FL Gators:

Why I go pay for?

na2day?:

for one u are getting the most handsome man in the world, two, i am the only guy with a 7 pack

FL Gators:

LOL, while you're making yourself believe this, Imma go pop some corn and watch some movies.

Adios, my dreamer

Miss EZ:

For me to agree to marry him, it means he has the qualities i want in my future partner. Marriage is a give and take thing. I think i can sponsor my wedding and it has nothing to do with being desperate.50/50 is the name of the game

Miss EZ:

For me to agree to marry him, it means he has the qualities i want in my future partner. Marriage is a give and take thing. I think i can sponsor my wedding and it has nothing to do with being desperate.50/50 is the name of the game

na2day?:

oh yes, those stupid naija movies, run along then

FL Gators:

Lol, loser, STEP UP na naija movie?

Miss EZ:

For me to agree to marry him, it means he has the qualities i want in my future partner. Marriage is a give and take thing. I think i can sponsor my wedding and it has nothing to do with being desperate.50/50 is the name of the game

C2H5OH:

fixed it for you there you go.

FL Gators:

Step UP is not naija movie.

FL Gators:

LOL, I 'm pretty sure since I'm watching it on TBS.

na2day?:

see ur life? ur mate dey watch nba finals on abc u dey watch tbs, yeye dey follow u oo

FL Gators:

No, my mate dey. . . . Make I no talk am.
NBA ko ABC

~Lady~:

I can, but I won't. Abeg he needs to prove he can take care of me jare.

seriously, we'd share the bill.

But in the U.S. it is customary for the parents of the bride to foot the bill.

BP:

     “If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the principal difference between a dog and a man.”
Mark Twain


From the stories of women who have tried this, they end up regretting it. Eventually, when the man finds his feet, you will expect him to appreciate u for being there when he was down. But what he will do will be to seek out a woman he can truly woo and win on his own terms. In his mind he'll see u as the woman who emasculated him and he will seek to prove his manhood and freedom outside.

A woman should contribute to the wedding BUT for the good of the man and the woman, she SHOULD NOT foot the entire bill of the wedding. It's a shaky foundation to build a marriage on. Instead, go for a small wedding and the man MUST contribute his own quota.

Totally true!!
No matter how religious or sainty he may be, his ego will surely rise the moment he is up to his feet. Its better to support rather than be the man at foundation level. Little did you know that one of the qualities that make him my man is the topic.

emmydee:

@ BP:

This is very much unfounded! you it is unfair to generalize this.Even men who counted their money to handle all d costs of a wedding to jolt d lady later, meanwhile, some men who could not sponsor their weddings still live happily with their spouses, so pls dont say what u are not sure of.

Aloy.Emeka:

A man should be able to pay for his wedding 100%. Its the 100% that is a variable. If i can afford a 10 thousand naira wedding, i will tell my fiancee how much I have to spend on wedding but if she wants a 100 thousand naira wedding, then that is her problem.

Any man that puts an ad like that online is a correct efulefu. He will not only marry and knock you up like they did to tpiah, but they will run with your resources. You won't know how he looks in 5 years time.

No_wahala:

For a guy to post that he has no intergrity, but a desperate woman to go after such a man thinking she would be incharge she's only deceiving herself cos there is always a richer lady out there with open arms ready to take the man from you after all he is a gold digger.

But sponsoring or co-sponsoring your wedding with a serious minded man who is trying to gather things together while you the lady has already does not sound like a bad idea.

LADIES
Do not be of the school of thot that ladies can't help their men financially