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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 1:30pm On Jan 10, 2016
Mzdivacious:
so how did u know they lieddid u proove it?



Are u guilty ni, if u are not guilty u don't need to quote me. Its a public forum I aired my opinion
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jan 10, 2016
scentmarlc:




Nice esosa. Is dat an edo name?


Thanx




Yea it is
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Mzdivacious(f): 2:04pm On Jan 10, 2016
esosa993:




Are u guilty ni, if u are not guilty u don't need to quote me. Its a public forum I aired my opinion
please since its a public forum n wasnt dm'ed,thats y every member on nl has d right to quote u

a lot of guys allege a girl lied when theyr told she s a v.its immature thinking to me.why wud she lie,is it getting her paid...smh
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jan 10, 2016
Mzdivacious:
please since its a public forum n wasnt dm'ed,thats y every member on nl has d right to quote u

a lot of guys allege a girl lied when theyr told she s a v.its immature thinking to me.why wud she lie,is it getting her paid...smh





whatever girl am outta here
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Ayo199(m): 4:48pm On Jan 10, 2016
dechibs:


dude i didnt say all...i meant majority od them,am a female u re nt
yes you are female and am not...and you are not a virgin either...
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by suzzy16(f): 6:48pm On Jan 10, 2016
Estharfabian:
In other words, She should wait for A Non-Virgined dickhead masking in the name of ''Husby" to come rob her of that pride??grin seriously?


isn't that A little Irrational??grin hypocritical? lame?
You should advise girls on Sleeping around rather than saying Virginity makes A woman Complete! It's Hogwash!

if A lady is over 26+ and Isn't married and just maybe, she happens to have A Boyfriend whom she loves and adores, I don't see why she shouldn't go for it!? What if she doesn't wanna get married? she should remain a virgin till she dies? Aba! Marriage isn't meant for everyone!


the main thing's do what Makes You happy and don't be too slutty in the process! life's way too short!

Please and please! do away with those old-fashioned Mentality!
thank u. Dear,u hit d. Nail on d
Head

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by dechibs(f): 7:38pm On Jan 10, 2016
Ayo199:
yes you are female and am not...and you are not a virgin either...

phew..... U wish..... Wat i say is my own opinion nt an expression of my personality.....
Think Big
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by dechibs(f): 7:38pm On Jan 10, 2016
Ayo199:
yes you are female and am not...and you are not a virgin either...

phew..... U wish?..... Wat i say is my own opinion nt an expression of my personality.....
Think Big
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Ayo199(m): 1:51pm On Jan 12, 2016
dechibs:


phew..... U wish?..... Wat i say is my own opinion nt an expression of my personality.....
Think Big
....Go n sin no more
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by noblegrex: 11:53am On Jan 23, 2016
Vikky014:
SWEET SIS DNT MIND THOSE PEOPLE THAT LAMENT ABOUT VIRGINS They r just too jealous of virgin girls...so if u r still one please keep it for ur own good and make sure u hv a good character
nice talk. Are you sure you're a lady at all. Cos you reason like a man. I met a virgin but she's got no good behaviour I had to let go even when I wanted her so much.. The point is virgin + good behaviour.infact kudos to you..you realy made a lot of sense there.. But if one find love and she's not a virgin but maintain good attitude,then you can just make do of that.you've got no choice.but there will always be a question mark on the TRUST.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by 3rdlegxxx(m): 4:07pm On Jan 25, 2016
GloryIsaac:
No matter how ladies pretend about hating
sex, they fantacize about it, they wait for it;
and look for it because all humans are
born
with primal sex urge.
This is because in today's progressive
society, ladies are scorned for their choices
especially when it comes to keeping their
virginity, therefore, they all pretend (both
virgins and non virgins) they are not
interested in sex at all.
Don't tongue lash me cos I'm not trying to
say that every virgin wants to get laid, but
as a general rule, the point is that sexual
urge for intimacy is a respecter of nobody

ISAAC 2 CRATES OF SMALL STOUT FOR YOU AND A CRATE OF ORIGIN PLUS 4K ASSORTED SUYA, YOU SPOKE MY AND KILLED THE TOPIC, FOR GET RELIGION AND ALL THIS forming, sexual urge is inate, everyone feels it, the conversation about virgins and non virgins is something else, i am more concerned about her being fun to talk to and have around, open minded, witty amongst other things.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by 3rdlegxxx(m): 4:11pm On Jan 25, 2016
IamLucy:
the legal age to lose virginity here is 16 grin still a virgin.
There's nothing wrong with that. I personally
am just waiting for someone I won't regret
giving it to, someone I actually have feelings
for.and not because religion said so.
Does that mean I'm eager to lose it? Nah. I'm
fine waiting for just the right moment with
just the right guy, whether that's in the next
three months or next three years; whenever.
which is a personal decision.not because i'll get a medal for it.
only nigerians seem to think virginity gives "dignity" or whatever.sit your shallow ass down.thats a very narrow_minded, primitive thinking.stop living in the stone age. grin
i'v seen virgins divorce after a year & non virgins actually retaining their marriage.that is to say virginity doesnt guarantee successful marriage.it all boils down to a person's character.

