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Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Joel3(m): 2:30pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
An open debate with fact and what's happening around in the society. how about living together as boyfriend and girlfriend and then grow old and die? will a life not be completed or fulfilled? is it a must to tied the knot? you see when the registrar is been signed and the whole thing becomes legal biding in both religious or traditional acceptances of marriage in mate I think that is when a lot of things goes wrong. don't give me the bullshiit that its for better for worst. many innocent victim are been blind folded into signing this shitt. and they will tell him or her to remain in it forever. I am an advocate for this shit to be destroyed. I know in 22nd century this thing called marriage institution will be destroyed . many single hide their true self and wait patiently for the scam called marriage to be signed first before true color is out. definitely not me except ofcource I have my own interests 200% otherwise no thanks and no deal cc: lalasticlala, seun. |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Nobody: 2:39pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
because ur culture says so n i think its beautiful besides being legit |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by lordizak(m): 2:41pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
tie the knot, not nut. U need to edit. |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Joel still dey Nl? |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by agitator: 2:48pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Try ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Joel3(m): 2:50pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Oyind17:how do you mean? and I don't remembered of knowing you? or maybe u change ID. |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Joel3:yes I changed my id , happy new year |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by StefanSalvatore: 3:03pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
If there's notin lyk marriage den would u av bn in existence ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by missKiffy(f): 3:03pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Whats our own, if you dont want to settle down wetin concern us 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by tpiar: 3:14pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Why why why are nlers always in other people's business instead of their own! what concerns you if other people are getting married! Are you not able to marry? ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Joel3(m): 3:15pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Oyind17:OK, happy new year to you too. |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by KanwuliaJara: 3:17pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
You OP should get married ESPECIALLY. . . . because of YOUR SAD REPUTATION as a FAILED playboy ON AND OFF NL!!!! It becomes highly EMBARRASSING when you end up in the ER or MORTUARY, and you always have to skip the "next of kin" section AT YOUR BUHARI AGE. ![]() You can live as companions without marriage, BUT YOU MUST HAVE A LIVING WILL AND TESTAMENT!!! Who will handle your affairs when you STROKE OUT with NL WAHALA? ![]() No one to smell your CORPSE if you DIE and ROT alone in your cockroach-infested mansion, FILLED WITH THE STENCH of old ashawo pants under your bed WITH NO ONE TO CLAIM YOUR CORPSE? ![]() Even BART SIMPSON get wife! ![]() You wanno live and die like Linda Ikeji? ![]() 2 Likes
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Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by SAMBARRY: 3:27pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
KanwuliaJara:haba na.be nice ![]() This is new year na .no rudeness please ![]() And please cover your brez before you're accused of seducing anybody ![]() |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Joel3(m): 3:27pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
KanwuliaJara:you are wrong what if one still choice to have a child, does it means one must signed the marriage registrar before having a child? I have seen 60 years old getting married to his partner after they already lived together and have grown up kids. |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by KanwuliaJara: 3:30pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: Where is the rudeness? ![]() I was only being ASSATIVE! ![]() Seduce monkey? ![]() Abeg, my brezzes need breezes!!!! ![]() |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Joel3(m): 3:33pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
it seems to me I have won. I WON, I WON, I WON. HAHA I WON. FEEL SO GOOD. |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by SAMBARRY: 3:34pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
KanwuliaJara:your post is very harsh and unkind ![]() Especially the last paragraph ![]() Lol @seducing monkeys ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Nobody: 3:34pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
tpiar: |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by KanwuliaJara: 3:34pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Joel3: How can you win with only half a page of dry rants? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by KanwuliaJara: 3:36pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: That is your opinion. Did the OP state that? ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by KanwuliaJara: 3:39pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Joel3: Please, what is your current status? To start this kind of thread, you need to practice what you are PREACHING. Don't give us examples of what others are doing. I ask again? Na which one you get now? ![]() |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Joel3(m): 3:41pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
KanwuliaJara:no I am not married and i don't choose to. |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by SAMBARRY: 3:44pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
![]() KanwuliaJara:oya cover your breasts. It's ungodly to be exposing your breasts because your body is the temple of God ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Nobody: 3:44pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Joel3: There is nothing wrong in living together as boyfriend and girlfriend and I agree that for many couples things go wrong after marriage because people become too comfortable once the knot has been tied and have no motivation to please their significant other anymore like they used to since they take him or her for granted. And yes, you can have a very fulfilling life with or without marriage. don't give me the bullshiit that its for better for worst. many innocent victim are been blind folded into signing this shitt. and they will tell him or her to remain in it forever. I am an advocate for this shit to be destroyed. I know in 22nd century this thing called marriage institution will be destroyed I have never thought of for better and for worse like this. For worse means to me that I will be there in sickness and in health, when you struggle financially or not, when you lose your job, when your parents need to be taken care of and when they pass away and in all other sorts of situations that life confronts us with. I have never thought of for worse in terms of abuse or infidelity. Spouses are asked and required to honor and respect each other. If one of them decides to break these vows, why should for worse still apply? many single hide their true self and wait patiently for the scam called marriage to be signed first before true color is out. definitely not me except ofcource I have my own interests 200% otherwise no deal It has never happened to me, I am too smart to be deceived. ![]() Apart from the reasons you have mentioned above for why people decide to marry, I will share more reasons with you, which are rather pragmatic in nature: - tax benefits - rights in case your husband / wife has an accident and is in coma and can't decide for him-/herself - custody of the children - family name - inheritance laws It all depends where you reside of course. 1 Like |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by KanwuliaJara: 3:44pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Joel3: Ok! Choice respected. Now, respect the choices of others who choose to get and STAY MARRIED!!!! ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Joel3(m): 3:49pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
tpiar:because I am sick and tired of reported cases on social media lately of people living in agony and hell for signing that scam registrar. only looking for ways to address this reoccurring situation every day |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by KanwuliaJara: 3:49pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: Brezzz festival in Swaziland? You nefa see? ![]() At least I cover 50%!!!!! ![]() As for "the temple of God", you know where I SIT on such matters! ![]() |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by chii8(f): 3:56pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Huh? |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by tpiar: 3:58pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
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Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by SAMBARRY: 3:59pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
![]() ![]() ![]() KanwuliaJara: |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Joel3(m): 4:07pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
![]() as for the better for worst part, it mostly on intolerance of partners. where divorce is seen as sin or sacrilege. one will wonder for a smart and educated person and even after attending numerous counseling still want a divorce then something is really wrong with it. or do you mean they didn't do their home work properly? if that is it. then we often see marriage counselors and pastors who also find themselves in the court for a divorce ruling. |
Re: Convince Me Why One Should Get Married, & I'll Convince You Why One Shouldn't by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Joel3: I don't know about most but surely many, not mine though! ![]() as for the better for worst part, it mostly on intolerance of partners. where divorce is seen as sin or sacrilege. one will wonder for a smart and educated person and even after attending numerous counseling still want a divorce then something is really wrong with it. or do you mean they didn't do their home work properly? I don't see divorce as a sin. I see it as a reasonable or unreasonable decision depending on the circumstances. I think that most counseling is crap. This is what I think. The success rate of marriage counsellors is very low. I don't know what you mean by homework but I think that many marriages fail because people have all sorts of wrong expectations. if that is it. then we often see marriage counselors and pastors who also find themselves in the court for a divorce ruling. Like I said, too many marriage counsellors are not qualified to give proper advice. 1 Like |
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