Busy_body:


[s]F*&*^^% B$%^ H(&&^* L$£$%^ [/s]  Not to worry love, its not like we need it urgently so take your time babe, love you shnukums Meanwhile I will just kneel down here to massage your feet until you finish the food i served you so that you would not have to bother raising the glass to your mouth to drink or have to wash your hands yourself.

I will even pick your teeth when you are done eating and run your bath and wash you down so you would have a good night sleep, my lord. And whilst you are sleeping, i will handwash your clothes and get out and iron the one you would be needing for tomorrow, oga mi

steve49ja:

You know any?

If you do not know any, you must be moving with the wrong crowd!

platinumnk:

@ steve do u want a women or a pet??


those things can be done,

but after a

40 hr week

tutoring the kids

making sure the house is clean

more overtime at work lol for RN's

Cooking food for the house including ur huge pan of fufu

u want her to wash u down?!!!

u trying to kill the girl!

steve49ja:

G lady. . personally i dont believe you can have both. . you know the problem with senator's daughter's? pride. . mannerless. . . i know a list of ladies that are well to do but you can bet they have the money and have lost those little qualities a bloke's looking for.


Platy. . . Its not about being a pet. . .you must have heard stories of babes who earn more than their husbands and you know what house/home is always about. . . no joy. .  husband constantly humiliated. . .frustrated it gets to a point a bloke could commit suicide . . . i tell ya it gets to a point the wife seperates tha husband from his kids . . . Independent ladies haaah! a lotta trouble!

smooooooth:

had one independent gal, had too many male friends,

when i see her with one, and i ask who is he,

her response: ''say something else abeg'' 

didnt wait to find out what marriage wil look like.

Busy_body:


Well if Sistawoman can so can I, God help me

steve49ja:


Oh My Dear all of this for me? Wonder what i did to earn your loyalty. . .you sure you not planning to execute me love? lol I really liked the new trick you pulled on me on tuesday. . . cant wait to have you in the shower with me forgot to tell you i bought that jelly cream you said we'll be needing, would work wonders licking the iced cream on your chest down your stomach and  .
Come home soon

Thats another thing can an independent lady do alla this for her guy?? ?? I mean we all want an Independent lady sometime in our live but also aint there things you'll know consider and still prefer your depedent lady?? ??

smooooooth:

. u finally got more than u can chew. goodluck

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nah! she aint into runs, very hard working babe. i just didnt like the response, dou i know she got nofin with the,

i expected an explaning, at least.just goes to show she doesnt regard me as a MAN figure. its normal with all them

independent women. they have the ''you cam go to hell/ i dnt give a shit attitude.

[quote author=platinumnk link=topic=286201.msg4057690#msg4057690 date=1245428847]
I believe in equal fair share.

Why should the woman do all this after working 40 hrs?

u cant have a working wife and a stay at home mom.


sisterwoman is my role model,  

steve49ja:

Does it get to your head?
You never demand for anything?
You still have respect for him?


And just why does every lady wanna claim independent??

smooooooth:

u may be the cause. you shld know all them ladies want u

and if what u want is an independent womwan. TWTF!

they all just got independent. goodluck!

Busy_body:


Not so fast, I have got my sultry eyes on you too I haven't made a move on your sexy self yet, cos I am still trying to figure out how to accommodate you, thats all. hang in there, you will not have to wait for too long

smooooooth:

see the wahala with being independent. u openly trying to hook 2 guys on same thread.

without giving a f**k.

Igwe.:

@ Busy_body
Hope you 've not counted yourself as one of dem miss inde 'cos you 're not

sistawoman:

I have to admit that I did not read thru the second page of this thread but here are my thoughts right now:

It takes a real man to deal with, understand, love and appreciate an independent woman.

Independent women tend to have an air of arrogance about us. We dont need you, but we want you, we can do it on our own, but know that we don’t want to.
Independent women tend to try to break their men and bend them to their will. But when we do break them we no longer want them.

A real man knows this going and sets the perimeters for the r/s from day 1.

He does not bend to her will and wont ever bend to her will.

He will love her the way she needs to be loved and will still respect her independence, because it is what attracted him from the start.

He will cherish, cultivate and praise her independence and go get it attitude because he understands that if hangs on for the ride she is taking him all the way with her.

He knows that his game has got to be tight, his goals set, his life in order and ready to stake claim to that woman or someone else will see the treasure that is her and take her away.

He understands how to gently and correctly put her in her place and that she loves and craves for a man to step up and do the dam thing.
For that he will be rewarded with loyalty, and love and she will bend over backwards to make sure his needs are taken care of and wont think twice about how she appears to be submissive to outside world. Cuz she knows that she is Miss Independant and does not need to wear it on her sleave for everyone else to reconize.

All those whining about independent women should shit or get off the pot.

sistawoman:

I have to admit that I did not read thru the second page of this thread but here are my thoughts right now:

It takes a real man to deal with, understand, love and appreciate an independent woman.

Independent women tend to have an air of arrogance about us. We dont need you, but we want you, we can do it on our own, but know that we don’t want to.
Independent women tend to try to break their men and bend them to their will. But when we do break them we no longer want them.

A real man knows this going and sets the perimeters for the r/s from day 1.

He does not bend to her will and wont ever bend to her will.

He will love her the way she needs to be loved and will still respect her independence, because it is what attracted him from the start.

He will cherish, cultivate and praise her independence and go get it attitude because he understands that if hangs on for the ride she is taking him all the way with her.

He knows that his game has got to be tight, his goals set, his life in order and ready to stake claim to that woman or someone else will see the treasure that is her and take her away.

He understands how to gently and correctly put her in her place and that she loves and craves for a man to step up and do the dam thing.
For that he will be rewarded with loyalty, and love and she will bend over backwards to make sure his needs are taken care of and wont think twice about how she appears to be submissive to outside world. Cuz she knows that she is Miss Independant and does not need to wear it on her sleave for everyone else to reconize.

All those whining about independent women should shit or get off the pot.

steve49ja:

Nice write up but you see : the kinda man you describe is more like a perfect man who are scarce. . . those dont apply to an everyday man gurl.