Thank goodness you are a girl, i just can't stomach it anymore, i don't get where being a virgin makes you a better person.

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by 3rdlegxxx(m): 4:15pm On Jan 25, 2016
If a girl is a v, good for her, if she is not good for her, how does that even change anything in this modern day, virgins and non virgins are getting married every other weekend, virgins and non virgins are making it, becoming successful, being inventive and all, you guys should stop boring me with all these silly virgins talks, when i see a girl i like or am talking to one, the last two things that comes to mind are virginity and tribe, those those just don't cross my mind, the way every one here is making a big deal beats like if you are a virgin, it automatically makes a more fun and happy person, or it automatically makes you better at cooking, dancing, singing or a better doctor, a better engineer or whatever... pissed already!!
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by IamLucy(f): 4:29pm On Jan 25, 2016
3rdlegxxx:


Thank goodness you are a girl, i just can't stomach it anymore, i don't get where being a virgin makes you a better person.
nigerians are mostly hypocrites.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by 3rdlegxxx(m): 4:48pm On Jan 25, 2016
dechibs:
For me thier is no longer pride in virginity.... Dat word has being abused for so long... U see girls dat av dated 7 guys, nd all ov them has kissed u squeezed ur boobs sum has even seen u unclad....nd u will b forming virgin dat u kept ur diginty....dats trash...go back to histroy nd find out people who are being described as virgins....
Everytin abt dem frm dia head to toe has nt being touched sexually by any one both M nd F.......u hardly see a society were 15 out of 20 girls have virgin lips.. At age 8.....xo pls op dis thread is shit*

lol, now this is a new dimension, you mean even our new school virgins are not even fit to be called virgins, shuo!!! this thread won't kill me with humor grin grin grin cheesy
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jan 25, 2016
3rdlegxxx:


ISAAC 2 CRATES OF SMALL STOUT FOR YOU AND A CRATE OF ORIGIN PLUS 4K ASSORTED SUYA, YOU SPOKE MY AND KILLED THE TOPIC, FOR GET RELIGION AND ALL THIS forming, sexual urge is inate, everyone feels it, the conversation about virgins and non virgins is something else, i am more concerned about her being fun to talk to and have around, open minded, witty amongst other things.

Thanks Man.. Nice one wink
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by chubbyswit(m): 8:50pm On Jan 25, 2016
misspicy:

My Nigga wink

don't tell me you are arguing virginity with an obviously perforated person,who says virginity makes a woman complete...I lmao grin at that statement,what can I say,they have been brainwashed, it is after the marriage they will come to their senses,when the so called respect and love isn't forth coming,they think virginity equals respect and love,well we are here and we see them all,BTW no eediot should quote me wrong,its a good thing to remain a virgin and have one sexual partner all your life,at least your brainwashed selves will be happy, and have a false sense of fulfilment,no one is encouraging a virgin to go and lose it to any random guy,if you want to remain a virgin till marriage please do and carry your so called dignity with pride,but stop brainwashing yourselves that that is what
makes you a complete woman,in our society, having a child is what makes you a complete woman,not virginity every girl was born with a closed vagina....

and some girls are born ugly with zero body endowment, and no guy is calling on them,they end up as by force virgins gringringrin lmao grin

btw i know a couple of virgins who have anal sex,who masturbates,who suck dicks and have their vaginas sucked too,their hymens are still intact i guess we can call them virgins too gringrin
kwakwakwawakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa


my opinion,doesn't make me a virgin or non virgin undecided it makes me a woman that I am,because virginity does not dictate my happiness in life or marriage,virginity does not define the love of my husband for me,virginity does not define my husband's respect,my character and disposition makes me a whole woman,my ability to push out a human being.
By their chats we know them fools
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by mikki123(m): 9:00pm On Jan 25, 2016
[quote author=Shortyy post=41765124] OK, I read something here yesterday about men and why they shouldn't care about virgins. As usual 95% of them men would rather marry a non virgin than marry an inexperienced naïve blaa blaa girl. Kai smh!
Now back to the matter. I wasn't impressed with that article at all. It was as if it was encouraging the girls to go on and loose themselves. I'm not saying she wasn't right in a way, but! A virgin girl reading that at that moment might say, "oh soot, what's the point if he's still gonna marry me after all?" But he might not. So please keep it. They'll tell you how important it is that you lose it, how you've become of age and shouldn't keep it anymore, how they'll know if you're compatible for them, and all kinds of BS, don't do it as long as you know yourself and you are clean, don't do it, if he loves you, he'll stay.
Remember ladies, a girl's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout the Bible here or what they tell you on Sunday school. I'm talking bout you as a girl. Your virginity is your pride, your dignity, it's part of your self respect. So keep it! Forget about those that have lost thiers for nothing, they wish they could turn back the hands of time.
That man who found out that his wife was a virgin on their wedding night, won't only love her, but also respect her for the rest of their lives. Girls, be wise.


The moment you fall in love, you wont have any option than to loose it.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 9:18pm On Jan 25, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
Abeg kip quiet

If keeping ur virginity will help u stay sane and improve ur useless self image,then by all means. No one is stopping you, it is ur vagína afterall.

