look for advice on the internet....wot r u trying to teach ur kids wen they reach to make important decisions in lives...Man Up!!! Ur suppose to b leading a family.

Asking for counsel isnt a bad tin. U shld hv proferred a solution oda than attack.

Dbrainiac1:

Who was your English teacher?
I'm highly disappointed in you cos you literally littered the thread with bullets!

Sorry bros the dude shouldn't have tread that road,Op need our opinion instead he received beaten..

holysam14:
I am a graduate from Adekunle Ajasin University Akungba Akoko i study survey and few month after my NYSC i got a job at one construction in Lagos this company really pay me well i av been working for them for close to 5 years now but since April 2014, no work and since then i av been struggle to get another work but all to no result i av a wife and kids the small shop my wife is managing is far not enough to take of the kids not to even talk of paying bills. As this struggle goes on i saw a company who needed a dispatch rider and i applied luckily i was employed and to start work on Tuesday the 5th January 2016 the pay is 35k per month though i will av the bike in my possession which mean i am not going to pay for transport at all the fueling and the maintenance of the bike will also be done by the company. the issue here is that my wife doesn't want me to take this job just because of the risk involve, and also there are rumor that the construction company i worked for may call us back to site as early as January. so i'm confused here and i need a serious advice. thanks

Your English is atrocious, Jesu Kristo

abimbawealth:
A bird in hand is worth how many in the bush...uhn?

proverbs are useless until u relate it to the scenario at hand.

Discipleship:


Sorry bros the dude shouldn't have tread that road,Op need our opinion instead he received beaten..

Kain!!! again, chai I don sign out!

take this one first and look fforward foer another one