My theory is based on this order:

*while in secondary school, they believe he's in a tertiary institution.

*while in tertiary institution, they yet again believe he's rounding up nysc or already a graduate trainee.

*while in their service year, they think he's somewhere in the country, with 2-3 years of working experience but yet to locate them.

*while they are graduate trainees, they still think he's in his late 20s or early 30s and fully ready to pop the question as soon as he locates her.

*while in their late 20s, with 3 years working experiences, they probably believe he's somewhere within and probably he's a matured guy who happens to start life late and just starting out as a graduate trainee or some other entry-level job.

*the wild goose chase continues.

*vicious cycle that is hard to break go on and on.

Wouldn't you agree?

Cos dey av not been there

It's called social change and change in social interaction, its normal even to both sex not only to the female folks.

In pidgin, its known as "levels don change".

Aspiration it is. We aspire to attain something better and improve on our socio-economic strata. For one to achieve something, they must first set a target and then design a master plan on how to actualise the targets. Everyone hopes to climb the social ladder not ladies alone.

But it becomes foolish when a lady aims at meeting a more financially stable partner without working indefatigably with zealousness to improve on her own life. They have to prove they deserve a hardworking partner and beauty alone is not enough reason to attract one.

Your points are complete tight.

When they are in secondary school, University boys use them.

When in 100level university, 400level boys use them.

When they get to final year, youth corpers and graduates use them.

When they are corpers, working class use them.


this are reasons why a girl needs to keep are virginity till wedding night.




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