But to then open ur mouth and start misyarning about stuff u obviously know nothing about is a travesty.

Just because you turned out to be a virgin on ur wedding night makes absolutely no difference to anyone but urself. it might make u feel like you've achieved some life long goal,but that doesn't apply to ur partner.

See this is exactly why virgins are useless. just because you managed to keep a thin membrane covering the entrance to your vagína intact doesn't mean you deserve respect. What dignity and love ur husband bestows on you has nothing to do with ur virginity.

.mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww, all these dumb bítches and their misplaced sense of entitlement.

#SmH
Why should I be called a ‘dumb bítch' for a decision that I made because I darned well felt like it? Lol I think you're silly

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by IamLEGEND1: 10:40pm On Jan 25, 2016
misscastle:

Why should I be called a ‘dumb bítch' for a decision that I made because I darned well felt like it? Lol I think you're silly
do you have comprehension difficulties?

no one called virgins,or non virgins,for that matter 'dumb bítches'.
The point is,do not expect some kind of worldwide adulation just because you still have some weird covering over ur vagínal opening.

It's ur choice,an excellent choice obviously.... and that's how it should be-UR CHOICE,wic means it should stay personal.
bt this OP,other bimbos alongside,obviously expects men to worship the ground she walks on just because she's a virgin.
So am I being clear enough now or do we have to go over this again ?
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by jashar(f): 11:04pm On Jan 25, 2016
smileyOP, virginity doesn't make you a complete woman. Jesus does. Virginity is good, but se.xual purity is even better.

God loves us all.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jan 25, 2016
IamLEGEND1:

do you have comprehension difficulties?

no one called virgins,or non virgins,for that matter 'dumb bítches'.
The point is,do not expect some kind of worldwide adulation just because you still have some weird covering over ur vagínal opening.

It's ur choice,an excellent choice obviously.... and that's how it should be-UR CHOICE,wic means it should stay personal.
bt this OP,other bimbos alongside,obviously expects men to worship the ground she walks on just because she's a virgin.
So am I being clear enough now or do we have to go over this again ?
grin Lol I agree with what you're saying.. I just had an ish with the ‘dumb bítches' part.. and just for the record, I've got no ‘comprehension difficulties'
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by IamLEGEND1: 11:38pm On Jan 25, 2016
misscastle:

grin Lol I agree with what you're saying.. I just had an ish with the ‘dumb bítches' part.. and just for the record, I've got no ‘comprehension difficulties'
Toh ya yi kyau! cheesy

Kar ka je gidan sorayinka ka kwana fa.....if not,ze yi maka wancan abun.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Nobody: 12:07am On Jan 26, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
Toh ya yi kyau! cheesy

Kar ka je gidan sorayinka ka kwana fa.....if not,ze yi maka wancan abun.
Sorry but I don't speak Hausa well.. so where you from?
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by 3rdlegxxx(m): 1:41am On Jan 26, 2016
IamLucy:
nigerians are mostly hypocrites.
Follow back lucy, let's chat
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Vikky014(f): 6:16pm On Jan 26, 2016
noblegrex:
nice talk. Are you sure you're a lady at all. Cos you reason like a man. I met a virgin but she's got no good behaviour I had to let go even when I wanted her so much.. The point is virgin + good behaviour.infact kudos to you..you realy made a lot of sense there.. But if one find love and she's not a virgin but maintain good attitude,then you can just make do of that.you've got no choice.but there will always be a question mark on the TRUST.
Lol. I'M a lady sir. yes u r right about the trust issue...gud pm

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Omoluabi16(m): 11:30am On Feb 12, 2016
suzzy16:
thank u. Dear,u hit d. Nail on d
Head
2016..where decency,virtue and morality has become 'old-fashioned' smh.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by suzzy16(f): 2:03pm On Feb 12, 2016
Omoluabi16:
2016..where decency,virtue and morality has become 'old-fashioned' smh.
lol
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by Omoluabi16(m): 2:11pm On Feb 12, 2016
suzzy16:
lol
its thru now..im not saying virginity is a password to greatness, agreed it's difficult, and most of us due to our weakness we fall.But does thay make it right? NO.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by tomdon(m): 11:11am On Feb 27, 2016
Estharfabian:
One tiny question..


Are You A Virgin??undecided
if You Ain't, then, You my deluded friend are just plain stûpid....

Buh if You Are...My Apologies.

you're fighting a battle you've already lost. why are women born with the channel covered unlike men?
granted, you've lost yours, I advise that you hope that you find a man who doesn't mind, don't try to rubbish those who cherish their pride. you're just making a fool of youself because they have a life of advantage over you

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Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by tomdon(m): 11:39am On Feb 28, 2016
pamellla:

am not discouraging anyone here...my point is they shouldn't look down on those that are not...ts a thing of pride but dey shouldn't go over the moon....there is a reason behind every action!

no one is looking down on you or others that are not.
Re: Girls, Keep Your Virginity! by texanomaly(f): 2:51am On Mar 11, 2016
joseph1832:


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